no woman can compete with Prince. he will always love himself more. nothing wrong with that as long as the chick knows this from the very beginning.

Gigi 319 Said... "Most guys know that once she breaks out the long flannels and bandana she's really into you lol, if she's still wearing fuck me nighties she may not see you as a long term candidate."

No. Once she breaks out long flannels and a bandana, that means she has stop trying because she believes that she has you sewn up like a shirt and your ass aint going nowhere.

In truth, its the beginning of the end because if she set 'fuck me nighties' as the standard when you first met, then you really didnt get to know her sexually, you got to know her representative\sales person.

In alot of relationships, I think women underestimate the power of sex and sexual fantasy. And that means that in order to be in those relationships, men must compromise.

Compromise is the beginning of the end.

If it aint Win\Win - its doomed.

Powerful men are constantly bombarded with women who make themselves available. The only thing that keeps a man in line (No, its not integrety) is the thought of losing that special someone over something silly like infidelity.

When a man sees a hot woman who is making herself available, he has to be able to say - No thanks.. I got something better at home.

no woman can compete with Prince. he will always love himself more. nothing wrong with that as long as the chick knows this from the very beginning.

DesireeNevermind said:

If thats true than he missed the essence of what Love is.

futurebaybeemama said:

This is I think the big problem. Do to his money, fame, genius, and undeniable sexual energy, love and it's deffinition have become turned inside out in purpledom.
How is he to ever know if they REALLY love him? OR IS IT;

The money?
The fame?
The fancy assless pants?
The endless flow of luxery goods?
The fact that he is a musical legend?


To me, and I think Prince knows this down deep in his heart, if someone is afraid to contradict you because of your response and therefor always says yes, they don't really love you.
Prince doesn't like it when people have their own mind and opinion and it differs from theirs. I hear that this is when he gives them the ax.
At the same time Prince is bright and like all human beings, in need of true love and true acceptance. Given this, I think he gets bored with "YES" women who never stop with the until they can't take it anymore . Then Cinderella calls her lawyer and oops she's out the door. (she also needs to call that chiropracter too from all of that bending in the wind she has been doing).

Dating and sex are the easy parts of a relationship. All that stuff happens in the moment. Thats the part that Prince is likely good at because he is a romantic.

But the longer two people hang, the more they have the potential to grow in different directions and want different things out of their lives.

Add to that life with Prince cant be anywhere near normal - and imagine the stress of the odd friends, off hours, women in the periphery that want to f*ck your man, etc.

And money has also got to be a stressor. Economically, Prince can have whatever he wants. That has got to make alot of women who are in relationships with him feel like they cant contribute on the same level.

When you tell a woman, "Yo... just look cute. I got the rest.", alot of women cant handle that. They want to be part of the struggle.

YALL im ganna serious but here goes
don't make the same mistake like me

I met a guy a few nights ago we get to know eachother he takes me his place then he's already getting serious he wants to put you on lockdown, make you stay in the house while goes and works and fucks off. he's not comming home like he says he would. he's telling you things that are not true. he's telling you what you should do.

Rule #1: ladies he's telling you that he already loves you, but not true. wait to see how he acts during the relationship. Then be the judge. He's telling you what to do already in the relationship like how he wants your hair to be. and where to be. and you end up getting played.

Rule #2 ladies make sure he gives you a key to his appartment

Rule #3 laides don't bring your stuff over to the place where he stays.
you might break up then you can't get your stuff back.

Thats one thing i can say i left my big ticket items like my computer at my place. I wasn't falling for it. im glad i got my stuff out the laundry matt at least to get out there


Rule #4: your man is asking you questions such as faithfulness if yall know your not. then you don't have to answer those questions.

Rule #5: I don't give anyone my address. i'd have to think about that one before i did.

Rule #6: if your not happy then leave. it's best to leave live with a buntch of heartach and regret all your life. Right?


rule # whatever: don't call him back, your over this kinda play.


LADIES I KNOW IT'S TUFF CUZ YOU JUST MET. IT SEEMS COOL, BUT YOUR INTUITION IS TELLING YOU NO SOMETHING THAT THIS MAN IS TELLING ME IS NOT WHAT IT'S SEEMS TO BE. HE STARTS TO NOT TELL YOU THINGS AND THOSE LITTLE THINGS ARE GOING TO AMOUNT TO A BIGGER PROBLEM THEN IT IS.

HE DOESN'T WANT TO TELL YOU THAT NIGHT HE HUNG OUT WITH FRIEND'S AND LEFT YOU AT HIS DOOR STEP HANGING. DOESN'T WANT YOU TO SEE HIS PHONE. OKAY WE KNOW THAT MUCH. BUT HE DOESN'T WANT YOU TO KNOW THE ILL MATTERS HE'S DOING SUCH AS STEALING FOOD SHOPPING STORES (WITH HIS FRIENDS). THEN HE FINALLY BREAKS DOWN AND TELLS YOU HE DIDN'T THINK YOU WOULD BE THERE CUZ HE WAS ABOUT TO DO SOMETHING ILLEGAL. HE DIDN'T WANT TO TELL YOU CUZ OF WHAT YOU MIGHT THINK.

I got on the bus went home cuz i thought i should bring some stuff back to his place that he needed cuz he just moved in and stuff. then he never came back home after work. i put it in the laundry matt around the way and i got locked out cuz they close after hours. so i went back home got some rest, went back and got my stuff. i knocked on the door, no one was there, so i thought he was with his friend's on that business thing. He's been talking alot with friends about his jobs. which i think his friends are bad hanging around him anyway. i thought he didn't care what i was doing/ or how i felt about it.

It's easy for a man to say "oh, let me handle my business"
He's talking on the phone to his friend's and you don't know what they are saying about you lol. i was going to go to a party with this man and it was canceled cuz his friends.

i felt left out.


[Edited 12/24/09 19:04pm]

i just found out prince fucked around with that girl from the pussy cat dolls from my guy friend.
[Edited 12/24/09 21:50pm]

Tame said:

You should move that one to the "Pro" column. Prince has got a thing for the dark-haired, off-key gals.

But more important, seek some professional fucking help...

BTW, the twofold universal law of relationships applies to Prince as much as everybody else. It goes like this:

1. women are crazy
2. men are assholes

Every single relationship problem, since way back in the day when humans first started to grunt at each other, can be boiled down to 1 and/or 2. Usually "and" more than "or".

Expertise don't mean shit in the face of crazy bitches. Just sayin'.

Efan said:

This thread is delightful.

tackam said:

Wow, that may be the first wisdom I have ever read on the org.

tackam said:

Wow, that may be the first wisdom I have ever read on the org.

I just think that a lasting relationship can be hard to find. A lot of couples find it easy to love eachother for a little while.

I believe that two people have to find enduring comfort with eachother. There has to be a compassion for the other that can survive the deeper connection.

Appreciation and Sacrifice for the other person need to be genuine, if it isn't, than selfishness is going to seperate the togetherness.

Little words, like faith, trust, and respect mean so much. God Bless those couples that have made it. They are the fortunate lovers. If I married today, I wouldn't even see a 50th wedding anniversary. I personally believe that couples that are married 50 years deserve financial admiration from the government. I really do.

Tame said:

Umm People are living to 101 and up.