ReverendHubert said: Do ya'll think Prince is becoming mo' aware of his Black side?
I mean, what's up w/ Black Sweat & all? Also, in TRChildren, he mentions the awareness of 'minorities' realising that they r actually the majority, possibly = TRChildren. (?!) SST > poorest of our nations sons. Such sentiments or comments make me wonder; what about u? No this is silly. Prince choose to focus on certain aspects of his image to sell records. Period. | |
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Riverpoet31 said: Its easy: when i start a thread about white consciousness in here, people will probably label me a racist....
Think about that People label you a racist for insisting there's no such thing as black consciousness, dismissing Oprah, Chris Rock, rappers, and calling Arrested Development and Eryka Badu "going back to Africa losers." | |
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I not that fond of the term "african american", but it seems better than "black" because people assume when american blacks talk about their experiences and perspective in this county, it gets labeled as a skin color issue when it's a heritage and shared experience issue.
Black people are not talking exclusively about skin color when they refer to themselves. In my city we have the irish festival, the native american festival, the latino festival, the german festival, the asian festival, italian village, and other examples of people showing pride in their heritage. I applaud them all and I attend them and try to learn about people who have a different perspective than me. Only american blacks seem to be challenged when talking about our heritage. We are not a skin color, we are a people. -Silk | |
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wonders if black americans feel proud when they see all those so-called gangsta rappers in musicvideo's, showing their bling bling, their female side-kicks with inflated breasts, the jacuzzi, the champagne....come on, how much more you can fool yourselve???? | |
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Don't believe everything you have read about Prince. This is a business-- a business of selling-- especially a new artist.
Press people know it the best, and its what i went to school for Prince is 100% black. Face it. Many black people in the US are of mixed descent (including myself-- my mother wasn't even born in this country). This is a fact as well. It doesn't make any one them any less black. I was curious on this one. Why is when someone of mixed descent has some black in them, they are considered 100% black? According to some people anyway. | |
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Daddy said: Don't believe everything you have read about Prince. This is a business-- a business of selling-- especially a new artist.
Press people know it the best, and its what i went to school for Prince is 100% black. Face it. Many black people in the US are of mixed descent (including myself-- my mother wasn't even born in this country). This is a fact as well. It doesn't make any one them any less black. I was curious on this one. Why is when someone of mixed descent has some black in them, they are considered 100% black? According to some people anyway. It's whatever you identify with most, and what your environment is. As for the 100% thing-- look up something called the 'one-drop rule'. Very strange. I consider ppl of mixed descent to be mixed. Whatever they define themselves as is what they are though, i guess. Dynamic Savior Said: Also, do you think that ugly people are God's cruel joke on humanity (like the platypus and the heterosexual) or another form of population control? | |
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Wasn't this thread up like three weeks ago?
Thinking it right, doing it wrong. It was easier from an arm chair... 'A pillow covered in all our tears' | |
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Riverpoet31 said: wonders if black americans feel proud when they see all those so-called gangsta rappers in musicvideo's, showing their bling bling, their female side-kicks with inflated breasts, the jacuzzi, the champagne....come on, how much more you can fool yourselve????
What's wrong with bling bling, female sidekicks, inflated breasts, jacuzzis, and champage? How are they fooling themselves? That material things are nice to have? | |
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VelvetJ said: I'm sorry but I have to add one more thing.
