Everyone is bisexual

I'm not stating this as if it were pure fact; rather, I think it's an interesting theory that, to me, could very well be possible.

I mean, honestly, how many people have you known that have either a) flip-flopped sexual orientation, once or more, or b) confessed to having some form of attraction (if not outright experience or relationship) with someone of their not usually preferred gender? For me, it's damn near everyone I've come across in life. Very rarely have I ever met a person who seems genuinely completely heterosexual or completely homosexual. The gays I've been friends with all have had opposite-sex crushes or been in opposite-sex relationships before... most of the hetero's have confessed AT LEAST to having a same-sex crush at some point... and the bisexuals... me included... have been all across the gottdamm Kinsey scale and back.

So honestly, if straight and gay are really the predominant orientations (they say bisexuality is that wild-card, in-between one), then what is up with all the flip-flopping and wavering that so many people do in the first place? If anything, totally heterosexual and totally homosexual are either rare, or they don't exist at all. That's what I think, anyways.

What are your thoughts?

I'm definitely not bisexual. I'm a female who is attracted to and dates men only.

Irish Diplomacy: The art of telling someone to go to hell, and having them look forward to the trip.

My give a damn is busted.

Just dig pussy only, but cool with everyone and respect everyone.

Kurt said this. But he only said it to piss homophobes off.

Hmmmmm.... I'm gay, but I've dated women.

Of course, I dated them, not because I was interested in them, but because I felt like I needed to be like everyone else and was afraid of being hated or physically hurt. I came out when I was 24... now I can't imagine doing anything sexual with a woman.

I think some women [not all] can flip flop easily. I don't think it's as easy for men and I don't think I know any man who has flip flopped.

Again, hmmmmm.....

what?

I don't think so. Nature doesn't seem to limit itself to one particular category in anything, so I doubt it would here.

I think there are heterosexuals, homosexuals, bisexuals, pansexuals, asexuals, and probably some categories I've forgotten to mention. I also think a gay man can sleep with as many women as he wants--he'll still be gay, and not bisexual. I know a couple straight guys who got a little worked up at certain moments with a man, but I don't think that makes them bi necessarily either. Your sexuality isn't defined by who you have sex with.

Efan said:

I can be very fascinated by a girl's hotness and get into the makeout/titty feel up thing, but that's as far as it goes.

No I don't believe everyone is bisexual.

I also don't subscribe to the thought that one or even a few experiences with whatever sex is not your main preference automatically makes you bi.

johnart said:

Put enough booze in a chic..and she might go that way! It's probably happening right now...with spring break going on. We all have seen enough Girls Gone Wild Videos.

Anxiety said:

I have a girl crush on MarySharon.

yeah ummmmm..... no....I know supa, dan and hermann will still try to get me drunk....but

everyone is sexual.....except for sea sponges

hokie said:

I have a girl crush on MarySharon.

Efan said:

squiddyren said:

I'm not stating this as if it were pure fact; rather, I think it's an interesting theory that, to me, could very well be possible.

I mean, honestly, how many people have you known that have either a) flip-flopped sexual orientation, once or more, or b) confessed to having some form of attraction (if not outright experience or relationship) with someone of their not usually preferred gender? For me, it's damn near everyone I've come across in life. Very rarely have I ever met a person who seems genuinely completely heterosexual or completely homosexual. The gays I've been friends with all have had opposite-sex crushes or been in opposite-sex relationships before... most of the hetero's have confessed AT LEAST to having a same-sex crush at some point... and the bisexuals... me included... have been all across the gottdamm Kinsey scale and back.

So honestly, if straight and gay are really the predominant orientations (they say bisexuality is that wild-card, in-between one), then what is up with all the flip-flopping and wavering that so many people do in the first place? If anything, totally heterosexual and totally homosexual are either rare, or they don't exist at all. That's what I think, anyways.

What are your thoughts?

For those of you who still don't know: I'm playing on both teams.

"Everybody is bisexual" is a very popular thing to say, but I don't think it's true. There are some truly straight and truly gay people out there. That said, way, WAY more people are bi than will ever actually admit to it.

I'm not bi-
I just want your whispering eye.

Mysterioso said:

So they say. Personally, the longer I look at a female the odder she looks to me, not stimulating at all no matter how beautiful she's suppose to be, she just starts looking awkward.
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roodboi said:

hokie said:

I have a girl crush on MarySharon.

me too

morningsong said:

So they say. Personally, the longer I look at a female the odder she looks to me, not stimulating at all no matter how beautiful she's suppose to be, she just starts looking awkward.
[Edited 3/20/09 22:40pm]

I'm not.

JustErin said:

i really dont talk to many people on there regularly and
even fewer outside the org....you will always be #1...you have always been
my favorite crush...besides those orgers that are there now have NOTHING on
you

Mysterioso said:

peacenlovealways said:

Mysterioso said:

I'm not bi-
I just want your whispering eye.

Is that from the movie ROLE MODELS....?

Efan said: