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No. I'm grew up hearing the word and am not really bothered by it. I think it offends other races more than it offends us.
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djThunderfunk, Yes!
Wicm2, Yes!
I think that's why the Black people who do use it use it, to make the folks who feel guilty about it...make thier ears sting and make them think about it. Not folks who think it's rude, which it is, but the ones who really still feel racist.
I've used it on occassion, casually when it was "fashionable" and still being used on TV. (Not cable, but regular TV shows like Doogie Howser! There's a YouTube video interveiw with NPH and Sway where they discuss how crazy it is that it was ok to say on TV back then.) But mostly, I don't use it. Not for any reason like feeling politically uncomfortable. Given the right set of circumstances I'd use it, but it'd most likely be in anger not out of fondness, sorta like I use most profanity.
I try to behave like I have some kinda home training.
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Thank you. I'm often a witness to this type of discussion and try to be informative to foreigners because I realize that they often don't know about race relations in the US. Heck, the race relations between Whites and the Japanese during the war? Seriously crazy! Japanese American CITIZENS and thier FAMILIES were placed into "interment camps" with soldiers guarding them. US government was afraid that they might be spies. Fear causes folks to do crazy stuff.
(Incidentally, I know a bit of NZed's Maori history cuz an American writer buddy of mine writes a popular fictional romance series about All Blacks and puts Maori culture in the books for us Americans who didn't have a clue. Sometimes the characters also "go accross the ditch" too so we also get a bit about Australia as well. That's how I know a little about your history, language, traditions, food, music, a few legends, etc...and the haka. Sexy schtuff dat. Mwrar)
This is pretty close. BTW, I made that point to a Jewish person who was being rude. (Depending on the situation, I pull out one of my MANY ethnicities to squash ish). I deliberately said "Jew" which is seen as perjorative even when not being used that way instead of Jewish people's preferred term ("Jewish"). She called me racist. I said what you just said, "Really, so I'm an anti-semitic Jew?" She looked stunned cuz she didn't see "Jew" when she looked at me. She most likely thought Latina or mebbe Italian. Come to find out she's Jewish but doesn't know Hebrew, isn't observant, doesn't even speak Yiddish which is crazy cuz we live in NY and even so nonJews know a few Yiddish words cuz it's common here. I say all that to say...^^^^Yeah That^^^^^
Having racial discussions is necessary to educate ourselves about each other, but am I the only one who finds them emotionally exhausting and draining? [Edited 1/30/17 10:53am] | |
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I think folks have got the wrong idea here. It isnt a race/right to use thing. Its about going from "some things that you do to me leave me in a velvet swet" to "nigga this nigga that" etc
the fuck with all these essays about black vernacular, use of certain terms, cultural appropriation etc
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So am I understanding you correctly that you felt P using it was to be fake "edgy/fashionable"? | |
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this lol
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You quoted certain folks but there was no reply in any of the replies.
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word full lips, freckles, and upturned nose | |
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I don't like the word nor do I use it. | |
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Because all people of African ancestry think alike?
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Has he used it in songs during the 2000s? | |
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Sheila E used it in Koo Koo
Baby, never in my life in the time I've been with U | |
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he went there ..done it ..and moved on... | |
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I am not so fond of it. Don't care who says it
However, I wouldn't mind word play like....ninja please!
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Thats just as bad if its only saying the same thing in context. So if you dont like it, why even use a euphenism for the word?
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"Nigga?" . I don't have a problem with it, as it's a term of endearment amongst my people. Also, I feel Prince's use of the word was one of empowerment. No one has mentioned up to this point his clarification on the use via his song "Don't Play Me." I think his view of the word was made clear in this song, however, it seemed his views on the word evolved over time, much like Richard Pryor's view evolved. . "Nigger?" . Say the aforementioned around me and be prepared to catch these hands! | |
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Classic case of someone speaking about some things they aren't too informed about.
The term IS used quite frequently as a term of endearment in the black community. No judgement on whether or not its a good thing, but it certainly is the case.
I guess your last statement was supposed to be a joke. But, if you're so opposed to the word - IF you are, why are you typing it so freely. The "N" word will suffice.
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Classic case of someone making an assumption about somone they don't know.
I know it IS used quite frequently as a term of endearment. That is what I'm addressing. It is bogus. Because as soon as someone is mad with another they are a 'dumb ass ni&&a' 'broke ni&&a' or some other negative connotation. It cannot be both. Nobody says 'friend' or 'love' when they are angry at some one or fighting them.
Typing the word or saying it in a discussion for understanding is very much different from using it in everyday life. Which I don't.
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Imagine if they cancelled the entire European Royal Family because both Princes were GINGERS! There'd be an uproar! In about 50 years. i wish i'd never kissed your lips, bearded lady | |
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Reading some of the responses here, it's clear that a number of non-blacks seem to think they understand better what the word means or does not mean to us black people. As far as the use of the word in the context of Prince's music, one has to consider the time in which he used it. As a 45 yr old black man, I can say that I definltey used to used the word in the 90's as a term of endearment with my black friends, and all the time. It was "cool" to use. Especially when NWA came out; it just heightened the power of the word, as back in the day, it was an issue of "taking back" the word and turning it into a "positive" (and I stress that this is the word as it ends in "a" as opposed to "er". The "er" ending, when heard from a white person, is like being shocked or hit with a sledgehammer). But like anything with youth, you start to think about things and understand that what you thought might be wrong, and going in another direction would serve you better. Such was the case with this word. I'm sure that Prince, just like anything else in his career, thought about this word, why he started using it in the first place, and grew out of it, but used it totally as a term of black endearment, or to call out someone, etc., just the way we used it in reality. Even at 45, when I get with friends from college or just hanging out, we still use the word when it's "just us". Yeah, there are numerous ways that we say it around each other, but to put it bluntly, I know when someone uses it to express camradere vs. anger vs. jealousy, etc. It's just an innate thing that we will never be able to explain to others who claim that the word is bad in any context and point to the fact that if any one of another race said it to us, we'd get pissed. Well yea. | |
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I beg to differ. Typing the word and saying the word are equivalent. I don't care if it is for discussion sake. Besides, everyone knows what the N word is (when used as a term) and it hardly takes any more time to type, rather than spelling out the word you CLAIM you don't use.
Your point on the words use as a term of endearment is lost on me. Just because you say a word can't be used for friendly purposes as well as nonfriendly (antagonistic) purposes doesn't make it so. For example, "What's up my, MF!" versus "I wish you would, MF". (MF being the expletive.) One MF was used in a friendly manner, one MF used in a nonfriendly (antagonistic). The same is done with the N word. | |
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so how do we discuss things if we can't type it? Hardly the same. . At first you said I'm not informed of the use of the word. MF is hardly the same as a broken English form of Ni&&er . The use of the term is bogus. And I'm glad Prince stopped using it in his music.
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As a black man I’ll say this and let the chips fall where they may:
I hate the word whether it be ‘gga or ‘ger. I think the whole gga vs ger was a cop out from the start. When people were getting heat for calling themselves that this “logic” of how the word was said became the fail safe.
I respect Prince for many things but hearing him use the word made me think less of him.
It’s a foul word born out of hate and dehumanization. Even when we use it ourselves it is marginalizing.
We are all free to speak as we like but words do have meaning. [Edited 2/2/17 13:38pm] | |
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