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Reply #30 posted 03/03/08 3:37pm

Riverpoet31

Recently i listened to the Dirty Mind album again, and when listening to "Sister" again, it occured to me the lyrics to that song are quite smart in dealing with the subject. More deep when i made them out to be in the past.

The first verses seem to deal with the subject in a quite 'positive' way: A horny 16 yo Prince letting himself carry away by the lust, and at the same time using it as an 'excuse' for his often explicit lyrics (in those days). The way he uses that experience to 'shock' too benefit from it careerwise.

I was only 16 but I guess that's no excuse
My sister was 32, lovely and loose
She don't wear no underwear
She said it only gets in her hair
And it's got a funny way of stoppin' the juice

My sister never made love 2 anyone else but me
She's the reason 4 my, uh, sexuality
She showed me where it's supposed 2 go
A blowjob doesn't mean blow
Incest is everything it's said 2 be


The chorus after that is more ambivalent, it speaks of images of lonelieness.

Oh sister - don't put me on the street again
Oh sister - I just wanna be your friend


In the next part of the songs it seems like Prince is trying to focus on the 'negative' aspects of their relationship. Hey, he could use this experience to shock the audience, and put emphasis on his sexual image, but is a (sexual) relationship between a 16 yo adolescent and his twice as old half-sister really that healthy?

I was only 16 and only half a man
My sister didn't give a goddamn
She only wanted 2 turn me out
She'd take a whip 2 me until I shout
Oh motherfucker, she's a motherfucker, can't U understand?

Oh sister - don't put me on the street again
Oh sister - I just wanna be your friend

I know what U want me 2 do
Put me on the street and make me blue

Oh sister!
Oh sister!


These lyrics show a lot of pain and confusion. A sense of feeling 'used' by someone who is more mature then him and should have known better. It almost 'sounds' as this is something Prince began to realise when he wrote this song.

To conclude: IMO 'Sister' is definately not a song gloryfing incest. It shows how a young, immature adolescent on a pure sexual level can be overwhelmed and impressed by such an experience, but at the same time can feel confused and betrayed by it on a more intimate level.
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Reply #31 posted 03/03/08 6:13pm

khoskhal

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Eve is Adam's sister.


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Reply #32 posted 03/03/08 6:54pm

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OnlyNDaUsa said:

I think it is a great song. I fund it odd that people do not get that "prince" is a victim in the song. He wants OUT of the sexual aspect. It is NOT pro-incest. Turn it around, have a woman singing it about her older brother. Would anyone not call that rape?

the best line " she showed me where it's supposed to go
a blowjob doesn't mean blow"

and the following line shows the conflict that if all to often in sexual abuse... they LIKE it, it feels good, yet they KNOW it is wrong and they want it to stop.

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That this song is often referred to as an "ode to incest" is disturbing to me. I guess it's just another symptom of our cultural notion that men are sexually dominant and incapable of being victims. But like you said, reverse the genders in this scenario and there'd be no arguing the fact that the song is detailing abuse of the younger sibling by the older.
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Reply #33 posted 03/03/08 7:01pm

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Riverpoet31 said:

Recently i listened to the Dirty Mind album again, and when listening to "Sister" again, it occured to me the lyrics to that song are quite smart in dealing with the subject. More deep when i made them out to be in the past.

The first verses seem to deal with the subject in a quite 'positive' way: A horny 16 yo Prince letting himself carry away by the lust, and at the same time using it as an 'excuse' for his often explicit lyrics (in those days). The way he uses that experience to 'shock' too benefit from it careerwise.

I was only 16 but I guess that's no excuse
My sister was 32, lovely and loose
She don't wear no underwear
She said it only gets in her hair
And it's got a funny way of stoppin' the juice

My sister never made love 2 anyone else but me
She's the reason 4 my, uh, sexuality
She showed me where it's supposed 2 go
A blowjob doesn't mean blow
Incest is everything it's said 2 be


The chorus after that is more ambivalent, it speaks of images of lonelieness.

