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Thread started 07/15/11 11:40pm

DarlingNikki10
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Does Prince like to play "Father Figure" with his proteges?

Seems like it to me! smile

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Reply #1 posted 07/15/11 11:45pm

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why not?

I guess there's 30 years between him and Andy Allo.

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Reply #2 posted 07/15/11 11:54pm

treehouse

DarlingNikki1025 said:

Seems like it to me! smile

Does now I guess. Although Prince probably doesn't know he's a middle aged man.

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Reply #3 posted 07/16/11 12:01am

Timmy84

DarlingNikki1025 said:

Seems like it to me! smile

Andy Allo's the first one to me where it seems like he's playing the "father figure".

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Reply #4 posted 07/16/11 12:38am

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i think he likes to play SIT ON DADDYS LAP nod

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Reply #5 posted 07/16/11 1:16am

DJTricky

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isn't that a george michael tracks?

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Reply #6 posted 07/16/11 2:55am

cbarnes3121

call it what u want but it seems 2 me all he is doing is promoting her introducing her 2 a larger audience the way he is doing with tamar,shelby,liv,ledisi and all the others he showcase in his band

i like what he doing for these artist

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Reply #7 posted 07/16/11 3:34am

eireboy34

cbarnes3121 said:

call it what u want but it seems 2 me all he is doing is promoting her introducing her 2 a larger audience the way he is doing with tamar,shelby,liv,ledisi and all the others he showcase in his band

i like what he doing for these artist

Why not but they rarely have any success after.

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Reply #8 posted 07/16/11 3:49am

OldFriends4Sal
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DarlingNikki1025 said:

Seems like it to me! smile

there has to be another word for the post 1980's people or especially people who are a solo act/band before him like Tamar

These people aren't really proteges, neither is Allo nor was Bria

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Reply #9 posted 07/16/11 6:05am

2elijah

cbarnes3121 said:

call it what u want but it seems 2 me all he is doing is promoting her introducing her 2 a larger audience the way he is doing with tamar,shelby,liv,ledisi and all the others he showcase in his band


i like what he doing for these artist


i have to agree with you, and many prince fans tend to let their imagination run wild, and only see what they want to see, and will draw all types of nutty conclusions without any facts, often times out of envy or some other crazed assumptions and speculations. lol
Not to mention most of the perverted comments coming from the 30 to 40 plus age group of fans.
Nothing wrong with an established artist showcasing any of these artists talents you've mentioned.
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Reply #10 posted 07/16/11 6:28am

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Prince has allowed some of the most untalented and unremarkable women obtain a lifestyle they could only achieve in the porn industry.

His ladies should be thankful.

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Reply #11 posted 07/16/11 7:11am

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imago said:

Prince has allowed some of the most untalented and unremarkable women obtain a lifestyle they could only achieve in the porn industry.

:thud:

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Reply #12 posted 07/16/11 7:43am

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They all call him Daddy put it that way!!!!!!oral

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Reply #13 posted 07/16/11 7:45am

eireboy34

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They all call him Daddy put it that way!!!!!!oral

Daddy Pop?

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Reply #14 posted 07/16/11 8:55am

thisisit

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its all about the pew lol

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Reply #15 posted 07/16/11 8:55am

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I don't know but I'll tell you this, my mp3 was full yesterday and the first thing I deleted was that piece of shit disc one from lotusflower. It can't be talent he seeks, if it is his sights are usually mediocre.

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Reply #16 posted 07/16/11 8:58am

cbarnes3121

eireboy34 said:

cbarnes3121 said:

call it what u want but it seems 2 me all he is doing is promoting her introducing her 2 a larger audience the way he is doing with tamar,shelby,liv,ledisi and all the others he showcase in his band

i like what he doing for these artist

Why not but they rarely have any success after.

well the way yall on here bitching and moaning for the family i think they should take the ride with prince the family released one prince produced cd didnt write not one song or play anything on it themselves and people giving them more credit than prince so umm maybe 30 years from now andy will be giving the same treatment u giving the family

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Reply #17 posted 07/16/11 9:10am

eireboy34

cbarnes3121 said:

eireboy34 said:

Why not but they rarely have any success after.

well the way yall on here bitching and moaning for the family i think they should take the ride with prince the family released one prince produced cd didnt write not one song or play anything on it themselves and people giving them more credit than prince so umm maybe 30 years from now andy will be giving the same treatment u giving the family

Translation please

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Reply #18 posted 07/16/11 10:30am

jpnyc

I'm pretty sure he prefers to play “Hide the Bone”.

