It's been nearly 3 weeks and here I am, a grown-ass man in my mid 40s, but, at least once a day I read something, or hear something and break down in tears. I can't understand why I can't get up over this. How can I expect anyone around me to understand why it's affecting me so much if I can't understand it myself? Thank God for the org...
For us true fans, who understood what this cat was striving to do in music, and for the joy he gave us... well, no one else can do it. There isn't even ANYONE close to his caliber in the music world today. No one else can do it, and we will never see another one in our life time, chances are.
I'm right there with you. I told myself to just hang on until my son returned home for the Summer (which was last wknd) and then everything would be fine because it would be the distraction I need to get my life back in focus. Altho it helped a bit initially it still feels like being in hell on earth. Tried to listen to SOTT when I was driving this AM but I had to turn it off. Hearing his voice made my heart hurt too much 😢
It's a hurtful place, the world, in and of itself. We don't need to add to it. We all need one another. ~ PRN
i've felt saddened by the many tabloids that are spreading allegations against Prince as far as what actually caused his april 2016 passing out of our realm.
the dismay i've felt at seeing and hearing about the actions of the money & attention grabbing charlatans and vultures who are trying to leech into and onto Prince's name monetarily is totally disheartening to his memory.
so anyway here's some (past) good/positive press on Prince for the youngling fans as well as those who never got a chance to check out some Prince-tory.
“Transracial is a term that has long since been defined as the adoption of a child that is of a different race than the adoptive parents,” : https://thinkprogress.org...fb6e18544a
I can't listen to his music yet either. It is hard to explain why. I was listening to him at least 3 times a week for the last 30 yrs. I still feel out of sorts, denial maybe.
I can't listen yet because his entire career brought me nothing but JOY, & now it just brings pain. It's still too fresh, I really hope I can get back to enjoying it again someday (I might go a little nuts if I can't). I skip whenever the iPod tries to play it, I've removed him from my workout playlists b/c I can't be breaking down in the gym. I did manage to listen to 17 Days on Sunday, & I thought I was ready to hear "Way Back Home" but that tore me up. Even just singing his songs breaks me, & Nothing Compares has been in my head for days. It's just too painful right now, such a massive loss for so many, & yet it feels sooooooo personal to every one of us. He's been my soundtrack forever, I'm just trying not to think about it b/c I don't want to cry every day
I undestand this but I took another way. I just watch so many vidéos (a lot are popping up now), especially of live shows. Have you watched the video of the show when purple rain was recorded (I mean the album version, you have it ra without some edits). It's amazing !
I can't listen to his music yet either. It is hard to explain why. I was listening to him at least 3 times a week for the last 30 yrs. I still feel out of sorts, denial maybe.
I can't listen yet because his entire career brought me nothing but JOY, & now it just brings pain. It's still too fresh, I really hope I can get back to enjoying it again someday (I might go a little nuts if I can't). I skip whenever the iPod tries to play it, I've removed him from my workout playlists b/c I can't be breaking down in the gym. I did manage to listen to 17 Days on Sunday, & I thought I was ready to hear "Way Back Home" but that tore me up. Even just singing his songs breaks me, & Nothing Compares has been in my head for days. It's just too painful right now, such a massive loss for so many, & yet it feels sooooooo personal to every one of us. He's been my soundtrack forever, I'm just trying not to think about it b/c I don't want to cry every day
Hey! Long time, no see.
Eventually we will heal but right now it still hurts so much because we opened ourselves to him and he just curled himself up right inside of our hearts where his memory and gifts to us will forever be cherished.
I sometimes couldn't listen to Way Back Home without crying even before he passed.
Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise.
