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Thread started 03/11/11 9:31am

funkyhead

RE: Recent rumours - Are you still bothered about P's 'Private' life or...

.. are you more than happy with just a musical relationship with him. Here's my gripe , the rumour mill in here really does seem to have gone into overdrive recently where apparently a certain few are very confident in their knowledge that Prince is bi-sexual and a drug user. Without wanting to be a total hypocrite [yes i hoover up the rumours with these eyes as well!] I just wonder how bothered anyone really is about what he gets up to in private.

In my eyes he looks more fit, happy and healthy than he has done in ages so that's good enough for me. If he's gay / BI then so what - who really cares in this day and age?, if he's a drug user then I just pray he gets help and everything else just doesn't bother me anymore.

Take 1 look at the news in Japan today - kind of puts what we debate into perspective doesn't it?.sad

Right now all I care about is his music, how 'bout you?.

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Reply #1 posted 03/11/11 9:38am

xlr8r

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I wish there was some sort of reverse purple rapture where all those who focused on gossip mongering, his bills, his recent girlfriends or wife, and just basically about the nonsense that has nothing to do with the music would go to internet hell and be off the purple internet.

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Reply #2 posted 03/11/11 9:40am

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Bored fans. I have yet to see ANY evidence of him being interested in guys. And even if there was, I wouldn't care. It's irrelevant to my enjoyment of him as an artist.

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Reply #3 posted 03/11/11 9:45am

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funkyhead said:

If he's gay / BI then so what - who really cares in this day and age?

Well if he was, it would mean Prince cared a great deal since he would've been keeping it hidden all this time - self-hating closet case.

BTW, this whole thing is done very tongue in ass cheek you know wink

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Reply #4 posted 03/11/11 9:53am

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funkyhead said:

.. are you more than happy with just a musical relationship with him. Here's my gripe , the rumour mill in here really does seem to have gone into overdrive recently where apparently a certain few are very confident in their knowledge that Prince is bi-sexual and a drug user. Without wanting to be a total hypocrite [yes i hoover up the rumours with these eyes as well!] I just wonder how bothered anyone really is about what he gets up to in private.

In my eyes he looks more fit, happy and healthy than he has done in ages so that's good enough for me. If he's gay / BI then so what - who really cares in this day and age?, if he's a drug user then I just pray he gets help and everything else just doesn't bother me anymore.

Take 1 look at the news in Japan today - kind of puts what we debate into perspective doesn't it?.sad

Right now all I care about is his music, how 'bout you?.

I will never for one second believe that Prince does drugs. If I found out that he did, I would be BLOWN AWAY. It just doesn't fit; like you said, he looks happy and healthy and always has (except for a brief period in the 90's and I just think he wasn't eating well then) as for being bi, no on that too.

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Reply #5 posted 03/11/11 9:57am

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Yeah okay i do admit i would want to know more about his private life and i mean alot like knowing what his house looks like and just more stuff and the stuff about him being a drug user is just pathetic to be honest in my opinion and if he is bi-sexual then for me i must say it (even tho that rumour is bullcrap to) but if he ever was then thats a turn on in a way !! i know i sound like a freak but hey thats the way god made me i was born this way *lady gaga* But heyho thats my point smile love you forever prince!!! *may you live to see the dawn* <3 xxx

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Reply #6 posted 03/11/11 10:00am

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Btw @NouveauDance where did you get that !! hmm i wouldnt mind a gange hehe !! it lookss..... interesting !! is it from the sacrific of victor or the under taker or in concert !! i would love to know xxxx

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Reply #7 posted 03/11/11 10:00am

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Prince's beauty and his music is all that matters to me. I am not angered by what some people's opinions..they are just being themselves, and that's ok with me.

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Reply #8 posted 03/11/11 10:02am

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NouveauDance said:

funkyhead said:

If he's gay / BI then so what - who really cares in this day and age?

Well if he was, it would mean Prince cared a great deal since he would've been keeping it hidden all this time - self-hating closet case.

BTW, this whole thing is done very tongue in ass cheek you know wink

By the way where did you get that !! looks.... interessting !! is it from the sacrific of victor or the undertaker !! i would love to hae a gange xxx thnks x

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Reply #9 posted 03/11/11 10:06am

vainandy

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What trips me out is how people worry that other people may think Prince is gay. I mean hell, you can't even compliment the man these days without people getting pissed. lol

Andy is a four letter word.
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Reply #10 posted 03/11/11 10:08am

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I dont't care much for the gay rumor crap, which is not even true.