Oh sister - don't put me on the street again
Oh sister - I just wanna be your friend


In the next part of the songs it seems like Prince is trying to focus on the 'negative' aspects of their relationship. Hey, he could use this experience to shock the audience, and put emphasis on his sexual image, but is a (sexual) relationship between a 16 yo adolescent and his twice as old half-sister really that healthy?

I was only 16 and only half a man
My sister didn't give a goddamn
She only wanted 2 turn me out
She'd take a whip 2 me until I shout
Oh motherfucker, she's a motherfucker, can't U understand?

Oh sister - don't put me on the street again
Oh sister - I just wanna be your friend

I know what U want me 2 do
Put me on the street and make me blue

Oh sister!
Oh sister!


These lyrics show a lot of pain and confusion. A sense of feeling 'used' by someone who is more mature then him and should have known better. It almost 'sounds' as this is something Prince began to realise when he wrote this song.

To conclude: IMO 'Sister' is definately not a song gloryfing incest. It shows how a young, immature adolescent on a pure sexual level can be overwhelmed and impressed by such an experience, but at the same time can feel confused and betrayed by it on a more intimate level.


brilliant post, sums up a song that many try to twist
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Reply #34 posted 03/03/08 7:42pm

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like duh, thats what the song is about. wink lol cool razz
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Reply #35 posted 03/04/08 4:51am

SoulAlive

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I always thought it was....."A blowjob is a mean blow".


Nope,it's "a blowjob doesn't mean blow" lol
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Reply #36 posted 03/04/08 5:53am

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Dirty Mind

Let me tell you a story….One you never heard before….It was a letter….A Sister,
wrote to her brother in her diary. The opening line read… Dear Dirty mind, the whole letter was written in rushed pen…to start again…
Dear Dirty Mind…I’ve gotta broken heart again. Last night while you were out playing Party-up games, I lost my head. I know it sounds like I was right when I agreed to do it all night, but that isn’t the whole truth. I said, yes because I remembered when you were mine…I’ve gone uptown. See you when I get home…P.S….When you see Billy Joe …tell him to go south and throw my diary off the Tallahatchie-bridge. Love Sis.

I was just havin' fun when I wrote this one day.
[Edited 3/4/08 6:25am]
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Reply #37 posted 03/04/08 6:13am

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Tame said:

Dirty Mind

Let me tell you a story….One you never heard before….It was a letter….A Sister,
wrote to her brother in her diary. The opening line read… Dear Dirty mind, the whole letter was written in rushed pen…to start again…
Dear Dirty Mind…I’ve gotta broken heart again. Last night while you were out playing Party-up games, I lost my head. I know it sounds like I was right when I agreed to do it all night, but that isn’t the whole truth. I said, yes because I remembered when you were mine…I’ve gone uptown. See you when I get home…P.S….When you see Billy Joe …tell him to go south and throw my diary off the Tallahatchie-bridge. Love Sis.

I was just havin' fun when I wrote this one day.

I just thought that I'd clarify this little story...I decided to write a little story around the song, "Sister." Using the song titles from, "Dirty Mind."
The jist is this: and has no bearing on Prince's meaning....

The brother was in love with his sister. And He convinced her to make love with him. Billy Joe was a friend to them both...but the sister was in love with Billy...
so the sister writes her brother a note in her diary that lies about going uptown.
Leaving her diary was a confession of guilt...and telling her brother to give her diary to Billy to throw off of the Tallahache Bridge, is where she would meet Billy so that she could run away from her brother.
And of course...we throw the diary off of the bridge...in another song. By Bobby Gentry. "Ode to Billy Joe."
[Edited 3/4/08 6:27am]
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Reply #38 posted 03/04/08 6:42am

NouveauDance

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Tame said:

Eve is Adam's sister.

Egyptian mythology is fun. woot!
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Reply #39 posted 03/04/08 11:47am

blackguitarist
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Riverpoet31 said:

Recently i listened to the Dirty Mind album again, and when listening to "Sister" again, it occured to me the lyrics to that song are quite smart in dealing with the subject. More deep when i made them out to be in the past.

