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Thread started 06/08/20 12:22pm

funkaholic1972

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How successful have YOU been trying to get your kids to like Prince's music?

I play music almost all of the time when I am at home, seldom my kids like anything I play though. They are in their 'kiddy pop' phase and exclusively listen to the latest commercial top 40 songs.

So to my great surprise recently I received a WhatsApp message from my 8 year old son asking "Which Prince song is this?". He posted a little soundclip where he was singing "duh-duh-duh-duh, duh-duh-duh-duh...". It took me a few seconds before I recognized it as the bass part of "Jungle Love" (as performed by The Time). So I told him the title and asked him why he wanted to know? He replied: "I just feel like playing the song now, but I didn't know the title...". Needless to say that as a dad obviously I was really pleased that persisting in playing Prince's music was finally starting to pay off! lol

I am sure showing him some of the The Time live performances must have helped, he enjoyed the little dance Morris and Jerome do together and we tried to copy it together afterwards, which was fun.

Anyone else who has successfully turned their kids into liking Prince's music?

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Reply #1 posted 06/08/20 3:29pm

EmmaMcG

My daughter is a similar age and she likes Prince's early stuff. Anything from For You to 1999. I think it's the synth sound she likes. I played a lot of that when she was younger so that's probably why she's gravitated towards that. She's not that much into his later music though but since the lockdown started I've been teaching her the piano and she can play The Beautiful Ones really well despite not being that familiar with the actual song.

And she loves The Time albums too. Probably more than the Prince ones. And then there's the somewhat concerning fact that she loves, LOVES the Prince version of Sex Shooter from The Originals album. It's a little disconcerting to hear an 8 year old girl sing along to that song but I don't think she knows or cares about what he's saying on the song.
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Reply #2 posted 06/08/20 3:41pm

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My son heard me playing Prince music since he was a little kid but he didn't really get into Prince himself until his late teens when he started teaching himself guitar and Prince became his guitar hero to emulate... Then when he went to his first live Prince concert he was mesmerized. To this day, Prince still ranks high on his list of stellar musicians.

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Reply #3 posted 06/08/20 8:14pm

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My boys, 17 and 12 are pretty keen on listening to Prince's music. They've been listening to my playing it in the car and at home as well as watching a lot of his music videos and concert clips on YouTube. What's interesting is that they seem to prefer some of his less commercially successful music such from albums such as Crystal Ball, Come, Newpower Soul, Gold as well as some more obscure music I've come to collect over the years. What I do regret is not being able to take my sons to a Prince concert to watch the man weave his musical magic.

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Reply #4 posted 06/09/20 12:24am

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My girls, 8 and 5, don't tend to like a lot I play.. the only Prince track that resonates for now is Ruff Enuff (with vocals). It's a start, but I guess they'll be going into Prince backwards. They've got years to go before For You!

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Reply #5 posted 06/09/20 9:33am

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My kids are huge fans. Even when they were tiny they heard tons of Prince music in the car (clean songs only, obviously). They are 22, 24 and 26 now and they all like his music and appreciate his talent.

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Reply #6 posted 06/09/20 12:18pm

antonb

My kids who are now 12, 17 and 20 and have grown up with me loving Prince and his music but they wont even stay in the room if I have something like the Sign of the times movie on. They think he is nothing! Very disappointing! My wife though, does like Prince quite alot.

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Reply #7 posted 06/09/20 12:30pm

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Both my kids and my granddaughter LOVE Prince music.

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Reply #8 posted 06/09/20 1:06pm

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Graycap23 said:

Both my kids and my granddaughter LOVE Prince music.

thumbs up!

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Reply #9 posted 06/09/20 2:11pm

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The son, not so much. He gravitates to obscure artists and mainly country music. My grandson, however, likes just a little bit of everything! He is trying to learn keyboard, so I think he appreciates quite a bit of Prince's music. As a teenager though, it is just not cool to like the same music as your grandmother. I did get him one day when I was playing some vinyl. I had "America" on, and he yells down from his room at my house, "Hey, I like that song...who is it?" Busted.

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Reply #10 posted 06/09/20 4:08pm

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I didn't try, I do believe in following ones own path but my adult daughter told me in the car not too long ago that she did discover that almost any Prince song she hears she could name which album it's on.
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Reply #11 posted 06/09/20 4:09pm

ForceofNature

I am a millenial and turned my father onto Prince's catalogue beyond the hits! A bit of a reverse to the thread lol

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Reply #12 posted 06/09/20 4:58pm

gandorb

i exposed my kids to Prince with hopes of converting them to fans. They liked a few songs, but don't seem to get that much into it. They like Queen but otherwise just gravitate to more current music. Part of it is that it just is part of the separation process. Most teens don't want to jam to their old man's favorite musician.

