Episode 2...
This is about the same guy I had the hotel "situation" with....
So last Tuesday, he texts me telling me to come over, because he misses me. I missed him too, so I go over. We kick it, doing what we used to do and all...So Thursday night I go over there, and he's like "we're getting ready to go play!", and by that he means he was gonna drag me over to some guy's house with him he was hooking up with. The cab ride over there, he's flirting with the driver, because he knows his dad, and he's all in the driver's business, asking him about his girlfriend and shit, and he says "I wish I was your girlfriend, so you could be fucking me" wow... I went with him, but while he was on the other guy, I was on him, and he was getting irritated because I wasn't all over some guy I didn't know, and who was clearly uncomfortable with me being with them. So the other guy falls asleep on the other bed, and "Jaime" and I stay on the bed. I'm still horny, so I'm all over him, because I just wanted to be with him and not the other guy. He starts getting irritated for whatever reason, so we both fall asleep. The next morning we go to get coffee, and ONCE AGAIN, he brings up the fact that I don't have a job yet, and he THINKS that the reason I'm not working is because I'm lazy, which couldn't be any farther from the truth, yet, in his mind he is convinced, and wastes no time telling other people that whenever I'm with him. So I'm trying to talk to him, and the whole time, he's staring at some other guy... We get on the bus to head back to the house, and he tells me to go home, because he's going to see his mom....I've been around him enough to know that "mom" was code word for "bath house" ....So I go home, only for him to tell me to come over the next night "after he gets home from work"...I go over there thinking we're going to spend time together (when will I learn...) and he's focused on watching the olympics. So once AGAIN, I'm all over him because I want some attention, and I KNOW he didn't call me over there just to watch him watch t.v. I'm bored so I take my sketch pad out and start drawing, then all of a sudden he wants to kiss me, so I kiss him back, mind you, this is during a commercial break, then he throws me off of him, and I go back to drawing. Then the rest of the night and early that morning he's pissed at me for nothing, and has a straight up attitude problem. I take a nap, and when I wake up, he's on facebook, and he's eating a kit-kat, and throws the rest of the pack on my stomach, and I say "what's this, a peace offering?", and that REALLY pissed him off! He gets mad and says "Why do you have to be such a fucking smart ass all the time?" and I said "Because you're mad for whatever reason, and I didn't do anything to you!" and he says "If you're gonna be an asshole, you can get your shit and leave.", which I waste no time doing. Then while I'm getting dressed, he tries to start an argument about me starting arguments!! He's not even interested in sports, so I don't know why he was watching the fucking boring ass olympics anyway. Anytime some white athlete came on the screen, he started fawning over them like a fucking school girl. And when I first went back over there, he claims he was texting me since we last talked, which is a baldheaded lie, and claiming that he missed me and was lonely, yet, showed me pictures of other guys he's been with since we last talked. And I asked him if he missed me SO much, and couldn't reach me through text, why he didn't call the house or e-mail me? And he claims he didn't have that information....I'm sick of the fucking bullshit. I am SO fucking done. Sheesh.

He sounds like a major douche/tool who knows he can just string u along and can make u jump and run 2 him like a little puppy whenever he feels like bein bothered with u.....kick his ass 2 the curb....u deserve betta. I know it's difficult when love is involved.....but sometimes love ain't enough 2 stay around.

SHOCKADELICA1 said:

You're absolutely right. He had me BOUND around his finger, and I'm thinking that he'll see that he's the only guy I want to be with, but the feeling wasn't mutual. Sure wish I could get my time back.

ScarletScandal said:

Lawd I know how u feel.....

life is just a fair bitch.... ..and the bitches know that.

You mean love from one side.....It's ugly and horrible feeling I know....

Sometimes I love someone and they have no idea about my feelings.....

And Sometimes someone loves me and I have no idea about their feelings...



In both cases , there is no reciprocation but at the end I have to be nice to everyone so you I could not hurt their feelings....
[Edited 2/16/10 11:50am]

What do you do when you're the other one? When you're the one that's loved and you don't really love that person any more? Because my ex-wife keeps telling me she loves me and trying to act all wifely and I really don't love her like that. We're just temporary roommates. I feel like an asshole for saying as much, but it's kind of stressful almost.

You're still dealing with this shit at 26?? Drop the drama.

lazycrockett said:

say what?

ScarletScandal said:

Drama = this guy. There no reason to waste time on someone or something that seems to enjoy playing with your emotions.

that's just too much to read.

lazycrockett said:

Blah...

The guy feels stressed and he needed to talk about it on here, Whats so wrong....

seeingvoices12 said:

Exactly...sheesh!!! Anyway, I'm not talking to him anymore. I just needed to vent a little.

Billmenever said:

but it's worth it!

Dayyyuummm!!! Y'all gay guys be havin' some SKRAIT DRAMA!

Listen hon, not for nothin' but you seem like a cool dude with a heart. Ditch this loser! You can do better and it's insulting and degrading to have somebody play games with you like that. You need to lose his number and burn his photos. Total cleansing. I say this because I think you will go back to him and you need to kick his ass to the curb then double kick him under a speeding bus. He's just not that into you.

DesireeNevermind said:

DesireeNevermind said:

Chile, you ain't say NOTHIN but the truth!! Don't you know I was sitting here about to text him, then I remembered that I already deleted his number out of my phone. I'm on my way to get tested, cuz I didn't and couldn't trust him one fucking bit!!!

ScarletScandal said:

3 months from now you will be mad that you ever gave that fool a minute of your time. Assuming he is even a passing thought by then.

this is re-diculous.