I agree 100% its like we have the kindred spirit thing goin' on This may sound bad but I just don't know how else to put it. I think Prince also realized that black people have a special love for him. We were with him from the very very beginning. And even during the height of his carrer, when there seemed to be so few black women in his camp, the total left field direction his music went to, black people, particularly black women continued to be his back bone and continued to respect and love Prince like never before. None of this is to say that other communities do not adore Prince, it's just with black people I feel it is a little different. IMO, black people have a special type of love relationship with certain people. Black folk love Denzel, Halle, Luther Vandross, Frankie Beverly and Maze, Bill Clinton, and Prince. I can't quite explain the type of love it is, but it's a love and respect that seems like only black folk understand, and I think Prince realized that. I mean of course his consciousness of blackness could be because of a million other things but I think what I stated above is also one of them. | |
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I hate the term african-american. I am not African-American, I'm West Indian, but because I have a dark skin tone people want to put labels on me. I hate the term african-american because it makes no sense, it is a stupid term, I do not see people going around calling people from Caucasian ancestry European-Americans. And if you are going by ancestry, then tecnically everyone is african-something because based on scientific and anthropological evidence people originated from Africa, for those of you who may not be too bright, that means no matter how fair (or "white") your skin is you have a dark skin toned person in your family tree somewhere. As far as I know I have african, french and hispanic background, does that make me an african-European-South American. Another thing I hate is that just because you have a certain skin tone people are expecting you to fit into a stereotypical pattern, and I'm like MF please I was not even born in this country and I refuse to let people from this country put me in a stereotypical box, I like Hockey and my sister loves skiing, but oh I'm not supposed to like hockey and my sister is not supposed to like skiing, right? All people with such narrow minds need to go read the anal stimulation link to figure out what they need to do next. I wish everyone would start having mixed babies, maybe then we'll be done with this race bs. | |
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Riverpoet31 said: I am sure i will get comments on this, and i said it before, Prince isnt (solely) black.
PLEEEASEE! Rationalize it how you want he is a black man! I can't stand it when I see this type of quote its like you are trying to justify something that is not there I got an idea let's ask Prince today what he is... Oh wait --he has already answered this question when he refers to himself as a brotha in his songs. Most recent song if you want to try to doubt me is "Lolita", I do not remember him saying, "You'll get a half italian, half phillipian, half black in trouble girl." He says, "you'll get a brotha in trouble girl!!" Brotha= BLACK MAN! Peace...His mother was halve italian, halve black. His father was halve phillipan, halve black. Just check out the more reliable biographies about Prince. I mean, i have to believe something, and they all state this. To me Prince seemed always a bit uncomfy with the 'black consciousness' thing. At some moments he did put the emphasize on ethnic diversity (dirty mind, controversy), at others he seemed to put the emphathis more on his 'blackness' (the rainbow children, exodus). To me this latter examples always did sound forced, and somehow stupid, i mean, at first, Prince isnt black, but just a mixture of races, and second, it didnt sound sincere to me, but very forced, a pose. To be clear, i loved the Prince who was saying / preaching there are no boundaries when it comes to ethnicity, the mixture of musicstyles, the fact that we are all human, because that connects with how i think about people. I dont like people putting emphasis on how 'black' or 'white' they are, because its a 'powertool' not a sign of integrity and knowing what life is about. | |
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bellanoche said: Riverpoet31 said: thats right, i dont care for political correct bullshit, everyone has a consciounce, and everyone should follow it, but when peeps start to say there is a black consciouness, a white one, a yellow one whatever, they are spreading politics, it has nothing do with reality
I think that many black people try to be optimistic and somewhat idealistic with regard to racism when we are younger. However, as we get older and REALLY experience life, we realize that nothing has really changed. Whether covert or overt, racism is racism. I am a 30-year-old black woman and I have definitely experienced some racist things throughout my life - several this year alone - that have shown me that racism will always exist. As people of color we need to know our history and embrace ourselves, because we live in a world where we are taught that we are inferior. I think Prince has just become wiser as he has aged. Experience is a teacher. What is life if not a journey to self discovery. As Prince reaches half a century on this earth, he has disovered himself - like most of us whop are willing to undertake the task. | |
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Do white people experience rasicm as well, or are they immune to it? Is it socially acceptable to be racist towards white people? It doesn't seem to bother some of the most popular black comedians to make fun of white people (you know, the ol' nasal voice that is commonly used by the likes of Chris Rock, Eddie Murphy, and Dave Chappelle, portraying the white person stereotype). It seems to me some of you think that white people are the only people in this world that are capable of racism.