But anyway, concerning anything else, I have more fun guessing what happened or happens from listening to his music and reading quotes from his associates biggrin

Yes, at 19, I finally saw the Revolution, a legendary band. And I talked to Wendy!!! biggrin In addition to seeing Prince, I have now lived life. Thank you Purple People!!
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Reply #11 posted 03/11/11 10:09am

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funkyhead said:

.. are you more than happy with just a musical relationship with him. Here's my gripe , the rumour mill in here really does seem to have gone into overdrive recently where apparently a certain few are very confident in their knowledge that Prince is bi-sexual and a drug user. Without wanting to be a total hypocrite [yes i hoover up the rumours with these eyes as well!] I just wonder how bothered anyone really is about what he gets up to in private.

In my eyes he looks more fit, happy and healthy than he has done in ages so that's good enough for me. If he's gay / BI then so what - who really cares in this day and age?, if he's a drug user then I just pray he gets help and everything else just doesn't bother me anymore.

Take 1 look at the news in Japan today - kind of puts what we debate into perspective doesn't it?.sad

Right now all I care about is his music, how 'bout you?.

That last part is what rings true to me, with that said, it has me remember that the world doesn't revolve around me or Prince for that matter, it never did. I've always wanted my man P to be happy along with Wendy, Lisa, Dez, Andre, Mark and all the rest of the Purple Funk Family, I like to call em. I wouldn't wish anything bad on anyone, for that matter but, you want the best and you want people to thrive and be happy. P's private life, I do not care so much about, I just want my man to be happy, ya know.

If he's with Misty, cool ... If he's with Bria, cool ... If he's alone, cool ... It's all about the music and the message (the lyrics).

Peace ... & Stay Funky ...

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Reply #12 posted 03/11/11 10:13am

Graycap23

It is and should be about the "art" of his music.

The rest is nonsense.

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Reply #13 posted 03/11/11 10:56am

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NouveauDance said:

funkyhead said:

If he's gay / BI then so what - who really cares in this day and age?

Well if he was, it would mean Prince cared a great deal since he would've been keeping it hidden all this time - self-hating closet case.

BTW, this whole thing is done very tongue in ass cheek you know wink

timeout I see this little clip being passed around on the forum like a blunt and I am compelled to comment on it... WTF was he thinkin' ?! no no no!

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Do not walk ahead of me, for I may not follow.
Do not walk beside me, either. Just leave me the hell alone rolleyes
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Reply #14 posted 03/11/11 10:58am

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All we should really care about is his music but here's the problem with that, as I see it around here.

Prince's really good music is his music that's at the least 15 years old. His great music is over 20. When that music is discussed around here, it's often met with gripes by the new era of Prince fans that those who enjoy discussing that music are "people living and stuck in the past". Because all we can do around here is discuss and reminisce on our memories. We can't let the music speak for itself because we are prohibited from posting it in...any kind of way.

Then there's his newer music. While there have been some gems in the bunch, they are too few and far between. The majority of it has been mediocre by Prince standards, at best. When that is discussed around here, it's often met with gripes by the new era of Prince fans that those who do not particularly enjoy every single note of that music are "people living and stuck in the past". Because all they (the new era of Prince fans) can do around here is exclaim and chant about how "Prince and his music has grown, matured and changed." They can't let the music speak for itself because they are prohibited from posting it in...any kind of way.

So we have different people with different ideas of Prince's music, going 'round and 'round in discussions that gets them nowhere and the conversations on the art of his music has declined, significantly. What's left is Prince as a person and his private life and that's become a free for all because it is what it is and apparently, that's the way HE wants it!

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Reply #15 posted 03/11/11 11:09am

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I'm more about the music and the history. His private life (girlfriends, finances, religion) doesn't really factor in for me (unless the girlfriend has a CD as well). The rumor mill on here is amusing at times but 8 times out of 10 it's just negativity. I'd rather kick it on topics that teach me something I didn't know before or help others with information.