I can't listen yet because his entire career brought me nothing but JOY, & now it just brings pain. It's still too fresh, I really hope I can get back to enjoying it again someday (I might go a little nuts if I can't). I skip whenever the iPod tries to play it, I've removed him from my workout playlists b/c I can't be breaking down in the gym. I did manage to listen to 17 Days on Sunday, & I thought I was ready to hear "Way Back Home" but that tore me up. Even just singing his songs breaks me, & Nothing Compares has been in my head for days. It's just too painful right now, such a massive loss for so many, & yet it feels sooooooo personal to every one of us. He's been my soundtrack forever, I'm just trying not to think about it b/c I don't want to cry every day
I undestand this but I took another way. I just watch so many vidéos (a lot are popping up now), especially of live shows. Have you watched the video of the show when purple rain was recorded (I mean the album version, you have it ra without some edits). It's amazing !
Yes, I've had that video for some time now. It IS amazing, but it's also too painful a reminder of what brilliance we've lost. I'll watch it again someday
I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it
I can't listen yet because his entire career brought me nothing but JOY, & now it just brings pain. It's still too fresh, I really hope I can get back to enjoying it again someday (I might go a little nuts if I can't). I skip whenever the iPod tries to play it, I've removed him from my workout playlists b/c I can't be breaking down in the gym. I did manage to listen to 17 Days on Sunday, & I thought I was ready to hear "Way Back Home" but that tore me up. Even just singing his songs breaks me, & Nothing Compares has been in my head for days. It's just too painful right now, such a massive loss for so many, & yet it feels sooooooo personal to every one of us. He's been my soundtrack forever, I'm just trying not to think about it b/c I don't want to cry every day
Hey! Long time, no see.
Eventually we will heal but right now it still hurts so much because we opened ourselves to him and he just curled himself up right inside of our hearts where his memory and gifts to us will forever be cherished.
I sometimes couldn't listen to Way Back Home without crying even before he passed.
Hey you! I couldn't not come here - logged off 6 years ago, but I just had to come back at this time, where folks understand... That's the perfect analogy - that he curled himself up inside our hearts! Way Back Home always hit me deep, & it's the first song I thought of since all this. Way Back Home, The Ladder & Nothing Compares stay in my head... BUT last night Crucial popped into my head (like his songs ALWAYS do) & I felt joy from that Maybe the key (if there is one??) is to reintroduce the happy songs first, keep it surface. I can't go deep yet, it hurts too much.
Good to talk to you, babynoz
I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it
Eventually we will heal but right now it still hurts so much because we opened ourselves to him and he just curled himself up right inside of our hearts where his memory and gifts to us will forever be cherished.
I sometimes couldn't listen to Way Back Home without crying even before he passed.
Hey you! I couldn't not come here - logged off 6 years ago, but I just had to come back at this time, where folks understand... That's the perfect analogy - that he curled himself up inside our hearts! Way Back Home always hit me deep, & it's the first song I thought of since all this. Way Back Home, The Ladder & Nothing Compares stay in my head... BUT last night Crucial popped into my head (like his songs ALWAYS do) & I felt joy from that Maybe the key (if there is one??) is to reintroduce the happy songs first, keep it surface. I can't go deep yet, it hurts too much.
Good to talk to you, babynoz
You too....I'm glad you came to be with us right now,
Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise.
i wish 2 thank you 4 ur open honesty re ur deep inner most feelings during Prince' transition. these weeks have been most difficult for the many of us orgers. yet when i read ur post i do find strength via ur words
ur compassion towards ur prince.org brothers & sisters is very comforting (for me).
lastly for your continued positivity is so
thx
Freeda
“Transracial is a term that has long since been defined as the adoption of a child that is of a different race than the adoptive parents,” : https://thinkprogress.org...fb6e18544a
Hey you! I couldn't not come here - logged off 6 years ago, but I just had to come back at this time, where folks understand... That's the perfect analogy - that he curled himself up inside our hearts! Way Back Home always hit me deep, & it's the first song I thought of since all this. Way Back Home, The Ladder & Nothing Compares stay in my head... BUT last night Crucial popped into my head (like his songs ALWAYS do) & I felt joy from that Maybe the key (if there is one??) is to reintroduce the happy songs first, keep it surface. I can't go deep yet, it hurts too much.
