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PrintableMen cheat because they get bored, it's just genetics..caveman stuff. Don't sweat it girls. "Waiting to be banned" | |
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UCantHavaDaMango said: Paradisekiss03 said: I think I would rather like the guy to say that he is beginning to feel attracted by another woman, and would like to end the relationship than to straight out cheat.
That's what I say! If they really feel that their current relationship is over, why not end it? It will be painful for all involved, but I doubt it will be as bad as the other person finding out that they were cheated on. Here's the thing though. A lot of guys will start seeing a girl and will say straight up that they don't want to be exclusive and soooo many girls will agree to that even though they really don't agree. They agree because they foolishly think that they will be the one to change the guy into being someone that only wants to be with one girl (her). So basically, what I am saying is that for a lot of girls it doesn't matter what a dude says to them, they'll stick around just hoping that they will get what they want out of the relationship eventually. Yes, guys should be straight up but girls need to start listening to what they are actually saying. | |
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liberation said: Men cheat because they get bored, it's just genetics..caveman stuff. Don't sweat it girls.
that is a poor excuse...haven't men evolved? they have evolved enough to stand up straight and to use technical electronic devices so I find the cave man excuse WEAK!! Feel Good, Feel Better, Feel Wonderful | |
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We really haven't evolved that much when it comes to girls...sorry. "Waiting to be banned" | |
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JustErin said: UCantHavaDaMango said: That's what I say! If they really feel that their current relationship is over, why not end it? It will be painful for all involved, but I doubt it will be as bad as the other person finding out that they were cheated on. Here's the thing though. A lot of guys will start seeing a girl and will say straight up that they don't want to be exclusive and soooo many girls will agree to that even though they really don't agree. They agree because they foolishly think that they will be the one to change the guy into being someone that only wants to be with one girl (her). So basically, what I am saying is that for a lot of girls it doesn't matter what a dude says to them, they'll stick around just hoping that they will get what they want out of the relationship eventually. Yes, guys should be straight up but girls need to start listening to what they are actually saying. Well, then they know what they're getting into in that case. If a guy comes out and tells me, "I will fool around with other women," I have the choice to either enter a relationship riddled with infidelity, or say "Hellz no, I'm outta here!" I would opt for the latter myself.  Wanna hear me sing?  www.ChampagneHoneybee.com | |
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UCantHavaDaMango said: JustErin said: Here's the thing though. A lot of guys will start seeing a girl and will say straight up that they don't want to be exclusive and soooo many girls will agree to that even though they really don't agree. They agree because they foolishly think that they will be the one to change the guy into being someone that only wants to be with one girl (her). So basically, what I am saying is that for a lot of girls it doesn't matter what a dude says to them, they'll stick around just hoping that they will get what they want out of the relationship eventually. Yes, guys should be straight up but girls need to start listening to what they are actually saying. Well, then they know what they're getting into in that case. If a guy comes out and tells me, "I will fool around with other women," I have the choice to either enter a relationship riddled with infidelity, or say "Hellz no, I'm outta here!" I would opt for the latter myself. Well, ya. As would I but you would be surprised at how many would not pack it in. | |
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Not really Erin, girls just like The P. "Waiting to be banned" | |
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liberation said: Not really Erin, girls just like The P.
Huh? The penis? Or is this some geeked out Prince reference? | |
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JustErin said: liberation said: Not really Erin, girls just like The P.
Huh? The penis? Or is this some geeked out Prince reference? VOTE....EARLY | |
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JustErin said: liberation said: Not really Erin, girls just like The P.
Huh? The penis? Or is this some geeked out Prince reference? I think it stands for Platinum Card. Wanna hear me sing? www.ChampagneHoneybee.com | |
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UCantHavaDaMango said: JustErin said: Huh? The penis? Or is this some geeked out Prince reference? I think it stands for Platinum Card.  | |
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rhamiel said: liberation said: Men cheat because they get bored, it's just genetics..caveman stuff. Don't sweat it girls.
that is a poor excuse...haven't men evolved? they have evolved enough to stand up straight and to use technical electronic devices so I find the cave man excuse WEAK!! We haven't evolved enough to not want to cheat, but we do have freedom of choice. I want to cheat about 150 times a day, but I never have acted on it. My Legacy
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JustErin said: UCantHavaDaMango said: That's what I say! If they really feel that their current relationship is over, why not end it? It will be painful for all involved, but I doubt it will be as bad as the other person finding out that they were cheated on. Here's the thing though. A lot of guys will start seeing a girl and will say straight up that they don't want to be exclusive and soooo many girls will agree to that even though they really don't agree. They agree because they foolishly think that they will be the one to change the guy into being someone that only wants to be with one girl (her). So basically, what I am saying is that for a lot of girls it doesn't matter what a dude says to them, they'll stick around just hoping that they will get what they want out of the relationship eventually. Yes, guys should be straight up but girls need to start listening to what they are actually saying. Yup I guess thats how it goes. I really like spicy food. I mostly put Jalapenos on a lot of my food.