When eye go 2 a Prince concert or related event it's all heart up in the house but when eye log onto this site and the miasma of bitchiness is completely overwhelming!
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Reply #16 posted 03/11/11 11:19am

xlr8r

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HatrinaHaterwitz said:

(shit I didnt bother to read)

I know you mad ever since a house fell on your sister but goddamn can you please take a break?

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Reply #17 posted 03/11/11 11:29am

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NouveauDance said:

funkyhead said:

If he's gay / BI then so what - who really cares in this day and age?

Well if he was, it would mean Prince cared a great deal since he would've been keeping it hidden all this time - self-hating closet case.

BTW, this whole thing is done very tongue in ass cheek you know wink

Daddy was indeed 'ehem' poppin that lol

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Reply #18 posted 03/11/11 11:49am

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NouveauDance said:

funkyhead said:

If he's gay / BI then so what - who really cares in this day and age?

Well if he was, it would mean Prince cared a great deal since he would've been keeping it hidden all this time - self-hating closet case.

BTW, this whole thing is done very tongue in ass cheek you know wink

Oh! He too freaky for me chile! cool

But THIS kinda thing is what he was all about at that time, giving folks shit to talk about. Doesn't mean he's gay, just means he was an attention whore.

I personally don't think he's gay. I could care less what other people on the org think about it. Since I've already made up my own mind, everybody else on here and go back and forth on it until their fingers fall off. Same with the drug stuff. Womp womp.

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Reply #19 posted 03/11/11 11:57am

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jaybendy said:

NouveauDance said:

Well if he was, it would mean Prince cared a great deal since he would've been keeping it hidden all this time - self-hating closet case.

BTW, this whole thing is done very tongue in ass cheek you know wink

Oh! He too freaky for me chile! cool

But THIS kinda thing is what he was all about at that time, giving folks shit to talk about. Doesn't mean he's gay, just means he was an attention whore.

I personally don't think he's gay. I could care less what other people on the org think about it. Since I've already made up my own mind, everybody else on here and go back and forth on it until their fingers fall off. Same with the drug stuff. Womp womp.

It doesn't mean he's straight either. I agree it's done to give people something to talk about but since he purposely put it out there for them to talk about, then people shouldn't get pissed when people do talk about it.

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Reply #20 posted 03/11/11 12:13pm

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xlr8r said:

HatrinaHaterwitz said:

(shit I didnt bother to read)

I know you mad ever since a house fell on your sister but goddamn can you please take a break?

Oh you read it! wink kiss2

Apparently...it just hit a little too close to the truth for your liking shrug

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Reply #21 posted 03/11/11 12:30pm

xlr8r

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HatrinaHaterwitz said:

xlr8r said:

I know you mad ever since a house fell on your sister but goddamn can you please take a break?

Oh you read it! wink kiss2

Apparently...it just hit a little too close to the truth for your liking shrug

On my parents, my better half, my own being, may god or whomever is our maker strike me down or penance me with ill health or bad luck if I am lying that I did not not bother to read your probably predicatbale talkin out the side of your neck routine rant that is the same as you been doing here for years. Even though its just the net, I never lie on it.

Now about taking that break you need..I mean you're going to need it if you plan on getting them ruby slippers your after...

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Reply #22 posted 03/11/11 12:33pm

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xlr8r said:

HatrinaHaterwitz said:

Oh you read it! wink kiss2

Apparently...it just hit a little too close to the truth for your liking shrug

On my parents, my better half, my own being, may god or whomever is our maker strike me down or penance me with ill health or bad luck if I am lying that I did not not bother to read your probably predicatbale talkin out the side of your neck routine rant that is the same as you been doing here for years. Even though its just the net, I never lie on it.

Now about taking that break you need..I mean you're going to need it if you plan on getting them ruby slippers your after...

you're, not your

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Reply #23 posted 03/11/11 1:41pm

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xlr8r said:

HatrinaHaterwitz said:

Oh you read it! wink kiss2

Apparently...it just hit a little too close to the truth for your liking shrug

On my parents, my better half, my own being, may god or whomever is our maker strike me down or penance me with ill health or bad luck if I am lying that I did not not bother to read your probably predicatbale talkin out the side of your neck routine rant that is the same as you been doing here for years. Even though its just the net, I never lie on it.

Now about taking that break you need..I mean you're going to need it if you plan on getting them ruby slippers your after...

