. To answer your question, agirl, I will repeat my thoughts shared in Reply #1342: .
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THIS !
Anyone that was around him had to "accept" that his LOVE was NON EXCLUSIVE
"He loves You and he loves ME TOO "
Did he love any one person MORE than another ?
That is the question that we will be left to specualte upon for all time.
Judith has said Prince told her "I will always be there for you, He said the Same to Tamron, Nik, and no doubt he said that to Andy too...
I think WE have to spend more time Contemplating what LOVE really is, because it seems Prince knew and lived it on a whole other level than we mere Mortals understand as is evidenced by the profound internal affect his departure has had on all of us...
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Fly on the Wall..
What do you make of this ?
http://www.billboard.com/articles/news/6415102/prince-another-love-lyric-video-exclusive-premiere
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. Lovejunky, I think Prince's lyrics give us more insight into the inner workings of his mind than anything else. He seems to address the question of loving more than one woman "at the same time" in his last known song, "Stay Cool," the handwritten lyrics to which are on display in the Control Room of his beloved Studio A at Paisley Park. . In his mind, if we are to believe his words, he has "the only one that matters in [his] world" and "the candy girl." We can only hope that he actually recorded the song!!! . Here is the relevant portion. .
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Lovejunky, I think you already know what I think: This was all about Andy. . As I stated in Reply #1334, "I do believe that Andy's absence weighed heavily on Prince during his performances after she left. He was often very, very emotional...and sometimes visibly angry." The video "Anotherlove" is one of those times when P was visibly angry, which probably means that 3RDEYEGIRL's, PLECTRUMELECTRUM, is a SIXTH album on which Andy Allo's presence (or absence) is felt. . But, if you read Andy's poetry from 2013, which is when she walked away from Prince, he was the guilty party, or as Prince sings in "ANOTHERLOVE," "behind [his] back, [he was] a "so and so." . . . Really, their story strikes me as a classic, tragic "he said/she said" story of star-crossed lovers. And it is an epic story, one that is yet to be fully told. . Be that as it may, the record indicates that, until the very end, Prince was still trying to find his way back to Andy, but for whatever reason, it never happened, perhaps because, like Vanity, she was unwilling to share him. And...she wanted marriage. [Edited 12/26/16 18:27pm] | |
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Lovejunky said:
THIS !
Anyone that was around him had to "accept" that his LOVE was NON EXCLUSIVE
"He loves You and he loves ME TOO "
Did he love any one person MORE than another ?
That is the question that we will be left to specualte upon for all time.
Judith has said Prince told her "I will always be there for you, He said the Same to Tamron, Nik, and no doubt he said that to Andy too...
I think WE have to spend more time Contemplating what LOVE really is, because it seems Prince knew and lived it on a whole other level than we mere Mortals understand as is evidenced by the profound internal affect his departure has had on all of us...
[Edited 12/26/16 17:09pm] I truly believe that P was polyamorous. I saw a tv program about it a while ago, it was so interesting and makes so much sense when you realise that their brains are actually wired up differently. So rather than believing he was some kind of player I now prefer to think he just couldn't help but love several women at the same time. There's always a rainbow 🌈 , at the end of every rain ☔️ | |
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. You might not think it is serious for a photographer to doctor a photo, especially of a megastar like Prince, but many, including myself, would consider it unethical. Besides which, why would someone risk their professional reputation (and career) in such a nonsensical way? And, more importantly, if he were going to doctor ONE image from Montreax, why didn't he just doctor them ALL? . In any case, these are the photos I had previously seen of Prince and Andy with Sharpie hearts. Trust me, I am not actively seeking such photos. Remember, you noticed (and mentioned) the heart on his finger before I even saw it in the photo that started this discussion. And, it was only after anangellooksdown prompted me to look at the photo more closely that I made the discovery. Before that, the only thing that stood out to me was his afro. . This photo was taken by Prince. . . I'm not sure who took this photo of Prince, but it is all over the internet. .