Good to talk to you, babynoz
You too....I'm glad you came to be with us right now,
I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it
i wish 2 thank you 4 ur open honesty re ur deep inner most feelings during Prince' transition. these weeks have been most difficult for the many of us orgers. yet when i read ur post i do find strength via ur words
ur compassion towards ur prince.org brothers & sisters is very comforting (for me).
lastly for your continued positivity is so
thx
Freeda
Thanks freeda.....we are helping each other through this.
Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise.
Was just listening to Sweet Baby and towards the end I lost it. I miss his presence on this Earth so bad. Dear God, Prince we miss you.
This is all too much..His music used to give me such Joy now i have to see if im going to start crying when i listen to a song. Not so much the radio songs but ones the mainstream public doesnt know
Was just listening to Sweet Baby and towards the end I lost it. I miss his presence on this Earth so bad. Dear God, Prince we miss you.
This is all too much..His music used to give me such Joy now i have to see if im going to start crying when i listen to a song. Not so much the radio songs but ones the mainstream public doesnt know
Yea...Don't Talk 2 Strangers came on the other day and choked me up. I think it was the, "gotta go now," part. Damn.
"That's when stars collide. When there's space for what u want, and ur heart is open wide."
I believe I'm firmly in the "denial" stage. As I listened to Clouds the other night, the thought popped in my mind "what if he didn't die, but staged this so he could go into suspended animation for 45 years? What if he was telling us his plan a couple years ago with this track?". That was when I realized I had officially lost it! Someone measure me for a straightjacket!
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Now, you know better than that. Heartbroken MJ fans said the same thing seven years ago, and Elvis fans decades before that. Unlike MJ, Prince had no reason to stage anything.
Oh no...I know! That's how I knew I'd hit the "denial" stage, for something so ludicrous to even enter my head! I may WISH it were true, but in my heart I know he has passed on from this realm
Do not hurry yourself in your spirit to become offended, for the taking of offense is what rests in the bosom of the stupid ones. (Ecclesiastes 7:9)
EyeOfOlympus said: This is all too much..His music used to give me such Joy now i have to see if im going to start crying when i listen to a song. Not so much the radio songs but ones the mainstream public doesnt know
Yea...Don't Talk 2 Strangers came on the other day and choked me up. I think it was the, "gotta go now," part. Damn.
Jeez, THAT would tear me up I made a playlist today with strictly light & happy songs, trying to get used to listening again. Even though Crucial brought me joy when it popped in my head last night, it STILL made me cry today The guitar solo has so much joy in it, & I imagine him playing it, & I remember I'll never witness those hands I know so well at work again... THIS SHIT IS ROUGH, FOLKS (& will be for quite a while, I'm guessing)
I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it
Yea...Don't Talk 2 Strangers came on the other day and choked me up. I think it was the, "gotta go now," part. Damn.
Jeez, THAT would tear me up I made a playlist today with strictly light & happy songs, trying to get used to listening again. Even though Crucial brought me joy when it popped in my head last night, it STILL made me cry today The guitar solo has so much joy in it, & I imagine him playing it, & I remember I'll never witness those hands I know so well at work again... THIS SHIT IS ROUGH, FOLKS (& will be for quite a while, I'm guessing)
Yep. You think you're good, and then you hear a song, or see a picture or tribute, read about something touching that he did for someone, and it's like the first day all over again.
"That's when stars collide. When there's space for what u want, and ur heart is open wide."
Jeez, THAT would tear me up I made a playlist today with strictly light & happy songs, trying to get used to listening again. Even though Crucial brought me joy when it popped in my head last night, it STILL made me cry today The guitar solo has so much joy in it, & I imagine him playing it, & I remember I'll never witness those hands I know so well at work again... THIS SHIT IS ROUGH, FOLKS (& will be for quite a while, I'm guessing)
Yep. You think you're good, and then you hear a song, or see a picture or tribute, read about something touching that he did for someone, and it's like the first day all over again.
