Reply #30 posted 06/14/20 12:16am
leecaldon
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purplethunder3121 said:
EmmaMcG said:
I should add that despite me teaching my daughter some Prince songs on piano and playing his music in the house quite a bit, I've never actually actively encouraged her to listen to Prince, or anything else. I find that l that's a good way to almost guarantee that kids WON'T listen to a given artist. Like, my mother was a huge Madonna fan. She grew up in the 80s when Madonna was really big and stayed a fan all her life. I fucking hated Madonna as a kid because it was all I heard. And later, when my big sister got into the Spice Girls it was Wannabe in one ear and Like A Virgin in the other. It was pure torture. Then, when I was a teenager, my boyfriend at the time tried to get me to listen to Prince. I was having none of it. Black Sweat had just come out and I was sick of it. I had no intention of listening to anything else Prince-related. Afterwards, I did become a Prince fan but it was on my own terms. Same with Madonna. Anything up to and including Bedtime Stories (with the exception of Like A Prayer) is great. I still don't care for the musical stylings of the Spice Girls though...
Kids really want to discover music on their own, especially as they get older. If they like what they hear they will actively listen to it, identify with it, and make it their own. It has to have personal relevance apart from parents, family, and friends... That way it belongs to them... Us... And not our friggin' parents!
I discovered David Bowie when going through the loft and finding my Mum's old LPs - together with a polaroid she took at the front of a Ziggy Stardust show.
Similarly, a friend's dad had a 50 LP collection charting the history of popular music (several songs per artist). Over time, we copied the LPs to cassette, played them in the car, and discovered all sorts of music.
I guess it depends how open the kids are to different types of music. |
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Reply #31 posted 06/14/20 7:49am
Reply #32 posted 06/15/20 6:57am
djThunderfunk
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purplethunder3121 said:
EmmaMcG said:
I should add that despite me teaching my daughter some Prince songs on piano and playing his music in the house quite a bit, I've never actually actively encouraged her to listen to Prince, or anything else. I find that l that's a good way to almost guarantee that kids WON'T listen to a given artist. Like, my mother was a huge Madonna fan. She grew up in the 80s when Madonna was really big and stayed a fan all her life. I fucking hated Madonna as a kid because it was all I heard. And later, when my big sister got into the Spice Girls it was Wannabe in one ear and Like A Virgin in the other. It was pure torture. Then, when I was a teenager, my boyfriend at the time tried to get me to listen to Prince. I was having none of it. Black Sweat had just come out and I was sick of it. I had no intention of listening to anything else Prince-related. Afterwards, I did become a Prince fan but it was on my own terms. Same with Madonna. Anything up to and including Bedtime Stories (with the exception of Like A Prayer) is great. I still don't care for the musical stylings of the Spice Girls though...
Kids really want to discover music on their own, especially as they get older. If they like what they hear they will actively listen to it, identify with it, and make it their own. It has to have personal relevance apart from parents, family, and friends... That way it belongs to them... Us... And not our friggin' parents!
It depends on how old (young) you are when you have kids and what you're into. My daughter was born 1 week before my 20th birthday, so I was still young and listening to what was "cool". And her entire childhood I was a mobile and club dj and always kept up with the new. The only way she could have rebelled musically was to go full classical, or pop country or some other "uncool" genre. LOL!!
To this day our tastes line up almost perfectly.
Not suggesting teenagers rush to have kids so they like the same music or anything though...
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