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Reply #19 posted 07/16/11 10:59am

babyjubilation

I thought "father figure" was a Prince song lol

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Reply #20 posted 07/16/11 11:32am

EyeJester7

Hahaha...I never thought of this possibility? LOL. I am sure he does in a way. Prince does not realize he is 53 because time does not exist. Haha. Which explains why he still looks the same over the years..Haha. But he might like that image? LOL. He seems to "COOl" for that though..lol

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Reply #21 posted 07/16/11 11:37am

Timmy84

babyjubilation said:

I thought "father figure" was a Prince song lol

You can't be serious. lol

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Reply #22 posted 07/16/11 11:38am

Timmy84

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Hahaha...I never thought of this possibility? LOL. I am sure he does in a way. Prince does not realize he is 53 because time does not exist. Haha. Which explains why he still looks the same over the years..Haha. But he might like that image? LOL. He seems to "COOl" for that though..lol

Who knows? But it looks odd. Even that photo of them with Prince hugging her from the back and she has this nervous look on her face, it doesn't look so romantic... idk lol

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Reply #23 posted 07/16/11 9:00pm

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That's why they cal him "Pop Daddy

Prince's Sarah
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Reply #24 posted 07/16/11 9:10pm

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Prince has allowed some of the most untalented and unremarkable women obtain a lifestyle they could only achieve in the porn industry.

His ladies should be thankful.

lol

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Reply #25 posted 07/16/11 9:34pm

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yeah, when you consider all the raw talent out here which will never be heard, people who can pull those things off are a travesty..It's the nature of the business and the nature of men who'll go for style over substance anyday. Out of all the women he's worked with, most of them remind of the kind of women who sing at home, or in the car and think they have lots of talent. Vanity, Appolonia, Carmen Electra, hell I can't even recite all their names but you know who they are. He's also worked with real talent but most times hasn't had romantic interest with a Rosie Gaines, a Boni Boyer, etc.., etc.., I've heard ingrid Chavez had a real strong album and Prince was quoted as saying he wouldn't release it because he was afraid it woud change the course of music and thus upstage him. Don't know how true that is, I listened to a few of Ingrids songs, they don't do much for me, but then I haven't really listened. It's sad that he never supported Rosie Gaines in her solo efforts, I've always loved her style. W&L were ok as creative partners (if all the stories are true) but even they weren't anything to write home about as far as musicianship. Sheila of course stands on her own with or without Prince and so does Rhonda. I am of the belief that people don't change and Prince has been using the "I can make you a star" line since Vanity and I'm sure that's what he's still doing. I didn't think the Valente cd was terrible but it was terribly unremarkable for Prince to be producing. Hell, as bad as Vanity was, those songs were fucking great.

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Reply #26 posted 07/16/11 9:39pm

EyeJester7

Timmy84 said:

EyeJester7 said:

Hahaha...I never thought of this possibility? LOL. I am sure he does in a way. Prince does not realize he is 53 because time does not exist. Haha. Which explains why he still looks the same over the years..Haha. But he might like that image? LOL. He seems to "COOl" for that though..lol

Who knows? But it looks odd. Even that photo of them with Prince hugging her from the back and she has this nervous look on her face, it doesn't look so romantic... idk lol

Hahaha..Yeah it does look odd. It is not romantic, it's just a weird situation.

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Reply #27 posted 07/16/11 10:25pm

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jokes aside, he reminds me of my father.

he spent the last 40 years trying to hijack my life with all his 'advice'. i put a stop to it when i woke up and realised his motivations for doing so weren't as genuine as they seemed.

he was using me to make himself feel important. it's a very oppressive thing when someone does that. i live my life the way i want to. adults shouldnt need a father figure.

its not fair to cripple someone's ability to make their own decisions and learn for themselves by hijacking their 'career' purely for your own benefit.

all the promises of 'making someone a star' are not about doing someone a favor, they're about how big the father will feel if it works, whether its the right thing for you or not.

i dont speak to my father anymore. i wasnt born to accomodate his ego.