So true... although I'll say it's more like the 2nd day, I literally couldn't get out of bed the first day I guess the time between the cries is getting somewhat better
I never met you, but I LOVE you & I will forever!! Thank you for being YOU - my little Princey, the best to EVER do it
Yep. You think you're good, and then you hear a song, or see a picture or tribute, read about something touching that he did for someone, and it's like the first day all over again.
So true... although I'll say it's more like the 2nd day, I literally couldn't get out of bed the first day I guess the time between the cries is getting somewhat better
Yep. You think you're good, and then you hear a song, or see a picture or tribute, read about something touching that he did for someone, and it's like the first day all over again.
So true... although I'll say it's more like the 2nd day, I literally couldn't get out of bed the first day I guess the time between the cries is getting somewhat better
totally agree ts still seems so not real.. like everytime you see it on the tv screen or read it in print its like you always take a second to process it
Yep. You think you're good, and then you hear a song, or see a picture or tribute, read about something touching that he did for someone, and it's like the first day all over again.
So true... although I'll say it's more like the 2nd day, I literally couldn't get out of bed the first day I guess the time between the cries is getting somewhat better
The first day after I finally settled down I just kept staring at the wall all day.
Right now it's bizarre to me seeing him on TV every night. I sorely wish he'd gotten this much attention and recognition from the mainstream for his artistry and music while still alive, but execpt for awards shows he wasn't on TV that much.
Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise.
First time posting. Same age as Prince. Grew up with his music. Not much of a joiner. Have been visiting here once or twice a day since the unthinkable. Y'all are great - especially love looking at the photos.
Checked out a lot of the cavalcade of stuff on youtube that has been mentioned knowing it may not be there tomorrow. Sat through hours of inane and downright stupid questions in interviews just to see The Prince and listen to him turn a phrase. His talent and magnetism smoked everyone he was ever on a stage with in such a cool, fun and natural way. What a mind!
I live in New Orleans but am not there now so I missed the second line for Prince which is a nice way to be with people who care. Thanking everybody here for their input, love and yes, tears - still so emotional - as it should be.
Yea...Don't Talk 2 Strangers came on the other day and choked me up. I think it was the, "gotta go now," part. Damn.
Jeez, THAT would tear me up I made a playlist today with strictly light & happy songs, trying to get used to listening again
I bet you can make a great happy playlist. That'is the subject of a wonderfull thread. I had some fun thinking about the worst playlist in that circumstances. what about :
I've never not known you to be a part of my life: Your music, your movies, your aesthetic.
I'll cherish the countless memories made alongside your artistry, for the rest of my life. I could offer a thousand Thank Yous and wouldn't ever be enough...but thank you, anyway. Thank you for helping me find my voice in yours, for being the reason we fans come together here with love, and for teaching us that we can be more than we ever imagined.
Rest easy with your family. It's your turn to be free now, Prince.
In my heart, I know you're somewhere laughing in the purple rain...
Alyssa Milano talks dancing on stage at a Prince concert.
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Love your posts identity. Love all the sparkly tributes and hugs. Read every post here, some more than once. Worldwide passion, pain and love. Prince would be so proud of this.
Alyssa Milano talks dancing on stage at a Prince concert.
When I was an kid...I had the biggest crush on Aylssa Milano...I'll spare ya'll the dirty dreams...anyway, I have the same tamborine...that I play all alone, just me and I.
Love your posts Identity. Love all the sparkly tributes and hugs. Read every post here, sometimes more than once. Worldwide passion, pain and love. Prince would be so proud of all this.
I've been using videos and images as an ongoing cathartic expression of my grief. I feel that Prince's demise has brought us closer as a fan base. Thanks for the shout-out.