Ride that shit in a circle, get yours and worry about him later.

missfee said:

Lemme answer your questions too:

1. Men like that stuff but it mostly works in porn. There is mostly no contact with the clit just hopping up and down. Plus, it's hard to keep your balance doing that stupid shit.

2. Grinding is groovy. It's more of a back and forth than up and down. And working in a circle works best until you can find YOUR spot. Once you climax, the first time and a guy will let you first if he gives a damn, you can do the bouncy thing some men like. Reverse cowgirl is even better.

3. You may think what I am about to say is funny, but it works: straddle your guy in a reverse cowgirl and lean back with your weight supported by your hands. you'll get less tired that way. You can also used the headboard as support or make the guy lie on the floor and support your weight on either side with two chairs.

Not that i know what I am talking about.

Mach said:

I love you, too.

I'm determined to be a dick rider.

Stymie said:

I, however, have lost all faith in you

SirPsycho said:

What I do?

Stymie said:

your encouraging the "get yours by any means" theory. before we know it orgasmic unity will be a thing of the past.



i've said it time and time again.


teamwork ladies. teamwork.

Okay females, give out some tips for the famous "riding dick" position.

Here are my questions.

I've tried this before but I don't quite feel too comfortable on top. I know that this one of those positions where the female is in control of her man and how the flow should be, how deep she wants to go, etc. But some guys are like "well just bounce up and down" tried that, I felt like a hopping idiot and my knees were just as red as an apple when I was through. I didn't feel satisfied at all.

Q#1: Is it true that you are suppose to hop up and down on the dick?
Q#2: I've read somewhere that you move in a motion that rubs your clit against the dick rather than hop up and down...is that true?
Q#3: What about the steps, chairs and sofas, do those places make the on top position any easier?

I hate to sound so inexperienced, but this is something I'm determined to conquer. I'm determined to be a dick rider.

And to add on that...it makes total sense for a woman to get off first because we can keep going. The guy gets off....it's all done.

SirPsycho said:

I'm sorry but the whole 'come at the same time' thing is made up for porn.

It's pretty difficult to do that and if a woman is saying she's getting off just at that exact moment her man is - well, she's lying.

SirPsycho said:

I'm sorry but the whole 'come at the same time' thing is made up for porn.

It's pretty difficult to do that and if a woman is saying she's getting off just at that exact moment her man is - well, she's lying.

ok. i'll share something that makes me go WILD. i can't speak as to how other men feel about this, but it drives me crazy.


while on top...raise yourself so your almost completely off the penis...as if you plan to pull it out (if you wanna make it real good, raise up until "his head is barely inside you")...then...you kinda wanna "bob" up and down so that your "lips" are grazing against his head or at most, 1/3 of his length (i suppose this would be an issue for baby dick n*ggas but anything is possible i guess)....so you wanna "bob" up and down for a while (i'll est. 10-20 secs, but it's best you read him cuz if he's anything like me he'll be responsive to the tease)...then... in ONE STROKE.. go ALL the way down so that you engulf him fully...do this quickly, and the MOMENT you "hit bottom" rise back up as quickly as you can, and hold it exactly where you started (with him barely penetrating, pausing at the "head" or "tip")...the contrast between the feeling of "exposed dick" to "consumed dick" to "exposed dick" in a 2 second span, should blow his mind....the point being that he doesnt know when its coming, so the sensation is enhanced...

personally, i like for a woman to choke me while doin so but everybody aint up for that...


i imagine, this takes a considerable amount of muscle and discipline, but its not impossible...hopefully you aren't lazy like alot of girls and you really want your lover to squirm...


i've only known one woman (the one who introduced me to this) to do this regularly, and it would get me EVERY time...i mean i used to cut school to eat her pussy... i taught my current lady to do this, and she only pulled it off the day i walked her through it, but i can admit...do it right and he'll moan
[Edited 7/31/08 22:28pm]

JustErin said:

yes dear, i've been fucking long enough to understand that a simultanious ejeculation is rare, but my point is it's ONLY rare becuase people as animals lack unity. even in sex sad as that is. hence, everybodys out for the own nut. call me young and idealistic, but i bet any two people who were really diciplined enough to put their mind to it could peak together whether both parties come or not.

...and all this "get yours" type shit is just dooming the sexual gratification of humanity.


and i dont like it one bit.




and you shouldn't either.






...i'm goin to a new world...how bout you....




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[Edited 8/1/08 8:38am]

JustErin said:

That's why it's the man who does the timing, not the woman...

Finding a good top rider is rare. I'm only came across few nice top riders. I think some MOST women don't even try to be good riders. So at least Stymie is trying to learn the art of riding.

Symie I suggest mix it up. Do a nice slow grind along with riding while your feet are planted on the bed while your squating on top and your hands are grabbing on the head board for balance(just like your riding a horse ). A nice lazyboy chair works nice as well. But don't do in a new chair because you will end up busting your chair up like me and my girl Giddy UP.
[Edited 8/1/08 8:40am]

SirPsycho said:

Such a young pup...but you're so cute, so that's ok.

JustErin said:

whatever lady. ya'll just gave up too soon....my plan is that my future wife comes 20 times harder then what you even believe is possible

SirPsycho said:

This entire post should be a sig or a sticky or something... Sir you better make your way to the Yay Area SF Invasion cuz there's a shite load of beer I'm buying you...

SirPsycho said:

Ok.

JustErin said:

can you hate me for having aspirations?

SirPsycho said:

Of course not. Aspire away!

I just think it's cute when guys think things like this.

JustErin said:

ok. ok. granted most men cant (or dont care to rather) pull it off. but i'm not most men [tho the sad truth is most men say this] story of my life.



lets just say i know the secret to moving mountains is faith and the secret to faith is sticking to it.

And to add on that...it makes total sense for a woman to get off first because we can keep going. The guy gets off....it's all done.

call me crazy but i refuse to believe that we've reached the limit of our human ability.


just so happens i'm freaky too, so....well you get the idea