"There are three types of women for a man. The woman he wants to marry, the woman he should marry, and the woman he ends up marrying". -Pedro Infante- Una Vez Y Otra Mas! | |
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luvsexy4all said: noimageatall said: Right now he's probably slow dancing with a bleached-blond tramp,
and she's probably getting frisky. right now he's probably buying her some fruity little drink cause she can't shoot whiskey. right now, he's probably up behind her with a pool-stick, showing her how to shoot a combo and he don't know... I dug my key into the side of his pretty little souped up 4 wheel drive, carved my name into his leather seats. I took a louisville slugger to both head lights, slashed a hole in all 4 tires. maybe next time he'll think before he cheats. right now, she's probably up singing some white-trash version of Shania karoke.. right now, she's probably saying "I'm drunk" and he's thinking that he's gonna lucky, right now, he's probably dabbing on 3 dollars worth of that bathroom cologne. and he don't know... I dug my key into the side of his pretty little souped up 4 wheel drive, carved my name into his leather seat... I took a louisville slugger to both head lights, slashed a hole in all 4 tires... maybe next time he'll think before he cheats. I might've saved a little trouble for the next girl, cause the next time that he cheats.. oh you know it won't be on me! no.. not on me.. maybe next time he'll think before he cheats. ohh.. maybe next time he'll think.. before he cheats...           Must be a special dispensation for JW's? No...they just kick your ass out.  and then Jehovah destroys you.
Actually I just heard this country song for the first time last week at a karaoke bar, and thought it was the dumbest thing I'd ever heard. It just came to mind when I read this thread.  "Let love be your perfect weapon..." ~~Andy Biersack | |
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meggy said: It all depends on the "reasoning" behind the cheating... people do change..
sometimes its easy to forgive other times its harder.. but sometimes people need to be given a second chance. Hell I gave that guy 4 chances of course I broke up with him when I first found out before he explaned..although I would have to say I might not have if he didnt have those problems. I used to think like that too; I wanted to give people the benefit of the doubt; but not anymore. People will take advantage of you for as long as you let them (whether it's cheating or something else). If s/he cheats on you once, s/he'll do it again. If they cheated on someone else with you, they'll cheat on you. I don't buy the whole "that's just the way guys are" bs either. As has been proven in this thread by NDRU and Slave2daGroove just b/c a guy wants to cheat doesn't mean he has to. My ex cheated on me and I foolishly gave him a 2nd chance...he was always talkin shit like, "I can't help it, I'm a guy." or saying he got it from his dad, who was a ladies man, too.   Suffice it to say I learned my lesson--cheating* is now a non-negotiable deal breaker for me.
*the tricky thing is also agreeing on what constitutes 'cheating.' The check. The string he dropped. The Mona Lisa. The musical notes taken out of a hat. The glass. The toy shotgun painting. The things he found. Therefore, everything seen–every object, that is, plus the process of looking at it–is a Duchamp. | |
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Like I said, I would rather for a guy to tell me upfront that he is thinking about someone else and end the relationship before the he cheats. I really like spicy food. I mostly put Jalapenos on a lot of my food.
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why ask only women?...how about when men find out their woman were unfaithful?
if the relationship is worth salvaging, lots of honest dialogue has to occurr, and one will find that it wasn't the victim who was to blame, but more likely the cheater's own need to feel loved/desired/attractive, or some other psychological issue.. | |
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jone70 said: meggy said: It all depends on the "reasoning" behind the cheating... people do change..
sometimes its easy to forgive other times its harder.. but sometimes people need to be given a second chance. Hell I gave that guy 4 chances of course I broke up with him when I first found out before he explaned..although I would have to say I might not have if he didnt have those problems. I used to think like that too; I wanted to give people the benefit of the doubt; but not anymore. People will take advantage of you for as long as you let them (whether it's cheating or something else). If s/he cheats on you once, s/he'll do it again. If they cheated on someone else with you, they'll cheat on you. I don't buy the whole "that's just the way guys are" bs either. As has been proven in this thread by NDRU and Slave2daGroove just b/c a guy wants to cheat doesn't mean he has to. My ex cheated on me and I foolishly gave him a 2nd chance...he was always talkin shit like, "I can't help it, I'm a guy." or saying he got it from his dad, who was a ladies man, too. Suffice it to say I learned my lesson--cheating* is now a non-negotiable deal breaker for me.
*the tricky thing is also agreeing on what constitutes 'cheating.' i was going to say something to this but I got distracted and forgot  oops lol..
I dont know it kind of makes sence but like in my case there was more to it than just cheating.. I knew he loved me.. I was his world (if you read my other post) I have many older brothers and sisters who had been cheated on and had their marrages broken by it.. cause of that I always said I would never put up with it.. every situation is differant for everyone. Poppys, daisys life is crazy | |
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