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ISN'T IT FUNNY... ...how huge changes in your life sort out who's really there for you? that includes family as well as friends | |
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uh-oh...sounds like trouble! "not a fan" yeah...ok | |
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in that moment yes, but because some may not be there for you at that moment ... may not make their value in your life any less | |
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Shorty said: uh-oh...sounds like trouble!
no... just realisation | |
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Machaela said: in that moment yes, but because some may not be there for you at that moment ... may not make their value in your life any less | |
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Girl I know but it's a good realisation.....because atleast then you KNOW who are really there for you and love you | |
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EvErSoLeSa said: Girl I know but it's a good realisation.....because atleast then you KNOW who are really there for you and love you
oh totally! and you can be comforted in that knowledge that you are loved just unexpected sometimes who IS there and not there for you... as long as you do realise the difference between them tho its all good, right? | |
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EvErSoLeSa said: Girl I know but it's a good realisation.....because atleast then you KNOW who are really there for you and love you
yeah..but it's always a terrible way to find out that someone you thought would be there for you...isn't. good luck Natisse. "not a fan" yeah...ok | |
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Shorty said: EvErSoLeSa said: Girl I know but it's a good realisation.....because atleast then you KNOW who are really there for you and love you
yeah..but it's always a terrible way to find out that someone you thought would be there for you...isn't. good luck Natisse. more surprising than anything to know... and it's the little things that give it away too for example...a friend knowing you don't have the spare cash to buy phone cards so goes and puts a load of money on one for you THAT'S someone who's there for you | |
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Natisse said: Shorty said: yeah..but it's always a terrible way to find out that someone you thought would be there for you...isn't. good luck Natisse. more surprising than anything to know... and it's the little things that give it away too for example...a friend knowing you don't have the spare cash to buy phone cards so goes and puts a load of money on one for you THAT'S someone who's there for you you're such a sweet soul Natisse ... I expected this thread to be about people who aren't there for you, but you talk about people who are. | |
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Yes.
And as you get older you start to understand these changes help you lower your expectations and prepare you for an eventual death, which will bring to an end to all of the missed opportunities and could-have-beens. | |
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Reincarnate said: Natisse said: more surprising than anything to know... and it's the little things that give it away too for example...a friend knowing you don't have the spare cash to buy phone cards so goes and puts a load of money on one for you THAT'S someone who's there for you you're such a sweet soul Natisse ... I expected this thread to be about people who aren't there for you, but you talk about people who are. honestly...it DID start out that way yes I was upset about a handful of friends (and some family) at home some of whom never bothered to contact me let alone see me before I left... but then I was reminded of what I DO have and how incredibly lucky I am but it did start off as a very self absorbed thread I'm sorry to say | |
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