missfee said:

You are right about that...this guy does play with my emotions a great deal. One minute he can't seem to get me out of his mind..and next I am no better then crap on his shoe. It's all very confusing!

MoniGram said:

Same here... with girls lol

But u're right, men suck!

shaomi said:

MoniGram said:

I'm actually glad to be able to say I have recently found a guy who hasn't done that to me once since we've been "bestfriends" or whatever you want to call it.
Sometimes he's actually too dependent on my time.

However, something HAS to be wrong with him.
Yes, there is. He is everywhere! You never know what he wants, what he's feeling. One minute I'm the best thing that's ever happened to him and he wants to tell the world how amazing I am, and in the next minute I'm not.. I'm still there, but I'm not as great anymore.

I suppose I make to much of it, but somethings about him.

SaraWright10 said:

Oh Sara...I know this feeling all to well! This week, I got emails from 'him' saying how much he missed me, how glad he was to have me in his life, and the best one yet...'the day is beautiful, reminds me of you'! Then tonight, he blows me off, when we had been planning going out to dinner, and dancing etc...I even bought the cutest black dress, and some slutty heels for tonight. Men they drive you CRAZY!

MoniGram said:

Wow, I'm sorry to hear you went through all that trouble for nothing. But I'm glad someone understands what I mean..
this is what mine recently said about me to someone else..


When the girl showed me that I was thinking.. "Wow, that is the sweetest thing.. but why doesn't he act like that?"
and I wanted to call him up and say "so, why don't you ever atleast pretend to ME like you mean this?"

SaraWright10 said:

I will never understand why guys are like this...but I guess they say the same for us!

MoniGram said:

[Edited 7/28/07 20:41pm]

shaomi said:

shaomi said:

Way to funny!!!!!

MoniGram said:

that is exactly why ... do you also keep MD5 hashes of all his messages and take a forensic image of his cellphone ?

This screenshot is just creepy girl ...

One4All4Ever said:

Absolutely not lol!
This is all I have and its because the girl sent it to me.
I made it small and cut out all of her message.

SaraWright10 said:

Does it not bother you at all that your friend is betraying this guy's trust by showing you her private conversations with him?

JustErin said:

It did. Believe me. I asked her and She told me though, that she told him she was going too.
And he already knows that I know what he said because I asked him about it..
lol.

but yeah it did bother me, but when I found out she knew it was okay.

MoniGram said:

You have to show him, definitively, that you won't tolerate this kind of behavior.

People will treat you how you allow yourself to be treated.

SaraWright10 said:

Ya, I've been in the same situation many times. I always wanna see what they said and I always get to see it but damn, it's kinda fucked up how we so easily show others our private conversations.

JustErin said:

Yeah, kinda makes you wonder what conversations of YOURS they could be showing people..

SaraWright10 said:

Ya, I just take it for granted that people will show others what I say at times.

I'm ok with that. I can deal with whatever may come back to bite me in the ass.

Ace said:

I agree with everything you said. Him and I had a very long chat today. Let's just say the boy will be kissing ass for awhile now. I pretty much told him if he wants to be around me...there will be changes!!!!!

The same damn thread every few months. One man does something a woman doesn't like, and now all men are shit.
[Edited 7/29/07 23:20pm]

two options: accept it or move on

JustErin said:

Exactly ... trust is what keeps u ticking ... trust is about the most valuable
stuff in this world (apart from pheromone and water)

lilgish said:

I didn't say all men were crap...I just said I was sick of men. At the time I was...it was a venue to vent..nothing more.

MoniGram said:

I'm not joking, i'm a man and I did that to someone on Saturday!...and they are well pissed off with me...

your not called Laurelle are you? From England?...

i'm not proud of it or anything

LittleSmedley said:

heybaby said:

That's it right there.

heybaby said:

You and Ace have it nailed spot on.

People treat you how you allow yourself to be treated.

Accept it or move on.

LittleSmedley said:

That's not me. But I am curious, how did she take it, when you blew her off?

You are all right..I need to accept it or move on! This man needs to grow up some...and either be ready to have an adult relationship, or I will have to walk out the door. I don't have time to be someone's babysitter. I have enough issues going on in my life. Of course it's easier said then done. But I want to thank everyone for their advice. Some of it was a bit forward...but that's what I wanted. It's always good to get advice from people who are outside looking in.