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I tend to agree. The more I learn about Prince, I really think he would have been an ideal candidate for polygamy. If it were legal in this country, I wonder if he would have partaken? He could certainly afford that family type. Some already refer to his many proteges and lovers as "sister wives." And I am dead serious. | |
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I believe that P wanted an exclusive relationship with AA but he also had committed himself to helping a bevy of proteges and muses all of whom had a vested interest in having his undivided attention. A number of them have dropped hints about him being interested in them or making advances that they rejected, with one outright sugggesting that she had a relationship with him --and then claimed she was misquoted. I have no idea what the working environment at PP was like. Shameless Maya disclosed on her video blog that there was a daily parade of beautiful women in and out of PP. She also said in the GQ article that none of the women were P's widow. P said in an interview that he could not be played. Unfortunately, he made himself vulnerable to being played by women who most likely dropped hints through the PP grapevine that he was interested in them or had a relationship with them. We know that women intentionally do such stuff. Such hints and gossip would most likely have reached AA who would then be reticent about attaching herself to a known player. Once he decided to have a relationship with AA, he should have drawn a line and dealt with the other women (his bevy of curly haired babes) on an arms length and business basis. If he had married AA and had a child with her, he would have slowed down and taken time off to be with his family. That scenario would not have served the interests of most of the associates, muses and proteges. In the long run, it would have served everyone's interest for P to be here. If he was married, and had a wife living with him there is a good chance that he would still be with us today. Unfortunately, most people put their own self interest first. “The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.” – Albert Einstein | |
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I tend to agree. The more I learn about Prince, I really think he would have been an ideal candidate for polygamy. If it were legal in this country, I wonder if he would have partaken? He could certainly afford that family type. Some already refer to his many proteges and lovers as "sister wives." And I am dead serious. It's something a bit different than that, I think. We use these words to describe what we know and understand, but Prince was truly more than that. Anyone wanting to have a lasting relationship with Prince would have had to have the same inner confidence. Not in an egotistical way; in a sweet way. She would have to possess certain traits like honesty, sincerity, kindness and compassion. This person would not be bothered by his loving other people. She would know she stood apart from the rest and was the one he wanted to be with more than anyone else. If she was jilted she would not be very affected. She would be steady and consistent. He would be able to trust her and be most intimate with her. She would have to be someone who was supportive and encouraging of him, and her true dependence would have to be on a Source other than him. Together but separate. Mutual respect and equally yoked. She would be able to give to him and any problems could be worked through. This person would've also needed to be helping others in her own right by the time she met him. I see her as having a different role than a protege. This person would have been his Queen. She did not get to him on this earth and that is the saddest part of their journeys so far. But life is never-ending. Remember? | |
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LE says she was introduced to Prince in December 2008 by a friend. There are no photos of LE and Prince as a couple. Perhaps, she has a private collection. She posted a photo taken at a concert on December 30, 2014, before P passed. There were several people in the photo.
https://www.facebook.com/...2258519963
https://twitter.com/Baron...3459645442
There are no further posts from her about Prince until he passed away and then she posted the following: https://www.instagram.com...fPys7yWNR/
https://www.facebook.com/...7251903797
She helped to dispell the rumor at P dying from AIDS.
She appeared in the videos for Extraloveable and Chocolate Box. According to Prince Vault, Prince completed Extraloveable in 1982. He remix and completed in 2011, and Andy Allo rapped on it. https://www.instagram.com...XAtIVyWHT/
http://princevault.com/in...raloveable
Prince recorded Chocolate Box in 2008 or early 2009 and LE appeared in the video.
http://princevault.com/in...colate_Box http://www.princevault.co...colate_Box
She said P recorded "That Girl Thang" for her and gave her the instrumental recording. Prince Vault quotes her as the source of this information.
http://princevault.com/in...Girl_Thang
She indicates that she was not liked in PP circles. Here is an extract from one of her posts:
http://princevault.com/in...Girl_Thang
"We had so much fun together. But we also argued, as those who are close, inevitably do. During December of 2015, we hadn't spoke in a few weeks. We were distant.
There's a lovely photo of LE at the link below:
She sounds like a kind and loyal friend who deeply care about P. I don't get the sense that she was in a relationship with P at the time of his passing. So yes, P knew her before Andy Allo came into the picture. We have to remember that Bria Valente was also there before AA. So where did LE fit in? Not too sure. “The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.” – Albert Einstein | |
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This magazine posted such a cool picture of him http://stapico.com/pibemagazine . Recently I've been looking a lot for his concert pictures and if you guys can help with more will be much appreciated | |
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. The thing is, many, if not most, of P's "bevy of curly haired babes" came onto the scene after Andy walked. In hindsight, I think leaving Prince alone, after perhaps ending his celibacy and reawakening his legendary libido, was a dreadful mistake. I think he alluded to this vacuum in his haunting Hitnrun Phase One ballad, "June."