Romera said: [/quote]Where is all the outcry from people when people of Irish descent, German descent, Japanese descent celebrate their history?[quote] Trust me, if all the "European Americans" demand that there be a "White History Month", there will be an outcry. When the "League of United White American Citizens" is formed, there will be an outcry. When an organization called "National Association for the Advancement of White People" is formed, there will be an outcry. It just seems to me that there is a double standard. I guess because white people are considered to be the majority in this country, and that white people have been guilty of mistreating others in the past, that they are not allowed to have these types of organizations without public outcry and disgust. Trust me, I wouldn't belong to any of these organizations if they existed. The point I'm trying to make is it seems to me that every race is going to have some racists in it. Don't try to pin the entire world's racism problem on the white man. I've experienced plenty of racism, I can feel it right now. That being said, I wish and pray to God that someday this world will be free of racism and we can all love one another. Peace. | |
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Daddy said: I guess because white people are considered to be the majority in this country, and that white people have been guilty of mistreating others in the past...
Correction: White people ARE the majority in the United States. That's an unqualified FACT. Black people--the largest minority--make up a paltry 12% of the American population. So you might say Black folk feel outnumbered. And white people have the safety in numbers. Daddy said: Trust me, if all the "European Americans" demand that there be a "White History Month", there will be an outcry. When the "League of United White American Citizens" is formed, there will be an outcry. When an organization called "National Association for the Advancement of White People" is formed, there will be an outcry. White consciousness isn't so much reviled as it is redundant. The entire U.S. educational system is based on white men's accomplishments. Our Puritanism is inherited from Britain. The governance is modelled after the Greeks. Television, with its mean streak and spectacle (American Idol, Cops, Judge Judy), I would trace to the Roman Collesium. Our favorite food is Italian pizza and German hamburger. Even the fashions, the suits and ties, tuxedos and formalwear, are holdovers from Victorian times. American culture is awash in Eurocentrism. It's a shiny gleaming tribute to the Caucasian Male. So, having a White History Month would be ridiculous. America is White History NATION. Forming the National Association for the Advancement of White People--as David Duke once did--is ludicrous. Being white and average in America means you're HOME. Being Black and average in America means you have to work ten times as hard to succeed--only to have your racial identity and loyalty questioned once you get there. | |
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Daddy said: Do white people experience rasicm as well, or are they immune to it? Is it socially acceptable to be racist towards white people? It doesn't seem to bother some of the most popular black comedians to make fun of white people (you know, the ol' nasal voice that is commonly used by the likes of Chris Rock, Eddie Murphy, and Dave Chappelle, portraying the white person stereotype). It seems to me some of you think that white people are the only people in this world that are capable of racism.
Where is all the outcry from people when people of Irish descent, German descent, Japanese descent celebrate their history?Romera said: Trust me, if all the "European Americans" demand that there be a "White History Month", there will be an outcry. When the "League of United White American Citizens" is formed, there will be an outcry. When an organization called "National Association for the Advancement of White People" is formed, there will be an outcry. It just seems to me that there is a double standard. I guess because white people are considered to be the majority in this country, and that white people have been guilty of mistreating others in the past, that they are not allowed to have these types of organizations without public outcry and disgust. Trust me, I wouldn't belong to any of these organizations if they existed. The point I'm trying to make is it seems to me that every race is going to have some racists in it. Don't try to pin the entire world's racism problem on the white man. I've experienced plenty of racism, I can feel it right now. That being said, I wish and pray to God that someday this world will be free of racism and we can all love one another. Peace. | |
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Riverpoet31 said: wonders if black americans feel proud when they see all those so-called gangsta rappers in musicvideo's, showing their bling bling, their female side-kicks with inflated breasts, the jacuzzi, the champagne....come on, how much more you can fool yourselve????
