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Printablefriends say first labor is the worst. maybe because it's new experience? i can't imagine how some women give birth without the assistance of pain numbing drugs. | |
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DesireeNevermind said: friends say first labor is the worst. maybe because it's new experience? i can't imagine how some women give birth without the assistance of pain numbing drugs.
 I did!~~~~~ Oh that voice...incredible....there should be a musical instrument called George Michael... ~~~~~ | |
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tinaz said: DesireeNevermind said: friends say first labor is the worst. maybe because it's new experience? i can't imagine how some women give birth without the assistance of pain numbing drugs.
I did!and you're still alive?  
okay how on earth did you survive that? I was with my friend when she had her daughter and when i saw that head come out of that pussy i about  and her screaming and making that face was just 
p.s. and she was on that drug they inject into your spine. [Edited 10/19/09 16:56pm] | |
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ZombieKitten said: MoniGram said: I agree...I could never forget. I was traumatised by first labour, I should probably have got some kind of counselling. I would cry in the shower every day when nobody could see me for months after. It wasn't the pain as much as it was the pain making me NOT feel like a human being, nobody seeing me as a human being at the time or being treated like one. Yes I know the baby was priority number one, but I was there too  I don't know if I want kids now.unlucky7 reincarnated | |
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DesireeNevermind said: tinaz said: I did!and you're still alive?
okay how on earth did you survive that? I was with my friend when she had her daughter and when i saw that head come out of that pussy i about and her screaming and making that face was just
p.s. and she was on that drug they inject into your spine. [Edited 10/19/09 16:56pm]  unlucky7 reincarnated | |
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They have books that help you with birth... unlucky7 reincarnated | |
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peacenlovealways said: ZombieKitten said: I was traumatised by first labour, I should probably have got some kind of counselling. I would cry in the shower every day when nobody could see me for months after. It wasn't the pain as much as it was the pain making me NOT feel like a human being, nobody seeing me as a human being at the time or being treated like one. Yes I know the baby was priority number one, but I was there too I don't know if I want kids now.it's probably just the doc who attended me (actually come to think of it, two docs  )
it should be a rule in the labour ward that a doctor introduces themselves and makes eye contact with the labouring woman BEFORE they plunge their hand in up to the elbow  | |
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ZombieKitten said: peacenlovealways said: I don't know if I want kids now.it's probably just the doc who attended me (actually come to think of it, two docs )
it should be a rule in the labour ward that a doctor introduces themselves and makes eye contact with the labouring woman BEFORE they plunge their hand in up to the elbow [Edited 10/19/09 18:47pm] unlucky7 reincarnated | |
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DesireeNevermind said: tinaz said: I did!and you're still alive?
okay how on earth did you survive that? I was with my friend when she had her daughter and when i saw that head come out of that pussy i about and her screaming and making that face was just
p.s. and she was on that drug they inject into your spine. [Edited 10/19/09 16:56pm] Eww, how sweet of you to promise your friend to attend but you could not possibly know. When I was giving birth, I had a nurse and a female gynaecologist with me and the nurse said she would take a mirror to show me my son's head popping out. When she put the mirror down there and I looked into it I was in such a shock that I screamed "hell, is that what all of you have to look at? I feel for you!". They laughed so hard. For them it seems to be normal, they witness it every day but it's just plain gross. Everything is just... exploded, with blood and hair and you look like a baboon, it's ugh. The nurse even filmed.... she said I shouldn't worry that much, I would appreciate it a lot that it was taped..
Only watched it once in the beginning. Isn't it called epidural? I believe that was written on some card. I was shaking all the time (had been laying there for over 14 hours with throes exciters in a drip) so they gave me voluntarily an injection in my back but they couldn't inject because the needle kept bumping into a vertebra (now that's a nasty feeling, the needle against and between vertebras). So after trying for 20 minutes it went in and they had to give me twice the dose which was permitted but it didn't work at all, I still was in great pain. You just have to let it come over you, nothing else to do at that moment. | |
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