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New topic PrintablePeteSilas said: that's what i'm getting at, being busy and staying busy can help. Of course I know it isn't the only solution or the solution for severe pain. I knew a navy seal and he was in such tremendous pain that he couldn't live without being pumped full of shit, it was sad and humbling, and although, I couldn't subjectively feel his pain, I knew it had to be tremendous. I learned from him and try not to be judgemental, I saw his scars and he told me enough of the things he'd been through, both physical and mental, which he couldn't come back from. He's most likely dead now too. Neat guy in so many ways. I'm a firm believer in yoga, meditation, acupuncture, massages, hydro-therapy, legal marijuana and proper pain management medication but sometimes non of that stuff helps...and so then they make you try all these pain management behavioral programs to rewire the brain's perception of pain and sometimes the pain continues...but that rarely happens. I think I happened to me as I was such a fanatical health nut about what foods I ate and just striving to be healthy as possible to keep seizures at bay that any pharmacological substance has a huge effect on my body. I wonder if that's what happened to Prince too. | |
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mailaccount63 said:[quote] Mkilpatrick74 said: tish9311 said:
....I too believe Prince would want us to have these discussions. I also believe Prince would want us to have these discussions. Anyone who has excruciating, chronic pain knows how difficult it is to manage. Yes!! It is a job in itself! | |
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If Prince didn't carry a cell phone and never made his own phone calls someone will go down for this. I am a pain mgt patient as well in Florida and here we have to submit to random drug testing etc. I have a feeling his doctors were not following the letter of the law because of who he was and because of that he is gone. We are now making our final approach to Satisfaction
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purplethunder3121 said:
I have friend who is suffering from severe bouts of back and knee pain, getting worse over time. He had surgery on one knee and says that it is worse now than before surgery and refuses to have any more. I have to wonder if it is only a matter of time before he is forced to take a medication stronger than legal marijuana... Unfortunately with back surgeries like I have had , the pain always gets worse. Not sure about knee, but I would say avoid another at all cost if the first wasn't successful. The ONLY reason I've had ten surgeries knowing that my pain would get worse was to walk again and be able to write and use my hands again. Sometimes I almost wish I had stayed in the wheelchair BC then maybe eventually I would have felt nothing | |
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That's what is still so "gray" about the timeline. Will Smith claims he spoke with Prince the evening of the 20th. If true, it would be interesting what time they spoke.
Also according to the StarTribune: "Sources have said that shortly before Prince’s death, members of the artist’s inner circle became so concerned about his health that they reached out to Phaedra Ellis-Lamkins, a well-known environmental and labor activist in the San Francisco Bay Area credited with helping Prince recover the rights to his early songs from Warner Bros. She has declined to comment, citing Prince’s concern for his privacy.
The night of April 20, less than 12 hours before Prince’s body was found, Ellis-Lamkins called Dr. Howard Kornfeld, a pain and addiction specialist in Mill Valley, Calif., seeking his help to get the musician off prescription painkillers, sources said."
So, CA is two hours behind MN time ... His body was found about 9:40 am on the 21st ... 12 hours before would mean she contacted Dr. Kornfeld about 9:40 pm (MN time)/7:40 pm (CA) on the 20th??
The unknown of course is what time did Prince's inner circle contact her before she contacted Dr. Kornfeld???
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Here's the thing (and if somebody's already said this, I'm sorry for repeating--there's still several more pages of comments ahead of me and I don't know what people will say in them)--this isn't just about how he died. Depending on what he was doing, and for how long, and why it very well could be exactly about how he lived his life. Even if it was all just in response to physical pain, according to some talk it's 10, 15, 20 years of performances and creation that relied, in part, on his use of opioids to get him through. Maybe more, if, God forbid, the supposed drug dealer's telling the truth. What if Duane was, and he'd been doing tons of coke to keep himself going earlier?
Part of Prince's legacy is the story that was told about how he did all the work he did--and it was supposed to be clean, powered by the love of music and God (no matter how many of us didn't share his faith). Sorry, but that was the narrative, and part of that narrative was also that he was honest--not open, but honest. This new story we're trying to deal with affects all of that, it shows a secretive, furtive, scared, not in control Prince that isn't really the same one we knew (any of the ones we thought we knew--he had sides, but we didn't think this was one of them)--it changes the narrative, and that makes a difference in his legacy. Yes, lots of artists have done a lot of drugs--but that was part of their legend, and their legacy. This isn't part of Prince's legend as we understood him, and it does change things, even for those who do love the music--it changes the experience of the music, it changes meanings.
