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Thread started 08/18/10 2:09pm

CarrieMpls

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2 years ago today....

I just realized, it was 2 years ago today that I quit smoking.

After I quit I gained 30 pounds in about 4 months and while I allowed myself to wallow in food for a bit (after all, it started to taste so much better!), I still got quite depressed about it. Then one morning I had to run to catch my bus and realized I wasn’t all out of breath when I got on. A few weeks later I took up running.

I’ve since run a couple of 5k races and the 10 mile race I did last year. And while I’m slow I have never come in last. I also paid more attention to my diet and took up yoga and as I started dropping weight and continued my practice I gloried in my teacher calling me “graceful”. Something I’d never been called before. I lost 50 pounds over about 7 months and have kept that off (within a few pounds here and there) for 9 months.

I also managed to purchase my first home – something I never thought I’d be able to do without a partner. And I’m coming up on my one year anniversary of my closing date. I still smile every day when I get off the bus and look up at the gorgeous, historic building I live in.

Then in April of this year I met a really wonderful man. As most of you know, I had given up all hope of EVER finding a decent relationship. It was certainly something I wanted, but I really didn’t think it would happen. And here I am, happily in love. No idea where it's going yet, but it's good where it is for now.

When I first quit smoking and saw my success I had an overwhelming feeling that if I could do that I could do just about anything. I just realized I’ve forgotten that over the last few weeks and months and have started to fall back into old habits. Today is a good reminder.

Anyway – many of you have been around to offer kind words and support as I went through all of this. So I just wanted to say thanks. smile

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Reply #1 posted 08/18/10 2:12pm

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woot! X INFINITY exclaim

Yay for you! I totally look up to you in so many ways biggrin hug

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Reply #2 posted 08/18/10 2:13pm

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Carrie, I hate to be a cheese, but this has really put a smile on my face!

I'm so proud of you and happy for you. You seem so healthy and content with your life right now, and that is beautiful. You deserve all the good things that you're experiencing, and I'm sure they will continue on for a long time heart

If you will, so will I
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Reply #3 posted 08/18/10 2:14pm

Efan

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Congratulations on all of this, Carrie! That's all amazing and wonderful, and you really deserve it. I hope the good things keep coming to you.
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Reply #4 posted 08/18/10 2:15pm

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OMG, touched

this was so great to read!

http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=393561765678&ref=mf



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Reply #5 posted 08/18/10 2:16pm

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This is a very nice read nod

Quite motivating and full of positivity. I needed to read something like that tonight.

Cheers!

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Reply #6 posted 08/18/10 3:11pm

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woot! hug CONGRATS!!!

It's been about 4 months for Ron. He started out with Chantix (a few times) then just went cold turkey.

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Reply #7 posted 08/18/10 3:13pm

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johnart said:

woot! hug CONGRATS!!!

It's been about 4 months for Ron. He started out with Chantix (a few times) then just went cold turkey.

Oh and woot! on all the other wonderful things you've accomplished as well, of course. nod

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Reply #8 posted 08/18/10 3:27pm

CarrieMpls

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JerseyKRS said:

OMG, touched

this was so great to read!

http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=393561765678&ref=mf

dancing jig

That is sooooooooooo awesome!!! lol

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Reply #9 posted 08/18/10 3:29pm

CarrieMpls

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johnart said:

johnart said:

woot! hug CONGRATS!!!

It's been about 4 months for Ron. He started out with Chantix (a few times) then just went cold turkey.

Oh and woot! on all the other wonderful things you've accomplished as well, of course. nod

lol

Thanks!

And yay for Ron!!! I wonder if he feels as great about it as I did. If he doesn't yet, I bet he will. It seriously motivated me to improve on SO much.

btw - I've been meaning to tell you - I use the bags you gave me as my lunch bags for work. They are soooooooooooooo cute and people are always checking them out when I'm walking back and forth from the fridge. giggle

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Reply #10 posted 08/18/10 3:30pm

CarrieMpls

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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

woot! X INFINITY exclaim

Yay for you! I totally look up to you in so many ways biggrin hug

hug

Big hugs, Richard. hug

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Reply #11 posted 08/18/10 3:31pm

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thekidsgirl said:

Carrie, I hate to be a cheese, but this has really put a smile on my face!

I'm so proud of you and happy for you. You seem so healthy and content with your life right now, and that is beautiful. You deserve all the good things that you're experiencing, and I'm sure they will continue on for a long time heart

I'm really happy for me too. smile

As I said above, it was really good for me to take a few minutes today and realize where I am and where I've been. I've been feeling not so great about things and been in a bit of a slump and when I look at things objectively, there's just no good reason for that. Time to turn back around.