. She was gone...and he was virtually living on social media trying to find her clone (perhaps listening to Richie Havens singing Bob Dylan's classic "All Along the Watchtower," that P famously sang at the Super Bowl). But, she was doing what she felt she needed to do to get him to honor his promise of marrying her, of which her poetry hints. It was what her integrity demanded. . I tell you, P and AA really made a mess of things. As she reminisces in her upcoming song "Dandelion," "Oh, the mistakes we made." In essence, she played right into the "bevy's" hands by taking the hardest of lines with her beloved Prince. . Also, bibrose, I think you are right that P let friends (and perhaps orgers) get into his head and make him second-guess his relationship with Andy...AND his plans to marry her. Then, there is the matter of his health issues. In the end, sadly, I think they just ran out of time. | |
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Prince Vault shows that Prince recorded "Look at Me, Look at U" in Summer 2014 or 2015. The reference to the Egyptian Queen Nefertiti is most likely in relation to AA. P had a fixation with Egypt with M1 being referred to as an "Egyptian Princess", and M2 actually being half Egyptian. “The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.” – Albert Einstein | |
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. Wow. Thanks for the background info on Lala. It seems that, other than music videos, we are left with nothing but her personal accounts to tell us the extent of her relations with Prince. Some commenters here have referred to the "ones that Prince kept in the coup," while "he paraded" Andy around. Perhaps this is an example of the kind of such relationships they reference. Could she be the "candy girl" that P writes about in "Stay Cool"? | |
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Wow. So, you think Prince needed a saint, angel? Cause that sure sounds like what you're describing, some otherworldly being willing to share freely her man. Then again, I guess I do know of women who turn a blind eye to their men's dalliances. | |
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She provided information about the Vanity Fair photo shoot. She indicated that she styled P for the photo shoot and purchased the jewelry he wore. She seems like a very sweet person who is also hurting from her loss, and has had to deal with haters. If we the fans are having such a hard time coping with P's passing, then how much more difficult is it for the people who actually knew him? I think P would be saddened, if he were around and his close friends are being subject to abuse on his account. She was able to attend the LA Memorial event so she was able to get some closure. https://www.facebook.com/...mp;theater “The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.” – Albert Einstein | |
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FlyOnTheWall said:
Wow. So, you think Prince needed a saint, angel? Cause that sure sounds like what you're describing, some otherworldly being willing to share freely her man. Then again, I guess I do know of women who turn a blind eye to their men's dalliances. What would have calmed and grounded Prince would've been a spiritually matured female who was unlike anyone he had ever met. That would be the person who would "suck him in" without trying to or needing to - and without playing all the games typical human beings do. She would have to be very unique. Such a person is not really describable. It is a matter of personal power and energy; not sainthood. Chances are he wouldn't want anyone other than her after not too long a time. They would've helped a lot of people together. She would have satisfied everything in him effortlessly. These are things he sang about wanting, but even he couldn't have known exactly what she would be like until and if she appeared, which she did not. I have always believed that this was one of the things that made him sad. He was tired. | |
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I understand precisely what she is describing. The only scenario in which P could have had a successful relationship would have been a situation where his wife would have been willing to turn a blind eye to his extra-marital relationships, and focused on raising a family while supporting his career. Most African women are used to dealing with such situations, but AA was most likely not willing to compromise at all. “The world as we have created it is a process of our thinking. It cannot be changed without changing our thinking.” – Albert Einstein | |
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What would have calmed and grounded Prince would've been a spiritually matured female who was unlike anyone he had ever met. That would be the person who would "suck him in" without trying to or needing to - and without playing all the games typical human beings do. She would have to be very unique. Such a person is not really describable. It is a matter of personal power and energy; not sainthood. Chances are he wouldn't want anyone other than her after not too long a time. They would've helped a lot of people together. She would have satisfied everything in him effortlessly. These are things he sang about wanting, but even he couldn't have known exactly what she would be like until and if she appeared, which she did not. I have always believed that this was one of the things that made him sad. He was tired.