Dearheart, all I did was speak the truth, as I see it! Nothing more, nothing less. shrug

If...as you so adamently seem to need to insist...didn't read what I said. Then why are you so bothered by what you supposedly...don't even know...that I said? confuse

For all you couldn't possibly know...because you supposedly couldn't even be bothered to read what I said. I just might have seen the purple light and repented of all my mean ol' Wicked Witch ways wink and praised Prince in all his glory...to high heaven.

So what exactly is your problem...with what you supposedly don't even know...that I said? hmmm

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[Edited 3/11/11 14:05pm]

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Reply #24 posted 03/11/11 2:08pm

lavender1983

I am indeed fascinated by everything about the man, his music, his life, his associates, almost everything. ..He is literally the only artist that I have bothered to join a public forum to learn more about. I don't have that kind of time to belong to a series of forums interacting with some absolute nutcases like I've witnessed here.....that I would never have the displeasure of interacting with in real life. This place can be downright scary. But I remain because it's not all bad.

With that said.. yes.. the recent rumours and speculations about him have been really intense. Some folks really need some fresh air and to just step away from the computer for a while. It might do wonders.

I for one wish Prince what I wish for myself..nothing but the best.

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Reply #25 posted 03/11/11 2:12pm

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NouveauDance said:

funkyhead said:

If he's gay / BI then so what - who really cares in this day and age?

Well if he was, it would mean Prince cared a great deal since he would've been keeping it hidden all this time - self-hating closet case.

BTW, this whole thing is done very tongue in ass cheek you know wink

The only problem with this is this is act as in not real. When some dude is on t.v going on about being P's boyfriend then you crazy ass post will actually mean something.

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Reply #26 posted 03/11/11 2:53pm

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PurpleLove7 said:

That last part is what rings true to me, with that said, it has me remember that the world doesn't revolve around me or Prince for that matter, it never did. I've always wanted my man P to be happy along with Wendy, Lisa, Dez, Andre, Mark and all the rest of the Purple Funk Family, I like to call em. I wouldn't wish anything bad on anyone, for that matter but, you want the best and you want people to thrive and be happy. P's private life, I do not care so much about, I just want my man to be happy, ya know.

If he's with Misty, cool ... If he's with Bria, cool ... If he's alone, cool ... It's all about the music and the message (the lyrics).

Post of the day, right there. nod

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Reply #27 posted 03/11/11 3:03pm

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funkyhead said:

I just wonder how bothered anyone really is about what he gets up to in private.

Sadly I think the replies in this thread answer your question.

I admit I'm interested to an extent in his private life, but I'm much more interested in his music.

I know I should just avoid a lot of threads here and I do think people tend to discuss them ad nauseum more out of boredom and/or procrastination (ie. "something to do") rather than being sooo interested in whether or not he pays his bills, etc... So I guess in every case it just takes someone to start a thread and many will play along (unfortunately, whether you intended it to or not, this one demonstrates that perfectly).

I found it so refreshing today to read the thread about the new concert dates, as there was just joy and excitement as people woke up and saw that he was about to play near them.

Now, even that thread has started to deteriorate sad

I've heard it said before and I agree absolutely - anyone who studies human behaviour and psychology would have a field day with this site!

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Reply #28 posted 03/11/11 3:47pm

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laurarichardson said:

The only problem with this is this is act as in not real. When some dude is on t.v going on about being P's boyfriend then you crazy ass post will actually mean something.

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Reply #29 posted 03/11/11 4:00pm

funkyhead

i guess to an extent P loves to cause controversy, he always has since 'Dirty Mind'. So you could argue that he helps to fuel the rumours through his art. If his ethos is that everything you need to know about him is in the lyrics then you'd say he was 100% bi-sexual i.e. his style of dress in dirty mind, the man/woman symbol first used in Purple Rain, I would die 4 u [i'm not too woman, i'm not too man..], Camille, the lyric to Anna Stesia etc.

Likewise he fuels the debate/rumours about his love life by being high profile with his latest girl i.e. Bria, Misty etc.

Following that arguement should P have any right to complain about fans speculating / spreading rumours? I guess it's a dilemma faced by many other high profile people out there. Personally It still is about the music and I'd rather speculate as to whether he's still 'got it' or not.

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