Now you're just showing your complete lack of intelligence by assuming Black Americans (capitals restored, riverpoet31 ) in general do nothing but sit around and watch gangsta rap videos all the time. As one of the many African-Americans that doesn't sit around and watch the latest rap videos because I have to work and be selective about where I spent my time leisurely (I prefer listening to music of course, but I enjoy reading fiction and cultural things as well, African as well as other cultures)...I have no sense of pride in what mainstream gansta rap portrays in general. It doesn't do anything for me personally, but for the Black Americans that do...yeah, some of them probaby have just as much pride in such music as do fans of country music and whatever form of presentation it makes, modern rock music and whatever form of presentation it makes, big-band music...,bluegrass....jazz...classical....etc. etc. etc. Now your question at the end of this post makes me laugh because it really shows how much (lack of) thought you put into this. "How much more can you fool yourselves? (Correction inserted, please use your gramattically conscious english book when posting) Again, you make a HUGE blanket statement towards black people, saying we're fooling ourselves with gangster rap music, which is completely false. Who provided the rappers with the music videos, the bling bling, the female side-kicks with inflated breasts, the jacuzzi, and the champange? The executives who signed their checks in the recording industry. Period. So if anyone is supposedly fooling Black People, it's certainly not Black People. | |
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FabiOne said: I hate the term african-american. I am not African-American, I'm West Indian, but because I have a dark skin tone people want to put labels on me. I hate the term african-american because it makes no sense, it is a stupid term, I do not see people going around calling people from Caucasian ancestry European-Americans. And if you are going by ancestry, then tecnically everyone is african-something because based on scientific and anthropological evidence people originated from Africa, for those of you who may not be too bright, that means no matter how fair (or "white") your skin is you have a dark skin toned person in your family tree somewhere. As far as I know I have african, french and hispanic background, does that make me an african-European-South American. Another thing I hate is that just because you have a certain skin tone people are expecting you to fit into a stereotypical pattern, and I'm like MF please I was not even born in this country and I refuse to let people from this country put me in a stereotypical box, I like Hockey and my sister loves skiing, but oh I'm not supposed to like hockey and my sister is not supposed to like skiing, right? All people with such narrow minds need to go read the anal stimulation link to figure out what they need to do next. I wish everyone would start having mixed babies, maybe then we'll be done with this race bs.
First of all, I would encourage you to read Silkilove's post above and try to see things from another perspective. Secondly, what exactly is hateful about the term African American? right off the bat you choose to identify yourself as West Indian. Why would I have reason to hate that term? See what I'm getting at? Furthermore, there are, in fact, people who identify themselves as German, Italian, Irish or Asian American, etc. and they DO have their own organizations. What's wrong with that? On the topic of ancestry. I think most people understand that ultimately all humanity is descended from a common source/ancestor, so your're just stating the obvious and missing the point. As for not being from this country, that could be said of most of us at some point in history, so why bother to distinguish yourself as West Indian and then in the same breath wish for a more homogenized world where everyone has "mixed babies?" Could it not be said that you have a West Indian consciousness? Is that something I should berate you for? I don't think so. Finally, As an African "American" I don't appreciate the implication that these issues exist only in the US and that everywhere else is such a paradise. America bashing by non Americans is just as disturbing as Black Consciouness bashing is by non blacks. I'm glad that you refuse to let anyone label you or expect you to act a certain way. Please allow others the same freedom to define themselves as they see fit without seeing it as an affront to your identity. Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise. | |
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Romera said: StoneCrib said: Isn't it funny how no one ever asks or questions why Irish people celebrate St. Patrick's Day but people always like to ask "Why is there Black history Month?" Pretty much everyone here is from somewhere else but we get the most shit for celebrating that. Yep, we celebrate St Patrick's day, Columbus day, Hispanic heritage month, Chinese new year, etc. and it's all good, but somehow, Black history month is another story? Interesting. Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise. | |
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babynoz said: Romera said: Shit, what about Cinco de Mayo?
