OH my goosh she is HUMAN... the only difference is her embarrassing things are on film and photos.... this has happened to every GIRL..

and that could be a patter color on her panties.. and not a blood stain

Belle said:

O yes I forgot about that thanks:)

toots said:

TotalAlisa said:

NO woman/girl FORGETS their cycle. Even with her being on medication it shouldnt affect her that much(even on anti-depressants, even when I was on them fo ra short time it DID NOT effect my cycle that much not by a day or 2)). Even after I had my daughter my cycles were back to the norm after 2-3 months, its been longer for her since she had her last child. That excuse I dont buy either what you just said. Either way a woman KNOWS when getting out of a car to pull her skirt DOWN and when she is close to starting her cycle!!

I have ZERO compassion for her right now.
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Belle said:

Like I said it varies from woman to woman a woman just KNOWS(know what Im saying)

toots said:

Yes. Some of what you've mentioned, as well as, I can kill a box of chocolates in no time!

toots said:

No woman forgets her cycle, but cycles can have minds of their own. Not all women have cycles like clock work. I know one girl not only was her cycle so unpredictable, but when she did have her period it went on for over two weeks at a time... and yes she had to be admitted to hospital for a series of blood transfusions because she became so anaemic..

However, once your period does come you would know straight away so in the case of Britney you would have thought she would have used her jacket or something to cover up. The fact she is wearing such an outfit in the first place, regardless of whether she is on or not, is disturbing in itself.
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TotalAlisa said:

"i am a 22 year old lady....

it seems like britney to not being caring about herself or kids... so how could you expect her to really be paying attention like that.... You aren't going throught what she is neither am I so you can't compare your situation to hers... you life might not be as hectic as hers."

How can you say WHAT I HAVE OR HAVE NOT BEEN THROUGH?? You cant! Its called being a mom and putting your kids first(which therefore I AM a mom myself and 34 years old. I KNOW EXACTLY what its called its "Post pardom depression" it happens when or shortly after having children. My life is just as hectic as hers from being a single parent but NEVER would I put my kid second. THEY ALWAYS come first.SHE missed the court dates to appear, or NEVER showed, then she refused to give BACK her kids to K-Fed(which is against the law even in my own state) who has cutsody of the kids. Yeah I HAVE been through what she has:

Having children: I been there!
Divorce: Done that!
Court proceedings with court orders(for joint custody):Done it!
Having a hectic busy schedule for a single mom:Doing it NOW!
Was accused of being insane by ex hubby (which was proven false in court): Done it!
Going out in public when on her cycle: YEP done it too!
Post Pardom Depression: Been there too!

"There is NO need to gang up and attack me... I don't know if your just an extremely rude person... or have no friends and take your anger out on people.."

I wasnt the ONLY one but yet Im the one being attacked by you in your post.Nor was I being rude either. I wasnt the ONLY one that said some things so you need to re-read a few more posts. I have friends thanks and wasnt taking my anger out on you or on anyone either, I was also in the medical field and thought you might need a few facts to be thrown you way since you heard about these so called "horror stories"( and so were other people/posters). EXCUSE ME for even putting in any advice what so ever.

"I don't even know you... or noticed you on this forum... why all the hostility towards me... what did i do???? Even if you don't agree with me.. thats fine.. but respect my opinions the way i respect yours.. and NOT insult me because i have yet to insult you..

I have posted on many forums and threads. It is a free board. Um.. please read a few posts like I said before others have commented saying pretty much the same thing(almost along the same lines) and yet they DONT get the 3rd degree for it from you? I must be missing something here. Where did I INSULT you at please???? I said "either your a man or you have not started your cycle". HOW is that insulting you? It isnt(you dont have your profile fully filled out so therefor I cant tell what age or anything that you are or are not).Im confused as to WHY and WHERE your getting your so called "horror stories" at? Which some are very misleading. I respect you opinion but jeez getting a 3rd degree when others have said the same thing and yet I am the one being rude. "I have yet to insult you"(from your post) Im looking forward to your insults being thrown, thanks for the warning! Ill be watching.