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Reply #28 posted 07/16/11 10:50pm

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thisisit said:

jokes aside, he reminds me of my father.

he spent the last 40 years trying to hijack my life with all his 'advice'. i put a stop to it when i woke up and realised his motivations for doing so weren't as genuine as they seemed.

he was using me to make himself feel important. it's a very oppressive thing when someone does that. i live my life the way i want to. adults shouldnt need a father figure.

its not fair to cripple someone's ability to make their own decisions and learn for themselves by hijacking their 'career' purely for your own benefit.

all the promises of 'making someone a star' are not about doing someone a favor, they're about how big the father will feel if it works, whether its the right thing for you or not.

i dont speak to my father anymore. i wasnt born to accomodate his ego.

I relate, I was close to my real father, he died when I was 9, left me open to looking for father figures. I used to really believe my mentor was selfless, when I learned that my own father figure/guru/martial arts teacher/employer only really cared about money and power, I'm ashamed to say it almost drove me crazy. I was so enmeshed with him and did so much work and got too involved with his family and when I tired of being a perfect employee/son/etc.., it made them hate me. I'm still not the same 10 years later but I'm glad not to be involved with the whole situation anymore. At least you caught on and I believe you are right, just as most mentors are there for those reasons and most students are better off fending for themselves. It's sad as hell that you don't talk to him, I can't judge any of that, my teacher could have at least maintained a friendly relationship but the ego doesn't allow that, things got bad. In many ways, I think it ruined me. But we have to carry on the best we can.

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Reply #29 posted 07/16/11 11:59pm

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mozfonky said:

thisisit said:

jokes aside, he reminds me of my father.

he spent the last 40 years trying to hijack my life with all his 'advice'. i put a stop to it when i woke up and realised his motivations for doing so weren't as genuine as they seemed.

he was using me to make himself feel important. it's a very oppressive thing when someone does that. i live my life the way i want to. adults shouldnt need a father figure.

its not fair to cripple someone's ability to make their own decisions and learn for themselves by hijacking their 'career' purely for your own benefit.

all the promises of 'making someone a star' are not about doing someone a favor, they're about how big the father will feel if it works, whether its the right thing for you or not.

i dont speak to my father anymore. i wasnt born to accomodate his ego.

I relate, I was close to my real father, he died when I was 9, left me open to looking for father figures. I used to really believe my mentor was selfless, when I learned that my own father figure/guru/martial arts teacher/employer only really cared about money and power, I'm ashamed to say it almost drove me crazy. I was so enmeshed with him and did so much work and got too involved with his family and when I tired of being a perfect employee/son/etc.., it made them hate me. I'm still not the same 10 years later but I'm glad not to be involved with the whole situation anymore. At least you caught on and I believe you are right, just as most mentors are there for those reasons and most students are better off fending for themselves. It's sad as hell that you don't talk to him, I can't judge any of that, my teacher could have at least maintained a friendly relationship but the ego doesn't allow that, things got bad. In many ways, I think it ruined me. But we have to carry on the best we can.

thank you for sharing that. i can relate to your story too.

whenever i questioned my father, or suggested something different, or said no, his 'genuine help' would turn into 'bitter condemnation'. he'd completely turn on me and tell me i was an idiot.

when i got older and learned a bit more about the way some people work, and he kept treating me that way, thats when i saw through it.

he just wanted me to accept his ideas, but he didnt realise that by continually telling me i should do this or i should do that, he was inadvertently showing disapproval of where i was at.

its all folly. "you will be 'better' when you listen to ME and do as i say". hmm. nope. i dont buy it anymore.

i love him but i cant carry him the way he needs me to and i wont allow anyone to belittle me anymore, just because i have my own mind. thats not a good enough reason to belittle anyone.

i'm sorry you've had a similar experience, you say it may have ruined you, i'm sorry to hear that. its hard sometimes i know but ur right to say we have to carry on best we can.

i felt really liberated when i finally stood up to my father. i became free that day, and its a good feeling to know i'll never let anyone do that to me ever again.

i hope you feel good too. heart

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