I understand precisely what she is describing. The only scenario in which P could have had a successful relationship would have been a situation where his wife would have been willing to turn a blind eye to his extra-marital relationships, and focused on raising a family while supporting his career. Most African women are used to dealing with such situations, but AA was most likely not willing to compromise at all. Oh ho...this woman would not have been a doormat. [Edited 12/27/16 7:41am] | |
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I agree. But, in order for a wife/girlfriend to turn a blind eye, the husband/boyfriend would have to be discreet and not publicly humiliate his wife/girlfriend. Having one of his known "candy girls" in his music video is impossible to ignore...and it is demoralizing for the wife/girlfriend. P was known to be on that harem tip, though. And, Miss Andy was not having it. . Besides which, most women in their early twenties, Prince's target market, have not yet reached the level of "maturity" or pragmatism needed to navigate (and negotiate) such a relationship. Whatever the case, such a man would need to ensure that his woman's dignity and integrity are intact. . But a man like Prince, with almost unlimited power and means--AND fine as the day is long, during daylight savings time, at that...AND known to have that good good--was used to doing whatever the eff he wanted. After which, he'd be like : "Who gon' check me, boo?"
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I would draw the line at stating that "most African women are used to dealing with such situations." I know plenty of African women who are unwilling to share their men, under any circumstances. And, by the same token, there are women of all races who are willing to turn a blind eye to their men's indiscretions. | |
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I have always loved that Vanity Fair photo. I can't imagine how difficult it is for those who knew him. It's good that she was able to attend the memorial in LA. . I am struck by this with regard to Lala: On the one hand, her dealings with Prince, other than music videos, were hidden, but she now feels free to share many of the allegedly intimate details of their friendship. Andy, on the other hand, traveled the globe with Prince...and he serenaded her on the world stage. Yet, she remains, for all intents and purposes, silent, leaving us to wonder, still, about the extent of their relationship. That's quite a contrast. | |
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So despite the other artists that Prince worked with you want us to believe that 2011-2014 was only historic because of Andy Allo? I like Andy and I dig Superconductor but lets keep it real, that album hasn't gone double wood and most of us only became aware of her music through being Prince fans. I do like how you and Latin will dig up anything and I do mean ANYTHING to keep this thread alive though because I don't think very many people over here are looking for their daily Andy update.
I however just checked into this thread again to see if you told us yet why you don't like Lala. This thread is for Lala right? From what I can tell thru my own social media research, it looks like Andy disappeared around the same time Lala came back on the scene. | |
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Here we go. First, what's not to like about Lala? She seems to be a nice enough young lady. Honestly, I knew absolutely nothing about her prior to this thread. I had not seen P's videos where she is a featured dancer. Beyond the videos, other than her personal stories since his passing, it's as though she didn't exist in Prince's world. And, I'm not trying to be mean, but that's all I can verify. . With regard to this thread, it is dedicated to Prince's collaborations with Andy Allo. There was a question about Lala, which bibirose kindly answered, but make no mistake: This thread is dedicated to Prince and Andy's prolific collaboration. So, feel free to start your own thread on Lala if you are so inclined. . Lastly, out of respect, I will answer your question, although you apparently, you did not even read the comment to which you are responding. Let me just repeat: .
. In addition, it dawned on me last evening that Andy's influence is also present on a SIXTH album: Plectrumelectrum. SIX. Count 'em! Now, thank you for your continued interest. [Edited 12/27/16 9:22am] | |
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I agree. But, in order for a wife/girlfriend to turn a blind eye, the husband/boyfriend would have to be discreet and not publicly humiliate his wife/girlfriend. Having one of his known "candy girls" in his music video is impossible to ignore...and it is demoralizing for the wife/girlfriend. P was known to be on that harem tip, though. And, Miss Andy was not having it. . Besides which, most women in their early twenties, Prince's target market, have not yet reached the level of "maturity" or pragmatism needed to navigate (and negotiate) such a relationship. Whatever the case, such a man would need to ensure that his woman's dignity and integrity are intact. . But a man like Prince, with almost unlimited power and means--AND fine as the day is long, during daylight savings time, at that...AND known to have that good good--was used to doing whatever the eff he wanted. After which, he'd be like : "Who gon' check me, boo?"
[Edited 12/27/16 7:52am] [b] Such a woman would already know who she is. She could not "be" humiliated by others' actions or behavior. Her dignity and integrity would be only a result of her own actions, not others'. She would also not be concerned with how others see her. | |
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