Now if you get upset over medical fact I just posted to you and cant handle them maybe you should turn off your computer. Or better yet try google for the medical facts that you need instead of listening to some wives tales that you have been hearing. Sorry Ill know better to voice my medical knowledge on a site next time.

"though all have I still have compassion for this woman britney spears.. and i wish people would stop speaking negative things over her life.. and stop speaking curses over her... its NOT right..."

She is doing this all herself and doing the "attention grabbing" thing to get attention, I am not falling for it. SHE lost her kids cause of her OWN mistakes. Its time for her to face her own music which isnt pretty. But guess what, its her bed now she has to lay in it.
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whatsgoingon said:

I agree with you as well.

I can't believe people wonder why she has lost her mind. Do you think you'd react any better if people are taking photos of you like this and publishing them all over the net? It's so disgustingly invasive what the paparazzi are doing. I can definitely see this Britney Spears shit bringing about new laws restricting how far the paparazzi can go. This sort of stuff just should not be tolerated.

But I do find it funny how the whole of America is playing Dr Phil with this girl. Everyone is going around saying how she needs helps, she needs help. Like they know shit. Who are you to say that she needs help. I find it funny. Everyone's a fucking therapist all of a sudden. lol

DarlingDiana said:

So, what would you do? Are you of the opinion that she does not need help? That her behavior is normal? When you are a star, paparazzi and lost of privacy is the price you pay. What she needed was someone there to set boundaries. There has been no one there to tell this girl no. There is plenty of blame to go around for this girl's demise, starting with her momma. It seems to me that her mom is letting Britney and Jamie run all over her. They both are in need of a good old fashioned, ass-whooping... Instead, her mom is just staying away....

So, what would you do? Are you of the opinion that she does not need help? That her behavior is normal?

When you are a star, paparazzi and lost of privacy is the price you pay.

What she needed was someone there to set boundaries. There has been no one there to tell this girl no. There is plenty of blame to go around for this girl's demise, starting with her momma. It seems to me that her mom is letting Britney and Jamie run all over her. They both are in need of a good old fashioned, ass-whooping... Instead, her mom is just staying away....

shorttrini said:

I think her mother is of a questionable character. Allowing her daughter to appear in such a sexually-charged music video (i.e. hints of pedophilia in the Baby Hit Me One More Time video) at the age of sixteen was a sign of things to come. Britney Spears has been the bread winner for the family for the longest time. I believe she even paid for her older brother's college education. It's time for her to move from LA and go live somewhere quiet and get the help she needs before it is too late. If not for herself, then for her children.

shorttrini said:

No. I'm of the opinion that it's not my place to say if she needs help or not.

Well, what she's copped is one hell of a price to pay. Pictures like his period one go way, way too far.


See, this is what I mean by the Dr Phil BS. Everything think they know what her problems are how to solve them. Without even know the girl everyone is so quick to make judgement. I think everyone should worry about their own problems first before trying to solve Britney's problem. There's a big problem with people who take pictures of someone's blood-stained underpants and putting them on the net. There's a big problem with people who then see those pictures and it makes them feel good that their own lives aren't that bad. Get those sort of people help before you get Britney Spears help.

Rodya24 said:

I think most parents of Child Stars are questionable; the mere fact they allow their offsprings to go into such an industry at such a tender age is questionable. I can understand child actors for specifics programmes or for a specific part for a nominal fee, however in most cases these children after while become bargaining tools for their parents and that where all the problems start.

DarlingDiana said:

My comment about her mom, has nothing to do with Dr. Phil. , but has everything to do with guidance. This girl needs help, I never said that I knew how to solve her problems, what I did say is that her mother needed to step up to the plate and start acting like a mother instead of her children's best friend. As for the paparazzi, they are just doing their job, (whether we want to admit it or not), why hasn't her mom done hers? You might say that, Brit is a grown woman and that she can make her own decisions....Well, without someone's guidance how can you possibly make the right decisions and to be honest, some of the choices that she has made have been some real winners.If you think that I am wrong, that's okay. You are entitled to your opinion, but remember, there is still the matter of her younger sister. Who at 16, will need even more help than Brit.