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Reply #13 posted 06/10/20 8:12am

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My daughter is 45; she grew up with my music. She plays it all now.

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Reply #14 posted 06/10/20 10:50am

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Thanks for all the replies so far, it was nice to read all your stories!

I have another daughter who is almost 21 now and left the house over a year ago. She never really expressed a liking for Prince, but in recent years her music tastes have shifted from electronic top 40 music to organic soul music. Which I already considered a 'win', LOL! lol She has since introduced me to some newer soul artists that I didn't knew of yet but have some great songs.

A while back I was playing the video of Prince's NAACP performance (with Sheila E and Morris Day) from 2006 I believe, which IMHO is a stellar live performance. My daughter watched it with me and after it was finished she said it was amazingly good and expressed that she feels sorry she will never be able to attend a Prince concert herself now that he passed away.

So eventhough it took 20 years, she is now at the point that she can finally see and understand that Prince was an amazing artist and performer...

RIP Prince: thank U 4 a funky Time...
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Reply #15 posted 06/10/20 11:04am

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ForceofNature said:

I am a millenial and turned my father onto Prince's catalogue beyond the hits! A bit of a reverse to the thread lol

So cool!

I was also able to turn my dad into liking Prince. When I was a teenager in the 80's he despised Prince and he always made nasty remarks about him. He called him the "Prince of Darkness", a 'pervert' and a bad influence. He also strongly disliked the Linn LM-1 drummachine, as he favored real drums. He even broke my brothers copy of the Purple Rain album in two after someone from our church had convinced him that Prince was possibly spreading the devil's message.

In the early 00's I decided to compile a few CD's of Prince songs that I thought he should be able to appreciate. My dad loves real musicians, especially the really good jazz-fusion ones. And lo and behold, after a while he told me he actually listened to them and used the CD's to drum along to (he has a drumkit in his living room). Then we watched the ONA dvd together and I gave him a copy of TRC. After that he was convinced and told me he hadn't realised how good a musician Prince was live and how good his band was.

He was a very unlikely Prince convert, but I am glad that my dad was able to get past his prejudices and is now enjoying Prince and his music! cool

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Reply #16 posted 06/10/20 12:19pm

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I believe that you should just put "If I was your Girlfriend" from the movie on TV. If they don't gravitate towards the beat, sexiness, and especially the fur coat, well then they are a bit square. He wears that coat better than every Instagram model and he's a guy. In 2020, still nobody has figured him out.
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Reply #17 posted 06/10/20 12:32pm

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Wolfie87 said:

I believe that you should just put "If I was your Girlfriend" from the movie on TV. If they don't gravitate towards the beat, sexiness, and especially the fur coat, well then they are a bit square. He wears that coat better than every Instagram model and he's a guy. In 2020, still nobody has figured him out.

Brilliant post, thanks, you made me laugh! lol

Totally agree BTW, and that fur coat fits him like a glove indeed!

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Reply #18 posted 06/10/20 12:45pm

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Short answer - not very.

Long answer - I'm into a huge variety of music, but Prince is what I play most. My husband however, is a massive Ramones fan and more or less plays them exclusively. The kids (13 and twins aged 9) LOVE the Ramones, and a few other punk bands, but hate Prince. The only song they like is this cover version of Purple Rain (link) from 2:15 onwards. I'll perservere - I live in hope smile

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Reply #19 posted 06/10/20 7:21pm

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maplenpg said:

Short answer - not very.

Long answer - I'm into a huge variety of music, but Prince is what I play most. My husband however, is a massive Ramones fan and more or less plays them exclusively. The kids (13 and twins aged 9) LOVE the Ramones, and a few other punk bands, but hate Prince. The only song they like is this cover version of Purple Rain (link) from 2:15 onwards. I'll perservere - I live in hope smile

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Reply #20 posted 06/10/20 7:43pm

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My kids say they don't like Prince, but when they think I'm not listening they are singing to the music of Prince and they know just about every song. lol

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Reply #21 posted 06/10/20 7:46pm

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My kids who are now grown adults, grew up hearing me play Prince's music, because he was my favorite entertainer, but still they never took to it, or liked it or him, and to this day, they still see him as "weird".....so I guess I wasn't very successful in trying to get them to like his music at all.

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Reply #22 posted 06/10/20 10:20pm

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looby said:

My kids who are now grown adults, grew up hearing me play Prince's music, because he was my favorite entertainer, but still they never took to it, or liked it or him, and to this day, they still see him as "weird".....so I guess I wasn't very successful in trying to get them to like his music at all.