Pretty much everyone here is from somewhere else but we get the most shit for celebrating that. Yep, we celebrate St Patrick's day, Columbus day, Hispanic heritage month, Chinese new year, etc. and it's all good, but somehow, Black history month is another story? Interesting. | |
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Daddy said: Do white people experience rasicm as well, or are they immune to it? Is it socially acceptable to be racist towards white people? It doesn't seem to bother some of the most popular black comedians to make fun of white people (you know, the ol' nasal voice that is commonly used by the likes of Chris Rock, Eddie Murphy, and Dave Chappelle, portraying the white person stereotype). It seems to me some of you think that white people are the only people in this world that are capable of racism.
Where is all the outcry from people when people of Irish descent, German descent, Japanese descent celebrate their history?Romera said: Trust me, if all the "European Americans" demand that there be a "White History Month", there will be an outcry. When the "League of United White American Citizens" is formed, there will be an outcry. When an organization called "National Association for the Advancement of White People" is formed, there will be an outcry. It just seems to me that there is a double standard. I guess because white people are considered to be the majority in this country, and that white people have been guilty of mistreating others in the past, that they are not allowed to have these types of organizations without public outcry and disgust. Trust me, I wouldn't belong to any of these organizations if they existed. The point I'm trying to make is it seems to me that every race is going to have some racists in it. Don't try to pin the entire world's racism problem on the white man. I've experienced plenty of racism, I can feel it right now. That being said, I wish and pray to God that someday this world will be free of racism and we can all love one another. Peace. Do white people experience racism? I would say that white people experience prejudice and discrimination certainly, and it's just as wrong as any other form of prejudice whether it's based on race, age, gender, religion, etc. Most people experience some form of prejudice at some point in their lives. The term "Racism" is somewhat different. Although it is based upon prejudice, the "ism" implies an institutionalized practice of discrimination that is systemic in nature and not widely experienced by the dominant culture. The terms racism, prejudice and discrimination are not interchangeable. As someone stated above, European culture is already THE dominant culture, so there would be no need for any special designations. The economic sytem, the arts, education,and form of government that we live under are all based upon the Euro-centric worldview of history, culture and philosophy so I'm not seeing your point. Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise. | |
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babynoz said: Daddy said: Do white people experience rasicm as well, or are they immune to it? Is it socially acceptable to be racist towards white people? It doesn't seem to bother some of the most popular black comedians to make fun of white people (you know, the ol' nasal voice that is commonly used by the likes of Chris Rock, Eddie Murphy, and Dave Chappelle, portraying the white person stereotype). It seems to me some of you think that white people are the only people in this world that are capable of racism.
Where is all the outcry from people when people of Irish descent, German descent, Japanese descent celebrate their history?Romera said: Trust me, if all the "European Americans" demand that there be a "White History Month", there will be an outcry. When the "League of United White American Citizens" is formed, there will be an outcry. When an organization called "National Association for the Advancement of White People" is formed, there will be an outcry. It just seems to me that there is a double standard. I guess because white people are considered to be the majority in this country, and that white people have been guilty of mistreating others in the past, that they are not allowed to have these types of organizations without public outcry and disgust. Trust me, I wouldn't belong to any of these organizations if they existed. The point I'm trying to make is it seems to me that every race is going to have some racists in it. Don't try to pin the entire world's racism problem on the white man. I've experienced plenty of racism, I can feel it right now. That being said, I wish and pray to God that someday this world will be free of racism and we can all love one another. Peace. Do white people experience racism? I would say that white people experience prejudice and discrimination certainly, and it's just as wrong as any other form of prejudice whether it's based on race, age, gender, religion, etc. Most people experience some form of prejudice at some point in their lives. The term "Racism" is somewhat different. Although it is based upon prejudice, the "ism" implies an institutionalized practice of discrimination that is systemic in nature and not widely experienced by the dominant culture. The terms racism, prejudice and discrimination are not interchangeable. As someone stated above, European culture is already THE dominant culture, so there would be no need for any special designations. The economic sytem, the arts, education,and form of government that we live under are all based upon the Euro-centric worldview of history, culture and philosophy so I'm not seeing your point. Living to die and I'll die to live again - 360 degrees - comprehend | |
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I would like to say that I am none of the above.