I dont understand all these people saying women KNOW when they will get there period. Unless you keep track on a calender and Britney obviously doesnt seem like shes in a state of mind where she would be doing something like that. And even if you were to keep track it doesnt always come exactly, not all womens cycles are perfect like that. She probably doesnt even keep track of what day or month it is. I always have to guess around about what day or if i forget hopefully catch it in its really early stages. I'm completely confused with all these women acting as though it's not possible for something like this to happen by accident. Granted I wouldnt be wearing that outfit out even if it wasnt that time of the month but im not britney.

If Britney were your daughter or sister, wouldn't you want to at least try to save her from herself rather than just giving up because she won't listen? The court would probably rule against a guardianship because to be honest, those are very difficult to receive over an adult. For a guardianship to awarded, the situation has to be pretty dire.

like i said you have NOT walked through britney shoes... are you famous like brite... do you have millions of people trying to sue and use you... do you have cameras following you around.. do you have many temptations, influences and serious peer pressure like britney

I can't believe people wonder why she has lost her mind. Do you think you'd react any better if people are taking photos of you like this and publishing them all over the net? It's so disgustingly invasive what the paparazzi are doing. I can definitely see this Britney Spears shit bringing about new laws restricting how far the paparazzi can go. This sort of stuff just should not be tolerated.

But I do find it funny how the whole of America is playing Dr Phil with this girl. Everyone is going around saying how she needs helps, she needs help. Like they know shit. Who are you to say that she needs help. I find it funny. Everyone's a fucking therapist all of a sudden. lol

I think her mother is of a questionable character. Allowing her daughter to appear in such a sexually-charged music video (i.e. hints of pedophilia in the Baby Hit Me One More Time video) at the age of sixteen was a sign of things to come. Britney Spears has been the bread winner for the family for the longest time. I believe she even paid for her older brother's college education. It's time for her to move from LA and go live somewhere quiet and get the help she needs before it is too late. If not for herself, then for her children.

Everyone that was once close to her has tried to help her. Assistants, family, friends, lawyers, staff. And each one that has tried to help has been shown the door and cut off from any contact. How can you help someone if you barely contact them? Plus for staff and such, it'd be very hard to tell your boss/paycheque to get help. Seriously, this is why Michael Jackson is so stuffed up now. Because no one ever said no or get help. Because how do you say that to a massive superstar? They're not gonna listen to some minion of theirs when they can just chuck them aside and keep living the unhealthy lifestyle they want.

toots said:

like i said you have NOT walked through britney shoes... are you famous like brite... do you have millions of people trying to sue and use you... do you have cameras following you around.. do you have many temptations, influences and serious peer pressure like britney

I DON'T THINK SOOOOO... so NO you have not been in here shoes... are you going through the same phsycological problems as her... and the cameras following your every move and mistake...???

UNTIL YOU BEEN THROUGH ALL THAT.. THEN you have NOT been in here shoes...

YOU have NO right to get upset with me or anyone who has compassion for this woman...

whatsgoingon said:

yes, but not all parents of child stars are irresponsible.. the Olsen Twins ($1 billion) gave an interview and they both told interviewer they had to do their chores and obey their parents rules or their parents didnt give them allowance money (and they both said there were times that 'did' happen .. that whoever didnt obey received no money) and with all the money those girls have, the parents still put restrictions on them to obey .. Raven Cymone is another one (she's worth $400 Million) ...

Flowerz said:

The J5 had to do chores and were restricted too when they were young,, but that didn't stop one or two of them losing the plot.

And wasn't one of the Olsen twins on the verge of death with anorexia recently?

And there is no use looking at a child star at the age of 18 or 19 to see whether they have mess up yet, Michael Jackson seems quite okay when he was 18 too. It's the very long term that will show how effected these kids have become. I mean Brittney up to a couple of years ago didn't seem too bad either.

The fact of the matter is unless at some point in their formative years the parents actually removes the child from the whole show biz industry, for a while, most of these kids turn up damage.

Both Jodie Foster and Brooke Shields were sent off to college at 16 by their parents, they had nothing to do with Show biz for at least a couple of years and probably that why they continue to remain more grounded than most.

116 replies and no suggestion that it might be photoshopped?

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