The first verses seem to deal with the subject in a quite 'positive' way: A horny 16 yo Prince letting himself carry away by the lust, and at the same time using it as an 'excuse' for his often explicit lyrics (in those days). The way he uses that experience to 'shock' too benefit from it careerwise.

I was only 16 but I guess that's no excuse
My sister was 32, lovely and loose
She don't wear no underwear
She said it only gets in her hair
And it's got a funny way of stoppin' the juice

My sister never made love 2 anyone else but me
She's the reason 4 my, uh, sexuality
She showed me where it's supposed 2 go
A blowjob doesn't mean blow
Incest is everything it's said 2 be


The chorus after that is more ambivalent, it speaks of images of lonelieness.

Oh sister - don't put me on the street again
Oh sister - I just wanna be your friend


In the next part of the songs it seems like Prince is trying to focus on the 'negative' aspects of their relationship. Hey, he could use this experience to shock the audience, and put emphasis on his sexual image, but is a (sexual) relationship between a 16 yo adolescent and his twice as old half-sister really that healthy?

I was only 16 and only half a man
My sister didn't give a goddamn
She only wanted 2 turn me out
She'd take a whip 2 me until I shout
Oh motherfucker, she's a motherfucker, can't U understand?

Oh sister - don't put me on the street again
Oh sister - I just wanna be your friend

I know what U want me 2 do
Put me on the street and make me blue

Oh sister!
Oh sister!


These lyrics show a lot of pain and confusion. A sense of feeling 'used' by someone who is more mature then him and should have known better. It almost 'sounds' as this is something Prince began to realise when he wrote this song.

To conclude: IMO 'Sister' is definately not a song gloryfing incest. It shows how a young, immature adolescent on a pure sexual level can be overwhelmed and impressed by such an experience, but at the same time can feel confused and betrayed by it on a more intimate level.

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Reply #40 posted 03/04/08 1:29pm

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Riverpoet31 said:

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To conclude: IMO 'Sister' is definately not a song gloryfing incest. It shows how a young, immature adolescent on a pure sexual level can be overwhelmed and impressed by such an experience, but at the same time can feel confused and betrayed by it on a more intimate level.



Exactly! Like i said before let's revers the rolls. Make it about a 16 year old girl and her 32 year old brother. Sure it feels goos, as it often dose for victims of sexual abuse, but the 16 year old KNOWS it is wrong but is powerless to stop it and thus the feeling of blame, shame, and guilt. The powerless feeling is fed by the fact that sex feels good but the truth is lost to the mind (no matter how dirty) of the typical teenager.

I would like to hear some thoughts on the music.

to me: The upbeat music is in sharp contrast to conflicted tone of the song. The weird almost disorienting transsission between
"head" and "sister" start us off on a ride that in one hand makes 'no excuse' but defends itself at the same time 'i was only 16.'

(also compare this to "school Yard" another tail that comes from when Prince was "only 16.")
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Reply #41 posted 03/04/08 1:52pm

jasmine3121

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*Walks In


eek


Leaves*


I was weak when I read that falloff ROTFL
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Reply #42 posted 03/04/08 2:07pm

Riverpoet31

The 'happy' tone of the music, is probably a result of american culture.

The tendency to use something ambivalent, and nuanced, and turn it into something shallow and sensational is something you see a lot in american movies.

In those movies things are often 'abstracted' to 'good' against 'bad', right against wrong. Of course reality is not that simple and plain dualistic, but Americans have the tendency to beat all the life out of any discussion.

In the end, americans are affraid of real feelings, real emotions, they rather want it to be like some smooth, controlled quasi-film like environment....
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Reply #43 posted 03/04/08 3:05pm

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Riverpoet31 said:

The 'happy' tone of the music, is probably a result of american culture.

The tendency to use something ambivalent, and nuanced, and turn it into something shallow and sensational is something you see a lot in american movies.

In those movies things are often 'abstracted' to 'good' against 'bad', right against wrong. Of course reality is not that simple and plain dualistic, but Americans have the tendency to beat all the life out of any discussion.

In the end, americans are affraid of real feelings, real emotions, they rather want it to be like some smooth, controlled quasi-film like environment....

