thesexofit said:

INDEED I HAVE.

I have a crush on my female boss for about one year...

Genesia said:

She is kinda cute. What's her name?

I am always the girl that her friends have crushes on. For me I like no LOVE men.

novabrkr said:

As far as I can tell from this and other threads, there are certain ladies on here who identify as straight but could definitely more accurately be described as bisexual.

I'm not one to dictate another's sexual identity, but saying "I've had crushes on women and may have got freaky with one or two but I am TOTALLY STRAIGHT" is, well, silly.


Ditto for the "straight" men who've had dudely action. Just own up to your bisexuality, folks.

No. I'm strictly heterosexual. However, I have had friends/acquaintances/coworkers whom I suspected had a crush on me. Never any outright sexual overtures, but sometimes I'd catch a look or a gesture but it never affected my relationship with them. They remained friends/acquaintances/coworkers. No biggy.

meow85 said:

According to my mom, you are on one side of the fence or the other. You cannot be both.
That was part of the conversation we had when I told her that I had a girlfriend.

MrsMdiver said:

Agreed. I mean nothing wrong with swinging whichever way your libido takes you, but I always thought that if one isn't strictly hetero, then there's no in between. I'm sure others will disagree...

meow85 said:

Mmkay, what if you identify as being a straight woman, but chase drag queens? What does that make me (BESIDES a tranny-chaser)?

Acrylic said:

You do realize that drag queens and trannies aren't the same thing. Right?

Acrylic said:

A rather typical female Prince-fan?

Oh what the hell...

Novabrkr said:

Genesia said:

Of course I do... but like 6 different drag queens have called me a "tranny chaser". I'm not thrilled with the term.

novabrkr said:

Genesia said:

I'm sure she does now!

JustErin said:

I did before; trannys want to BE women, drag queens want to DRESS like women. I've just been called that term BY drag queens, and I'm not thrilled with it. Hence why I was asking for a better one.

I've just always wondered what that would "classify" me as. Something about a man who dresses and acts like a man all the time, and then to perform or occasionally goes out, dresses like a woman... I've always hated the term, "Tranny Chaser" because I'm not attracted to men who wish they were/taking actions to become women... just men who doll up time to time. But I don't know if bisexual qualifies because they still are men...

And when one's sexual orientation/fantasies/experiences come into play... where is it discussed?
The ORG, that's where!

Shyra said:

So if a person sleeps with, say, 50 different members of the opposite sex, but has had same sex relations twice or so, that automatically makes them gay?

You're right, I disagree.

sextonseven said:

I disagree too.

I made out with a chick simply to see if I would like it. I didn't...but guess I'm gay now too cuz I did it.

JustErin said:

And why doesn't that "strictly" logic work the other way? That if one isn't strictly homo then there's no in-between? Why is the breeder club so exclusive that if you break one rule, you're out?

Shyra said:

I just told her that I did not like being on one side or the other, I enjoyed sitting ON the fence.

She was all confused!

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novabrkr said:

Applies.
Person.

MrsMdiver said:

You can be both...

MrsMdiver said:

Tell your mom I say that's crap.

Shyra said:

Er, there IS in between. Plenty of people reside there quite happily. Just because someone who only likes men or only likes women cannot fathom being attracted to both, does not mean that's the reality for everyone.



Seriously? People who doubt bisexuality just because they don't personally get it =
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Acrylic said:

All that means is human sexuality is a lot more fluid than purely straight and purely gay. Figure out on your own how you feel comfortable identifying, and don't worry about it so much. Sexual attraction is just not a binary system.


At any rate, drag queens and transsexual women are not the same thing, so even if you do dig drag queens it doesn't make you a "tranny chaser".

meow85 said:

THANK YOU... because I hate that term.

Acrylic said:

Even in terms of people who are attracted to transsexual men and women I don't like the term. IMO it's insulting both to the transperson and to their suitor.

meow85 said:

That.

It's why I like the term "queer." It encompasses so much variation.

I have platonic crushes on girls/people all the time. When you first meet and/or get to know a new friend and think OMG this person is AWESOME.

But I've never wanted to bone a girl.