Is he still the greatest performer and musical creator of my lifetime--yes, I think so. But I want to understand what happened, and to understand, as much as I can, the artist that I've loved for most of my life, who has been the only consistent part of my life for that whole time (my family and friends from back then are dead or have drifted away). This death, and what led to it, is only part of doing that--but it is part of it. [Edited 6/3/16 19:36pm] | |
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I don't know if these questions has been brought up (sorry in advance ), does this mean they won't release the full autopsy report etc like they did for MJ, Whitney? I just heard that they were going to release the full report today, but I haven't seen any updates. What about hyperthetically should there be crimminal charges against the GP etc. In a nutshell what happens now? Keep Calm & Listen To Prince | |
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Love your post Eddie. Reconciling the conflicting sides requires wisdom and compassion, which you have in beaucoup plenty. Brand new boogie without the hero. | |
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This sounds like a logical scenario - not to mention less disturbing than some of the others. | |
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I agree--this is along the lines of what I was thinking. I saw Prince perform in 2014 at a small club and I was only a few feet away and the difference of his weight, physical appearance, and energy between then and 2016 was like night and day. Thank you, Benni, for weighing in with your opinion and sharing your experience as someone who deals with chronic pain on a daily basis. Your thoughts are comforting at this difficult time. "Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination and life to everything." --Plato
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Thank you for this information. I replied much sooner but it never showed up in this thread, maybe it came right to you? Anyhow, yes, He would be humiliated and embarrassed by the private information and discussions already taking place and being thrown around as fodder for other's interpretation. I have experienced this first hand, with my own Brother's highly- spotlighted life and death, in the public eye. However, this is about Prince and I will honor his talent and accomplishments and be grateful for his long and wonderful musical legacy. | |
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purplethunder3121 said:
I have friend who is suffering from severe bouts of back and knee pain, getting worse over time. He had surgery on one knee and says that it is worse now than before surgery and refuses to have any more. I have to wonder if it is only a matter of time before he is forced to take a medication stronger than legal marijuana... I live in the Bible belt....south Carolina. They will never make it legal here, which is a shame. I've had so many people tell me I should move somewhere it's legal bc they believe it would help my pain. I would love to hear from someone w chronic back pain who takes medical marijuana to see if it works. | |
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spastic78 said: Mkilpatrick74 said: And here I thought I was the only one who was up from 2-4am each night. It's like clockwork for me. I had no idea this was common among many of my fellow chronic pain patients. I thought it was bc laying down for me makes the pain 10X's worse due to the pressure from all the ruptured discs and scar tissue that are pushing down on all of the nerves from my neck to my tailbone. I try to call it a night no later than 11:30pm and even if I happen to fall asleep the pain will wake me up and there I go pacing floors between 2-4am. I wanted to ask, if u don't mind answering, what exactly it felt like when you had the respiratory distress and OD? Was it painful? We're u able to call out for help or did someone happen to find u perhaps struggling to breathe? I won't lie, I'm terrified everytime I take my meds now. So glad to know you pulled through and so glad u were able to share your experience(s). I too believe Prince would want us to have these discussions. Big Hugggsss!!! ***** You hit that one on the head! Yes, it's usually a last resort but they do use it in chronic pain patients who have become tolerant / resistant to other narcotics. For instance, I started out on hydrocodone back in 2007. After my 5 th back / neck zurgery they moved me to percocet. After surgery #8 I had to switch to MS Contin (time released morphine ) with oxycodone for breakthrough pain. After surgery #10 we were having trouble controlling the pain when I ended up w staph infection inside my incision down to my hardware and that's when she suggested fentanyl but I said no bc jts just too dangerous. We finally have the dose right but eventually I will grow tolerant to this dosage. Thank God it's just a mid level for someone w my type of pain but still yet it scares the hell out of me. Eventually I imagine I will have to have a pain pump inserted unless they come up with a solution other than meds that will work. I have zero other options and it sucks. I don't really like sharing my story w anyone bc others are so quick to judge and wrongly label us as a junkie or addict just BC we take pain meds daily. They know nothing about what I endure but are quick to judge. Just like many are doing to our Prince. I can totally understand where his mindset most likely was that night. Sometimes it's so bad you are desperate for relief anyway you can get it. If you haven't lived in pain or through withdrawals while in pain with nothing to help you, it's hard to grasp. You literally want the pain to just stop or either you just want to go to sleep and never wake up. Sad but true. I hope that sharing my story will allow others to see the "human" component of his overdose and how easily and unintentionally it likely happened. Never stop caring and never stop talking to others and asking questions BC you never know, you may just save a life BC of the knowledge gained. I for one will do my part to make sure his death wasn't in vain. [Edited 6/3/16 21:14pm] [Edited 6/3/16 21:15pm] [Edited 6/3/16 21:20pm] [Edited 6/4/16 0:45am] | |
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We just lost another legend. RIP Muhammand Ali
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If you have ever been around somebody that has had to have surgery due to deteriorated joints then you would know the extreme pain that follows..Even after surgery everything isn't always good. Bone grinding on bone is dibilitating and most have no option but to endure and take something to manage the pain that in most cases is ongoing..even after multiple corrective surgeries. It's very sad that he was in so much pain and it is very sad that even in his death he is receiving such harsh judgement.Ive read the report and I'm completely saddened for Prince and his family and friends.I don't want to know anymore but I completely understand others wanting to. If ever there was an end this just made it so real..it's all too much. Respect & Love Prince ..nothing will ever change that infact it just makes it stronger. xx | |