To me the happy tone of the song lends it more complexity than if Prince had paired the theme of incest with a more traditional sad "woe is me, pay attention to me" feeling tune. It underscores the complexity of emotions an abuse victim would be feeling. Clearly, incest is a bad thing, but like any other abuse the victim's response to it might not be so clear-cut.
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Reply #44 posted 03/04/08 3:08pm

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Has Prince actually written a song that is hornier and sexier than "Little Red Corvette"? The song practically oozes sex.

The sexier the better, if you ask me!
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Reply #45 posted 03/04/08 3:19pm

meow85

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razberet said:

Has Prince actually written a song that is hornier and sexier than "Little Red Corvette"? The song practically oozes sex.

The sexier the better, if you ask me!

Depends what your definition of sexy is. He's definitely written far, far more explicit songs.
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Reply #46 posted 03/04/08 3:22pm

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Since I can't leave a reply in the LRC thread, I decided to do so here instead.

In case anyone has any doubts regarding what this song is about here I go:


I guess I shoulda known
By the way u parked your car sideways
That it wouldnt last

See youre the kinda person
That believes in makin out once . . . . . . . . not about a car
Love em and leave em fast

I guess I must be dumb
cuz u had a pocket full of horses . . . . . . ."horses", "Trojans" = condoms
Trojan and some of them used

But it was saturday night
I guess that makes it all right
And u say what have I got 2 lose?
And honey I say

Little red corvette
Baby youre much 2 fast
Little red corvette
U need a love thats gonna last . . . . . . . a love or... a man...

I guess I shoulda closed my eyes
When u drove me 2 the place
Where your horses run free

cuz I felt a little ill
When I saw all the pictures
Of the jockeys that were there before me . . . ."jockeys"=previous boyfriends

Believe it or not
I started to worry
I wondered if I had enough class

But it was saturday night
I guess that makes it all right
And u say, baby, have u got enough gas?
Oh yeah

Little red corvette
Baby youre much 2 fast, yes u r
Little red corvette
U need 2 find a love thats gonna last

A body like yours (a body like yours)
Oughta be in jail (oughta be in jail)
cuz its on the verge of bein obscene . . . . . . . . . . no Q:s there
(cuz its on the verge of bein obscene)

Move over baby (move over baby)
Gimme the keys (gimme the keys)
Im gonna try 2 tame your little red love machine
(Im gonna try 2 tame your little red love machine)
. . . . . . . . . . . . . . it's little.. it's red... it's not a car

Little red corvette
Baby youre much 2 fast
Little red corvette
U need 2 find a love thats gonna last

Little red corvette
Honey u got 2 slow down (got 2 slow down)
Little red corvette
cuz if u dont u gonna run your
Little red corvette right in the ground
etc
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Reply #47 posted 03/04/08 3:25pm

meow85

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razberet said:

LRC lyrics were here


Yeah, I think we all figured that one out. That song's kind of a gimme, dontcha think? lol
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Reply #48 posted 03/04/08 3:38pm

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I don't know about everyone else, but incest is hot. "Brother" would be hotter, or "Brothers and Sisters", lol but Sister is still hot nonetheless.
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Reply #49 posted 03/04/08 3:45pm

khoskhal

razberet said:

Since I can't leave a reply in the LRC thread, I decided to do so here instead.

In case anyone has any doubts regarding what this song is about here I go:


I guess I shoulda known
By the way u parked your car sideways
That it wouldnt last

See youre the kinda person
That believes in makin out once . . . . . . . . not about a car
Love em and leave em fast

I guess I must be dumb
cuz u had a pocket full of horses . . . . . . ."horses", "Trojans" = condoms
Trojan and some of them used

But it was saturday night
I guess that makes it all right
And u say what have I got 2 lose?
And honey I say

Little red corvette
Baby youre much 2 fast
Little red corvette
U need a love thats gonna last . . . . . . . a love or... a man...