Somebody even got a theory on that? I find David Bowie ugly and extremely weird but he is actually universally accepted as normal. Prince is STILL (!!!) considered weird to this goddamn day. I cannot wrap my head around that fact. I just can't. Haven't people catched up in 2020? Guess that's a testament to his work.
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Reply #23 posted 06/11/20 1:19am

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My 7 year old niece enjoys many Prince songs, and often asks to watch him on YouTube. She's loved Batdance for about 3 years, and Partyman, to a lesser extent.

These days her favourites are 7, Holly Rock, When Doves Cry and Kiss.

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Reply #24 posted 06/11/20 3:33am

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Wolfie87 said:

looby said:

My kids who are now grown adults, grew up hearing me play Prince's music, because he was my favorite entertainer, but still they never took to it, or liked it or him, and to this day, they still see him as "weird".....so I guess I wasn't very successful in trying to get them to like his music at all.



Somebody even got a theory on that? I find David Bowie ugly and extremely weird but he is actually universally accepted as normal. Prince is STILL (!!!) considered weird to this goddamn day. I cannot wrap my head around that fact. I just can't. Haven't people catched up in 2020? Guess that's a testament to his work.


Bowie had a larger and longer lasting commercial appeal. I've never really gravitated towards his music myself but he's a lot more well known than Prince is. Especially here in Ireland where the average young person (my age and younger) would struggle to name more than one or two Prince songs. And that's assuming they've ever even heard of him. Because some of my sister's friends have absolutely no idea who Prince is.

So because Prince is not as well known, when young folks are introduced to his music, it seems alien to them. Bowie is more well known, therefore more accepted.

As for Bowie being "ugly", I don't think that's a contributing factor to anything. I don't find Bowie or Prince to be all that good looking. I also don't find either of them to be weird either though.
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Reply #25 posted 06/11/20 5:51pm

RJP1205

I asked my 12 year old how successful I've been and he said "unsuccessful".. lol! But at 12 it wouldn't be cool to like what Mom likes. I hear him humming a P tune every so often.
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Reply #26 posted 06/12/20 6:31am

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Start when they're in the womb. My daughter is about to turn 30 and been listening to Prince her whole life plus the nine months before. She is, always has been and always will be a fan. wink


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Reply #27 posted 06/12/20 12:40pm

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djThunderfunk said:

Start when they're in the womb. My daughter is about to turn 30 and been listening to Prince her whole life plus the nine months before. She is, always has been and always will be a fan. wink


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This is how I was trained by my dad, listening to Steely Dan, and I have become a huge Steely Dan fan.

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Reply #28 posted 06/12/20 1:18pm

EmmaMcG

I should add that despite me teaching my daughter some Prince songs on piano and playing his music in the house quite a bit, I've never actually actively encouraged her to listen to Prince, or anything else. I find that l that's a good way to almost guarantee that kids WON'T listen to a given artist.

Like, my mother was a huge Madonna fan. She grew up in the 80s when Madonna was really big and stayed a fan all her life. I fucking hated Madonna as a kid because it was all I heard. And later, when my big sister got into the Spice Girls it was Wannabe in one ear and Like A Virgin in the other. It was pure torture. Then, when I was a teenager, my boyfriend at the time tried to get me to listen to Prince. I was having none of it. Black Sweat had just come out and I was sick of it. I had no intention of listening to anything else Prince-related.

Afterwards, I did become a Prince fan but it was on my own terms. Same with Madonna. Anything up to and including Bedtime Stories (with the exception of Like A Prayer) is great. I still don't care for the musical stylings of the Spice Girls though...
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Reply #29 posted 06/13/20 11:26am

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EmmaMcG said:

I should add that despite me teaching my daughter some Prince songs on piano and playing his music in the house quite a bit, I've never actually actively encouraged her to listen to Prince, or anything else. I find that l that's a good way to almost guarantee that kids WON'T listen to a given artist. Like, my mother was a huge Madonna fan. She grew up in the 80s when Madonna was really big and stayed a fan all her life. I fucking hated Madonna as a kid because it was all I heard. And later, when my big sister got into the Spice Girls it was Wannabe in one ear and Like A Virgin in the other. It was pure torture. Then, when I was a teenager, my boyfriend at the time tried to get me to listen to Prince. I was having none of it. Black Sweat had just come out and I was sick of it. I had no intention of listening to anything else Prince-related. Afterwards, I did become a Prince fan but it was on my own terms. Same with Madonna. Anything up to and including Bedtime Stories (with the exception of Like A Prayer) is great. I still don't care for the musical stylings of the Spice Girls though...

Kids really want to discover music on their own, especially as they get older. If they like what they hear they will actively listen to it, identify with it, and make it their own. It has to have personal relevance apart from parents, family, and friends... That way it belongs to them... Us... And not our friggin' parents! lol

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