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Thread started 05/01/16 10:06pm

purplethunder3
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Prince's music helped loss; what music helps you deal with his loss?

I had to take a break from grief. I had many personal losses in the last couple of years and the loss of Prince just amplified that and opened wounds that hadn't healed. sad It felt like I lost my best friend all over again (who passed last year) and my youth all in one blow. Prince's music always helped me get through the thick and thin, the good and bad, the happy and sad... But who is going to help me deal with his loss? Now, I find myself leaning on the music of musicians who lifted me up before I even knew about Prince. Such as Stevie Wonder's album "Songs In The Key of Life." Bruce Spirngsteen, too. George Clinton and Bootsie, who I saw both of last year... What are the songs who help you deal with the passing of Prince, who helped me deal with so many issues and the passing of friends and family ove the years... Please share here.

"Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination and life to everything." --Plato

https://youtu.be/CVwv9LZMah0
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Reply #1 posted 05/01/16 10:20pm

violectrica

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When my husband passed away I listen to songs that made me wallow in it and made me get better.

The wallowing songs were not by Prince because it was my husband's favorite music that made me relive the pain: let me be myself by 3 doors down, iris by goo goo dolls (our baby is iris) if you're gone by matchbox 30. Really hard lyrically for me but I tortured myself with them. Oh and The best of you (which is for fighters but also we know prince covered) and hero by for fighters.

Prince helped me with the comfort and not so wallowy. Sweet baby- I could never take the place of ur man - nothing compares 2 u - sometimes entire albums.
No matter the ©️, Paisley Park "official can never ™️ prince. He gave that to us verbally on Oprah in 1996. You can't take prince away from us, corporate. I mean O ( + >
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Reply #2 posted 05/01/16 11:00pm

monkeyrose

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i still cannot listen 2 his music since that day,

even seeing his face everywhere is killing me

i might need a break from the computer 2 deal with it better although i am constanly singing his tunes in my head - "the cross" all night Saturday

time with help

As long as we keep our luv strong we'll never shed no tears
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Reply #3 posted 05/01/16 11:25pm

purpledoda

I tried to listen to another music after his death ( for example- Lianna La Havas, she is great, I saw her in autumn) but I couldn't. I listen to him music, I cry but only his music can help me- I think.

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Reply #4 posted 05/02/16 12:04am

morningsong

Love songs. Actually it seemed like the radio station was sandwiching each Prince song they played last week between various classic love ballads and I noticed I felt a bit better singing with them so I continued them on my own.
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Reply #5 posted 05/02/16 12:08am

gollygirl

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I havent really been able to listen to any of his music much - and not even listened to Atlanta yet- I tried to listen to other artists but they all seem shallow now & it is like the music has gone out of my world

Thank you Prince for every note you left behind 💜
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Reply #6 posted 05/02/16 1:42am

NinaB

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I've not been able 2 watch/listen 2 P 4 more than a min or 2 at a time. Haven't really been able 2 listen 2 much music or watch tv either. I prefer silence at the mo. I have played a little Jazz & Roots Reggae tracks frm my childhood, Miles & Dennis Brown etc. Yesterday I played Billie Holiday 4 about an hour so that's an improvement I guess. I do find myself randomly singing a P line or 2 tho.
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"We just let people talk & say whatever they want 2 say. 9 times out of 10, trust me, what's out there now, I wouldn't give nary one of these folks the time of day. That's why I don't say anything back, because there's so much that's wrong" - P, Dec '15
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Reply #7 posted 05/02/16 1:35pm

wouldntulove2l
oveme

Nina Simone

Billie Holiday

If a man is considered guilty
For what goes on in his mind
Then give me the electric chair
For all my future crimes"
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Reply #8 posted 05/02/16 2:03pm

Bohemian67

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I started to really listen to music again only 3 days ago. Only Prince and no specific selection. At first there was just no feeling, as if even listening to music was material and I too just wanted silence. But somehow Prince gets into you through music and I've definitely started feeling better listening to him. But I find listening to things I don't know (versions) better than my own playlists. At the moment that is.

"Free URself, B the best that U can B, 3rd Apartment from the Sun, nothing left to fear" Prince Rogers Nelson - Forever in my Life -
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