I guess I shoulda closed my eyes
When u drove me 2 the place
Where your horses run free

cuz I felt a little ill
When I saw all the pictures
Of the jockeys that were there before me . . . ."jockeys"=previous boyfriends

Believe it or not
I started to worry
I wondered if I had enough class

But it was saturday night
I guess that makes it all right
And u say, baby, have u got enough gas?
Oh yeah

Little red corvette
Baby youre much 2 fast, yes u r
Little red corvette
U need 2 find a love thats gonna last

A body like yours (a body like yours)
Oughta be in jail (oughta be in jail)
cuz its on the verge of bein obscene . . . . . . . . . . no Q:s there
(cuz its on the verge of bein obscene)

Move over baby (move over baby)
Gimme the keys (gimme the keys)
Im gonna try 2 tame your little red love machine
(Im gonna try 2 tame your little red love machine)
. . . . . . . . . . . . . . it's little.. it's red... it's not a car

Little red corvette
Baby youre much 2 fast
Little red corvette
U need 2 find a love thats gonna last

Little red corvette
Honey u got 2 slow down (got 2 slow down)
Little red corvette
cuz if u dont u gonna run your
Little red corvette right in the ground
etc


Hm... Okay I got ya.
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Reply #50 posted 03/04/08 3:54pm

fan09

ok im going to give prince the benefit of the doubt and say maybe he is not talking about his actul sister but maybe a black female. Sister is sometimes associated with a black female.
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Reply #51 posted 03/04/08 3:58pm

underthegraffi
tibridge

fan09 said:

ok im going to give prince the benefit of the doubt and say maybe he is not talking about his actul sister but maybe a black female. Sister is sometimes associated with a black female.


You're ruining the fantasy razz
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Reply #52 posted 03/04/08 4:20pm

DANGEROUSx

fan09 said:

ok im going to give prince the benefit of the doubt and say maybe he is not talking about his actul sister but maybe a black female. Sister is sometimes associated with a black female.

You just killed this whole thread. lol
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Reply #53 posted 03/04/08 4:28pm

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fan09 said:

ok im going to give prince the benefit of the doubt and say maybe he is not talking about his actul sister but maybe a black female. Sister is sometimes associated with a black female.

P's sis WOULD be a black female...unless she was adopted...
Besides..."Incest is everything its said to be"?
So...
we're on the same page...hmmm lol
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Reply #54 posted 03/04/08 4:42pm

SirPsycho

WAIT!!!! SISTER IS ABOUT INCEST?!?!?!?! omfg














lol
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Reply #55 posted 03/04/08 4:49pm

fan09

ToraToraDreams said:

fan09 said:

ok im going to give prince the benefit of the doubt and say maybe he is not talking about his actul sister but maybe a black female. Sister is sometimes associated with a black female.

P's sis WOULD be a black female...unless she was adopted...
Besides..."Incest is everything its said to be"?
So...
we're on the same page...hmmm lol


wait what?
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Reply #56 posted 03/04/08 4:51pm

ToraToraDreams

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SirPsycho said:

WAIT!!!! SISTER IS ABOUT INCEST?!?!?!?! omfg














lol

Ahaha. This reminds me of my friend who really digs raspberry beret, but never realized what it was about. I told her and she was all "No way" lol
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Reply #57 posted 03/04/08 4:55pm

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fan09 said:

ToraToraDreams said:


P's sis WOULD be a black female...unless she was adopted...
Besides..."Incest is everything its said to be"?
So...
we're on the same page...hmmm lol


wait what?

The song says:
incest is everything its said to be.
It coulda been some random "sister" if not for that.
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Reply #58 posted 03/04/08 5:10pm

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If I am not mistaken this song was written about his half sister and was a dig at her and husband for trying to take advantage of him (talent wise) when he was trying to get into the biz. I believe the same sister tryed to sue him for U Got The Look saying it was a song he stole from her called Whats Cooking In My Book.
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Reply #59 posted 03/04/08 5:17pm

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muleFunk said:

If I am not mistaken this song was written about his half sister and was a dig at her and husband for trying to take advantage of him (talent wise) when he was trying to get into the biz. I believe the same sister tryed to sue him for U Got The Look saying it was a song he stole from her called Whats Cooking In My Book.

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