Okay females, give out some tips for the famous "riding dick" position.

Here are my questions.

I've tried this before but I don't quite feel too comfortable on top. I know that this one of those positions where the female is in control of her man and how the flow should be, how deep she wants to go, etc. But some guys are like "well just bounce up and down" tried that, I felt like a hopping idiot and my knees were just as red as an apple when I was through. I didn't feel satisfied at all.

Q#1: Is it true that you are suppose to hop up and down on the dick?
Q#2: I've read somewhere that you move in a motion that rubs your clit against the dick rather than hop up and down...is that true?
Q#3: What about the steps, chairs and sofas, do those places make the on top position any easier?

I hate to sound so inexperienced, but this is something I'm determined to conquer. I'm determined to be a dick rider.

you don't have to hop up and down but some guys are really into that.

usually woman on top means that she controls what she does but i think that some guys just don't like that.

I'm not a woman, but I think you're supposed to do what you want to do.

Guys will want you to bounce up & down, yes, but it doesn't mean you have to do that forever. Let them do what they want when they're doing the work!

But I think you grind against the pelvic bone or something, not the actual johnson. So you're not doing an in & out thing, but more in & moving back & forth a little.
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On top affords me the BEST peaks. I think that's as far as explicit as I'll take it.

Get a guide or something, and you will learn to looooove the top. Or seated on top facing opposite of him...EXTRA hot!!!!!

you're suppose to mix it up.

bounce, gyrate, grind, wiggle, clap it, ect.....

KatSkrizzle said:

hmm thanks for the suggestions and tips, i'm definitely making mental imprint notes in my brain.

NDRU said:

See yeah and when I tried that I started to get into a groove but the guy at the time acted like I was doing it wrong and wanted me to hop. I don't like hopping, it tires me out too quick, when I grind, I feel more in control.
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missfee said:

yeah, maybe it wasn't right for him, but if it's right for you it should be right for him, too. Maybe he needs to learn just like you

Unless it hurts, of course. I've had that done where the girl was moving back & forth like crazy, and I was thinking "you know this thing is attached to me, right?" But I have hands I can keep her withing safety zones.

Do what feels good to you...

You're supposed to put your left foot in, and then take your left foot back out. It also helps to shake it all about while it's in there ...


Or that could be the Hokey Pokey, I forget...

KatSkrizzle said:

Get one of Nina Hartley's "How to..." DVDs. She knows her sh!t!!!!

uPtoWnNY said:

hmm where could I find these??? (besides the internet, )

Byron said:

Ur one sick puppy

Ocean said:

or perhaps he's forgotten the way it goes.

poor byron.

great tips and advice so far...keep'em coming!

JasmineFire said:

...AND REMEMBER TO GIVE THE GUY A BIG HARD SLAP INTO HIS FACE ONCE IN A WHILE....FAST FIST PUNCH WILL DO,TOO....

JasmineFire said:

Which one, the woman-on-top or the Hokey Pokey?

I'm determined to be a dick rider

why the hell am i laughing so hard


im so immature

on top is fabulous!!!
he needs to be been in a "sitting straight up"
Dont hop up and down but rather find a motion that rub against your clit...

one powerful orgasim..

Ride that shit in a circle, get yours and worry about him later.

Stymie said:

I love you even more in this moment

Mach said:

I love you, too.

missfee said:

Lemme answer your questions too:

1. Men like that stuff but it mostly works in porn. There is mostly no contact with the clit just hopping up and down. Plus, it's hard to keep your balance doing that stupid shit.

2. Grinding is groovy. It's more of a back and forth than up and down. And working in a circle works best until you can find YOUR spot. Once you climax, the first time and a guy will let you first if he gives a damn, you can do the bouncy thing some men like. Reverse cowgirl is even better.

3. You may think what I am about to say is funny, but it works: straddle your guy in a reverse cowgirl and lean back with your weight supported by your hands. you'll get less tired that way. You can also used the headboard as support or make the guy lie on the floor and support your weight on either side with two chairs.

Not that i know what I am talking about.

Mach said:

Stymie said:

If I didn't have a seriously sprained ankle my man would be in trouble tonight after reading that jazz man

Mach said:

uPtoWnNY said:

Her guide to deep throating is the bomb.