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Reply #12 posted 08/18/10 3:32pm

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Efan said:

Congratulations on all of this, Carrie! That's all amazing and wonderful, and you really deserve it. I hope the good things keep coming to you.

Yay!! Thanks!!

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Reply #13 posted 08/18/10 3:41pm

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Congrats!!

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Reply #14 posted 08/18/10 3:48pm

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So in other words, quitting smoking will lead to not just becoming healthier, but buying your own home and finding a man. I wish all smokers could read this thread. CONGRATULATIONS, CARRIE! hug

Now the next question is when you and the bf decide to cohabitate, does he move into your house?

edit: Doesn't automatic spell check work on the org anymore? confused

[Edited 8/18/10 17:03pm]

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Reply #15 posted 08/18/10 4:14pm

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Carrie, you really are an inspiration! I feel like if I could make positive changes as you have, then things might turn around for me too. I'm so glad you're in a happy place. You've worked so hard and deserve it. woot!

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Reply #16 posted 08/18/10 4:23pm

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thekidsgirl said:

Carrie, I hate to be a cheese, but this has really put a smile on my face!

I'm so proud of you and happy for you. You seem so healthy and content with your life right now, and that is beautiful. You deserve all the good things that you're experiencing, and I'm sure they will continue on for a long time heart

nod

I agree...so many great things in your life. biggrin

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Reply #17 posted 08/18/10 4:33pm

ZombieKitten

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I'm going to take up smoking just so I can QUIT and be like you!

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Reply #18 posted 08/18/10 4:34pm

Nothinbutjoy

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Congratulations Carrie!

woot! rose

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Reply #19 posted 08/18/10 4:41pm

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ZombieKitten said:

worship

I'm going to take up smoking just so I can QUIT and be like you!

Then you'll find a NEW man!

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Reply #20 posted 08/18/10 4:44pm

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sextonseven said:

ZombieKitten said:

worship

I'm going to take up smoking just so I can QUIT and be like you!

Then you'll find a NEW man!

cool! but mostly I want to be good at running.

Yesterday afternoon I ran to school I was so late falloff making a normally 20 minute round trip into an 11 minute one lol

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Reply #21 posted 08/18/10 4:50pm

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ZombieKitten said:

worship

I'm going to take up smoking just so I can QUIT and be like you!

falloff

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Reply #22 posted 08/18/10 4:56pm

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hug

thanks for sharing! I am happy for you and this serves as a reminder to me also, to be grateful for where I am because looking back is not always pretty. giggle

congratulations!

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Reply #23 posted 08/18/10 5:08pm

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hug i really appreciate you sharing that! im proud and inspired! ..not to run tho...disbelief

.....I would have a meal prepared in my honor every year to commemorate! yay!

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Reply #24 posted 08/18/10 5:12pm

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Such an inspiration hug

Congrats on all your hard work girl !

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Reply #25 posted 08/18/10 5:38pm

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That is awesome! clapping sun

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Reply #26 posted 08/18/10 6:04pm

CarrieMpls

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ZombieKitten said:

worship

I'm going to take up smoking just so I can QUIT and be like you!

falloff

You're silly, Charlotte. lol

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Reply #27 posted 08/18/10 6:05pm

ZombieKitten

CarrieMpls said:

ZombieKitten said:

worship

I'm going to take up smoking just so I can QUIT and be like you!

falloff

You're silly, Charlotte. lol

and you're an inspiration kiss2

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Reply #28 posted 08/18/10 6:07pm

CarrieMpls

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sextonseven said:

So in other words, quitting smoking will lead to not just becoming healthier, but buying your own home and finding a man. I wish all smokers could read this thread. CONGRATULATIONS, CARRIE! hug

Now the next question is when you and the bf decide to cohabitate, does he move into your house?

edit: Doesn't automatic spell check work on the org anymore? confused

[Edited 8/18/10 17:03pm]

oh goodness. lol

I said I don't know where it's all going yet. So I guess we'll have to see.

I do know I have to live in my place for 3 years to keep the first time home buyer's tax credit I got, so I'm here for at least another 2 years. If I want to live with someone before that time is up it's going to have to be here.

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Reply #29 posted 08/18/10 6:09pm

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CarrieMpls said:

johnart said:

Oh and woot! on all the other wonderful things you've accomplished as well, of course. nod

lol

Thanks!

And yay for Ron!!! I wonder if he feels as great about it as I did. If he doesn't yet, I bet he will. It seriously motivated me to improve on SO much.

btw - I've been meaning to tell you - I use the bags you gave me as my lunch bags for work. They are soooooooooooooo cute and people are always checking them out when I'm walking back and forth from the fridge. giggle

That's perfect. giggle

He feels good about it. He still thinks about a cig daily, but feeling good. I'm trying to get us to work out some and get healthier. I'm still bad about portions. redface

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