yes.

Yes, it still is going on (over 2 years now). She's a good friend I know from high-school, ran into her again at a reunion. We meet once in a while, we're fuck-buddies. She's got a kid and I know her husband as well, though I prefer not seeing him. It always stops when I have a relationship with another girl, so there have been breaks. I, myself, am monogamous.

The sex is good. Do I feel guilty? No! She will never leave her man and I will never have a 'real' relationship with a woman who has a kid from another.....I'm the slut here and this I know!

Hey, I've never said I was a saint!

Well not "actively" Married....they had been separated for over a year with a pending Divorce....so, "technically" yes, but not really. I would not want to get in the way of anyone else's self-imposed demise....LOL!

abierman said:

well.....when I was younger I had this big O'crush on this guy...who had a girlfriend....then after a couple years I grew up and was noticed by him....I thought they had broke up and I found out cos I ended up working with her sis who told me they were still together and that they just fight all the time.....So I guess I can say that I have been with a man that had a girlfriend.....but I liked him before she got'em...does that count..



anyway....old story

It was just sex though. So that's ok.

i brought a guy home once who had a girlfriend.
i had drooled over him for years and i knew that he was with someone but that particular moment i didn't care.

i thought less of him afterwards and felt bad for the girlfriend but did not dwell on it too much

Fleshofmyflesh said:

'tis.

I can't say the same for myself. There was a time in my life where I resisted everything but temptation in that department. Thankfully, those times are over.

I've never had sex w/married men b/c I don't beleive in it.

Nope.

Nero said:

You'd do it again, yet you learned quite a bit ?

cocofantasy said:

I do ?

no

way


in


hell

AsianBomb777 said:

I just heard that gong sound again from 16 Candles !

AsianBomb777 said:

that's only because gay-marriage isn't possible in the US, right?

fleshofyourflesh said:

No mo yanky my wanky.

fleshofyourflesh said:

At the org you get sympathy for going through an abortion. Extramarital affairs are less popular.

cocofantasy said:

Very true.....strange moral compass going on here....

fleshofyourflesh said:

Like eating meat is murder, yet abortions are okay.

TMPletz said:

Oooh, expect this thread to take a whole different turn from now on!

cocofantasy said:

TMPletz said:

Bring it !!!!!

I don't recall anyone on that other thread speaking up for the intent of sympathy.....

bluesbaby said:

Can you read ?

fleshofyourflesh said:

ah, so kind. would you get me the link, and I will certainly read the remainder of the thread, and see if any of the women who talked about getting abortions did so asking for understanding or sympathy.....

bluesbaby said:

That will always be up for debate as it's a matter of interpretation.

bluesbaby said:

I never said they ASKED for sympathy. I was responding to what you said regarding the fact that no one showed them any sympathy. There is a difference.

Fleshofmyflesh said:

I am sorry! I goofed. I mistook what someone else posted for yours.. and goofed as well. so, I can't read. sorry again
[Edited 6/21/05 16:43pm]

Yes.

When this has happened I didn't go in knowing they were married. Most times I left, once I stayed. Bittersweet and full of lessons