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Printableoldpurple said: She doesnt want a present for Christmas what is she saying? PLease tell me!!!
Do What She Says!!  The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who cannot read them. -- Mark Twain.
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Sounds like she wants what every woman wants...
To cook her man a nice juicy steak & give him a hummer!! ENJOY | |
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I think you should do some thing nice for her, Like make her dinner or clean
the house for her, The little thing is what mean the most. | |
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Slave2daGroove said: oldpurple said: How Old am I sometimes I feel like im ninty In the last yr my wife has given Birth,(our second) and all our time is wrapped up in the kids , whats worse is I work 12 hrs shifts (weekends and night days bank holidays) on my rest days shes at work kids either at school or nursery. we dont get to spend the time I want just her and me I know children need our time as well, but i feel guilty about not spending quality time with her, just her, dont get me wrong I Love my kids adore them to bits would die for them. I know in a couple of yrs we will look on this time as being quite busy for the both us. I seemed to have lost that kind of knowing what she wants, It happened when our first was born and I had to do 3 jobs. So all im asking is do you know any sites that cater for a hopeless romatic that loves his wife after nearly 20 yrs together. many thanks for your time With all of this said, take a couple of lunches or go in a little late or come in early and stop at the mall. Body Works store will hook you up with the bath oils and lotions. Next available minute (when you're not surfing the net on the Org) or the next time you can get a lunch hour back to the mall and pull from you're earliest memories of 20 years ago, what little things make her happy. It really can't be that hard to do, you love her obviously, start there, why? My point is spend the time, make the damn time to get her things with a thought behind them and not from a web site or Walmart. That's what will really make her feel the way you want her to feel and it won't have to cost you an arm and a leg unless you want it to. From the sounds of it, just a weekend away with whatever small things you get her would really accomplish what you both need. Many your welcomes... As im at work at the moment my lunch break will be around 2 o'clock in the morning and the only places that are open the are kebab shops!!! I do most of my surfing at work when its quite the body oils are a no no as she has sensitive skin did that once never again didnt hear the end of it for months! well thnaks for all the help had a couple of ideas (not diamonds (  )
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roseland said: I think you should do some thing nice for her, Like make her dinner or clean
the house for her, The little thing is what mean the most. do this on my rest days all ready so it wouldnt be asuprise or a present for her | |
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oldpurple said: She doesnt want a present for Christmas what is she saying? PLease tell me!!!
It means she doesn't want to buy YOU a present...but she wants you to buy her one anyway.  | |
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oldpurple said: roseland said: I think you should do some thing nice for her, Like make her dinner or clean
the house for her, The little thing is what mean the most. do this on my rest days all ready so it wouldnt be asuprise or a present for her That nice that you already do them thing for her,Maybe she as ever thing that she ever wanted and it is you. | |
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Hm. Perhaps she's saying that, unbeknownst to you, she's recently already bought herself an expensive "Christmas gift".
Check those bank and/or credit card statements! 
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Update
Thought long and hard and have decided to get her a diamond ring with the childrens names engraved on the ring and it will be from the children and not me. so hopefully Im a winner on this!!! | |
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oldpurple said: Update
Thought long and hard and have decided to get her a diamond ring with the childrens names engraved on the ring and it will be from the children and not me. so hopefully Im a winner on this!!! Thats very nice! "Nobody makes me bleed my own blood...NOBODY!"
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oldpurple said: Update
Thought long and hard and have decided to get her a diamond ring with the childrens names engraved on the ring and it will be from the children and not me. so hopefully Im a winner on this!!! Oh, that's awesome. | |
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oldpurple said: Update
Thought long and hard and have decided to get her a diamond ring with the childrens names engraved on the ring and it will be from the children and not me. so hopefully Im a winner on this!!! you mean a  kind of a win?
that is a great idea! if I got that I would be moved to tears  | |
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oldpurple said: Update
Thought long and hard and have decided to get her a diamond ring with the childrens names engraved on the ring and it will be from the children and not me. so hopefully Im a winner on this!!! Nice but what she was really saying is that she doesn't want you to get her a present. Instead...she wants you to send all diamonds to me! | |
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She doesn't want a present because she isn't getting you one | |
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ZombieKitten said: oldpurple said: Update
Thought long and hard and have decided to get her a diamond ring with the childrens names engraved on the ring and it will be from the children and not me. so hopefully Im a winner on this!!! you mean a kind of a win?
that is a great idea! if I got that I would be moved to tears I was hoping for a before Xmas
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oldpurple said: She doesnt want a present for Christmas what is she saying? PLease tell me!!!
That comment falls into the "Does this make me look fat?" family of trap comments and questions.....your best bet is get much many gifts, or find out what grabs her fancy (commercials, on the net, etc) and go that route...but whatever you do DON'T get to zero day (Christmas) with no gift....  that would be terrible....He was like a cock who thought the sun had risen to hear him crow.
(George Eliot) the video for the above... 
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oldpurple said: ZombieKitten said: you mean a kind of a win?
that is a great idea! if I got that I would be moved to tears I was hoping for a before Xmas
Org note your hubbys email addy and i will drop him a hint or two excellent! I am sure he is eager for advice  | |
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oldpurple said: Update
Thought long and hard and have decided to get her a diamond ring with the childrens names engraved on the ring and it will be from the children and not me. so hopefully Im a winner on this!!! While you are at the jewelry store, ask to see a Journey pendant (they probably make rings as well). Any woman who has been in a 20 year relationship would be so touched at the sentiment and they are very pretty. Music is the language of the spirit. It opens the secret of life bringing peace, abolishing strife. --Kahlil Gibran | |
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MoonSongs said: oldpurple said: Update
Thought long and hard and have decided to get her a diamond ring with the childrens names engraved on the ring and it will be from the children and not me. so hopefully Im a winner on this!!! While you are at the jewelry store, ask to see a Journey pendant (they probably make rings as well). Any woman who has been in a 20 year relationship would be so touched at the sentiment and they are very pretty. maybe for her birthday but thats not to far away | |
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