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Very sweet photo. Rest in power to Ali and Prince, of course. I feared as much when I saw "Prince and Ali" trending on Twitter just now. "Be glad for what you had baby, what you've got..." | |
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CROWNS1 said:
The pills have to be dissolved under the tongue. Stomach acid make them ineffective if swallowed. So it's either patch, pills under tongue or injecting. to get a high quick enough to make you pass out standing up, you have have to inject or put alot of pills under your tongue. A patch wouldn't give you the quick response unless you put it in your mouth. [Edited 6/2/16 19:13pm] If Prince was in full blown withdrawals as we are being led to believe, all it would take is one dose to cause the OD. Once he got the shot to save his life, that basically wiped his system clean. Therefore the high tolerance be may have previous!y had was then null and void. I am, however, more leaning towards him applying more than one patch. Prob out one on when he got home and maybe another closer to the 3 am mark if he was still in a lot of pain and was thinking it would help him. All if this is just my best guess tho.... | |
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PeteSilas said:
look , conrad murray went to jail for the mj thing, dr. nichopolous lost his license after Elvis, if someone was giving Prince anything, they should pay,it's not crazy it's the way things are. The crazy talk I'm referring to is the need for his fans to believe his death was more then a drug overdose. It it what it is. Prince killed himself with an overdose of drugs that were not prescribed to him. | |
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You should relax, it's not healthy to get all riled up I'll have my opinions and you have yours. That's what makes the world such a great place, yes? [Edited 6/3/16 16:51pm] | |
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You should relax, it's not healthy to get all riled up I'll have my opinions and you have yours. That's what makes the world such a great place, yes? [Edited 6/3/16 16:51pm] | |
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Goddess4Real said: I don't know if these questions has been brought up (sorry in advance ), does this mean they won't release the full autopsy report etc like they did for MJ, Whitney? I just heard that they were going to release the full report today, but I haven't seen any updates. What about hyperthetically should there be crimminal charges against the GP etc. In a nutshell what happens now? All reports have been released. What happens now is finding out how and who supplied Prince these drugs. | |
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Goddess4Real said: I don't know if these questions has been brought up (sorry in advance ), does this mean they won't release the full autopsy report etc like they did for MJ, Whitney? I just heard that they were going to release the full report today, but I haven't seen any updates. What about hyperthetically should there be crimminal charges against the GP etc. In a nutshell what happens now? All reports have been released. What happens now is finding out how and who supplied Prince these drugs. | |
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How do you know they were not prescribed ?? Fentanyl patches come in a box... So, yes it's easy to use more than you should. I sometimes wonder if doctors actually inform their patients well enough about these kinds of painkillers. Our family doctor prescribed Fentanyl patches for my mum, who has a severe pain in her leg. He never told her how dangerous this substance can be, just that it was a 'strong' painkiller. (Thank God, I had heard of Fentanyl and told her never to mess with the dose !) But when you're in a lot of pain, you're just grateful for anything that lessens that pain. And if the doctor prescribed it, it should be fine, right ?... | |
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How do you know they were not prescribed ?? Fentanyl patches come in a box... So, yes it's easy to use more than you should. I sometimes wonder if doctors actually inform their patients well enough about these kinds of painkillers. Our family doctor prescribed Fentanyl patches for my mum, who has a severe pain in her leg. He never told her how dangerous this substance can be, just that it was a 'strong' painkiller. (Thank God, I had heard of Fentanyl and told her never to mess with the dose !) But when you're in a lot of pain, you're just grateful for anything that lessens that pain. And if the doctor prescribed it, it should be fine, right ?... | |
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This is a good insight.
Anyone who controls things as much as he did is, underneath is frightened of something. You can feel this in his lyrics. He often felt wounded by the women in his life, and yet how much did he contribute to the relationships' ruptures with his lack of fidelity, or tendency to isolate himself, or preferring a tour to a home life? But he made his own choices, and they were probably what he felt he needed, i.e. the best decisions he could make. It is not a marring of all he did, who he was, and the marvelous music he gave us to party to, and think about. Especially the lyrics in the later years were very inspiring and reflected the growth of his perspective. He was so generous a performer and creator that he lived in virtual isolation -- because even those closest to him said he was "very private." His use of painkillers, even that he may have battled dependence, do not make him "less than." He was brilliant, driven and generous with himself in many ways. One reason for my opinion is that I've been close friends with a couple of people who were real geniuses, like probably IQ's in the top .01% or something. And I think both were very lonely, and quite frightened of losing control. Both feared death much more than I or other ordinary mortals. Neither one was capable of a long-term relationship, although they enjoyed the loyalty of those they nurtured along. None of these news reports give me any reason to think he a) had HIV/AIDS, b) used cocaine or other illegal drugs for years. It's best not to judge anyone who tries to alleviate pain. I suspect it was both physical and emotional arising from childhood issues and adult disappointments, which we all face to one degree or another. Rest in peace.
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