JustErin said:

i just told you it




no wonder you dont belive sex could be that remarkable

JustErin said:

It's rare that it happens for my first orgasm, but when I had an orgasm before it's not rare that I come again when he comes, but happens at least 50% of the times.

Serious said:

it can be done!

SirPsycho said:

You told me some great secret in this thread?

Whoa, hold up there tiger....I never, ever once said that sex couldn't be remarkable...or even more than remarkable.

Not sure where you got that.

SirPsycho said:

It does happen when I didn't have an orgasm before as well, but it's less likely. Usually I try to enjoy my first orgasm without him having one and without having to worry about him .

SirPsycho said:

aiight then, let's go dumb...

JustErin said:

awwww.. you called me tiger


for some strange reason i dug that



okay...


so maybe you didnt, but i got the impression that you felt that my theories were a product of niavete and highly improbable


forgive me...i'm used to meeting women who believe orgasms only exist in late-night HBO specials






and i did tell you the secret...maybe you know it already and don't think of it as something so unknown

SirPsycho said:

I know, I'm sorry. I'm being very condescending. I’ll behave now.

But I still don't know what the great secret was.

RenHoek said:

JustErin said:

the secret to moving mountains is faith and the secret to faith is sticking to it


hence, anything is possible we're just doubtful as shit about every challenge we encounter in life


at least i believe so
[Edited 8/1/08 9:39am]

Serious said:

now...i can understand why a woman would do so, (as erin said) ya'll bodies are designed to keep going and if you leave it up to most men, ya'll dont get shit out of the deal..


i just cant help but feel like we're only exercising half of our "shared" potential if both genders are looking after their own ejaculation

SirPsycho said:

Oh, ok. No wonder I didn't catch it the first time.

SirPsycho said:

i love how you're really for the cause, that's deep, mang.

SirPsycho said:

So are orgasms you have at the same time as the woman so much better for you than when it doesn't happen at the same time?

sammij said:

i'm serious!when you get down to it i'm really talking about communication...and its like we throw it to the wayside (is that the phrase ) when we get into a relationship, then bitch and moan and the rift goes deeper


hence, married people who dont say shit to each other


that shit dont make any sense to me

SirPsycho said:

But you'd be wrong.

SirPsycho said:

But you'd be wrong.

sammij said:

i'm serious!when you get down to it i'm really talking about communication...and its like we throw it to the wayside (is that the phrase ) when we get into a relationship, then bitch and moan and the rift goes deeper


hence, married people who dont say shit to each other


that shit dont make any sense to me

SirPsycho said:

Actually, I find it far more enjoyable when she loses herself into the act and is craving her own pleasure...if she's not worrying about whether or not I'm enjoying it is usually when I enjoy it the most.

Byron said:

well i salute you sir

everyone is a sex-pert on the org.



I agree with Serious. It does and has happened, rare yes but it does happen.

JustErin said:

how come

shanti0608 said:

nah...we're just all hornballs with messiah complexes... like prince!

JustErin said:

Not always. There are men who can have multiples, you know.

SirPsycho said:

Not me...I would rather have sex than talk about it. Each to their own.



I can only speak from my own personal experiences and rarely care what other ppl do when it comes to sex.

shanti0608 said:

why are you even on GD then

SirPsycho said:

i don't know why but you should hear this song

SirPsycho said:

Ha! I don't come to GD to ask or read about other ppls sex lives. If someone asks a question here I speak about how I am or feel , I do not tell ppl how everyone is.

We are all different and that is what is great about ALL of us.

SirPsycho said:

Nothing to salute there, really lol...it just means that she's not feeling vulnerable and that she is feeling uninhibited and comfortable...she's into the moment, loving the experience, and it's arousing her to the point that she can pretty much only focus on reaching her own orgasm...that, to me, is amazingly erotic. Seeing her so aroused arouses me...not to mention that pretty much 99% of everything she'll do will give me pleasure anyway lol...and if that 1% happens to occur, there's no problem with giving a little instruction.

Besides, the communication and caring for each other's pleasure and well being takes place during the rest of the relationship, and in numerous ways...which leads to the feelings of uninhibitedness and comfort with each other during sex.

Byron said:

Well said!