I'm an alien with three eyes and six noses (but my mum tells me I'm pretty). I would one day like to find someone who finds me attractive enough to go out with me. (Note: Okay I'm not but sometimes I feel like I am....) Sorry to digress from the tone of the thread but it was getting mighty hot in here... Shut up already, damn. | |
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Babynoz,
if black people from this country want to call themselves Tree of Africa, that would be fine with me, as long as people don't start identifying me as that. The term African-American bothers me because I hate the term, yet people are labeling me an african-american just because of my skin color. It just makes no sense to go define African - something by ancestry because everybodies ancestors are from Africa. And just because a person still reflects their african ancestry in their skin color, it does not make him/her any more or less from Africa then a White person. Take this example as an illustration, My cousin who has very dark skin had two kids with a White man, yet both kids came out with absolutely no sign of their african ancestry. One of them has red hair like Julianne Moore with brown eyes and the other one has light brown hair with green eyes. If those kids marry white folks, 2 generations later the greatgrand kids won't know they had a black greatgrandmother unless somebody tell them; people can't tell now that these kids have a black mother, it's sad because when she's out with them, they think that she is their nanny. My point is that since the darkest black person and the fairest white person might be able to trace their african ancestry two generations back, it makes no sense to reseve the term african-American for black people here who can't trace their african ancestry. if black people here are African-American, then what do you call a person who lives here and is actually from an African country. Yes, there are people who call themselves German or Irish or Asian American, but these people can actually trace their ties to that specific country or continent. As for American Bashing, I am not doing that at all, I am simply stating facts. I have family in many different countries and I am only making that statement because of what I know of their experiences. No body looks at my sister funny when she goes skiing in Europe. All you need to do is cross the border and you'll notice the difference. I went on a date with a white guy in the states, and everybody was looking at us like we were aliens or something; I went to toronto and one thing I noticed was that when mixed couples walk by in toronto, nobody looks at them funny. I saw a black girl with an asian guy, nobody gave a damm, then I saw some white/black pairs and again nobody gave a damm. Yes, other places have their own problems,but from my own experiences and what I've been told by family members in other countries, in a lot of other countries people are not expecting you to talk a certain way or not do certain things because of your skin color. [Edited 4/22/06 14:43pm] [Edited 4/22/06 14:47pm] | |
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FabiOne said: Babynoz,
if black people from this country want to call themselves Tree of Africa, that would be fine with me, as long as people don't start identifying me as that. The term African-American bothers me because I hate the term, yet people are labeling me an african-american just because of my skin color. It just makes no sense to go define African - something by ancestry because everybodies ancestors are from Africa. And just because a person still reflects their african ancestry in their skin color, it does not make him/her any more or less from Africa then a White person. Take this example as an illustration, My cousin who has very dark skin had two kids with a White man, yet both kids came out with absolutely no sign of their african ancestry. One of them has red hair like Julianne Moore with brown eyes and the other one has light brown hair with green eyes. If those kids marry white folks, 2 generations later the greatgrand kids won't know they had a black greatgrandmother unless somebody tell them; people can't tell now that these kids have a black mother, it's sad because when she's out with them, they think that she is their nanny. My point is that since the darkest black person and the fairest white person might be able to trace their african ancestry two generations back, it makes no sense to reseve the term african-American for black people here who can't trace their african ancestry. if black people here are African-American, then what do you call a person who lives here and is actually from an African country. Yes, there are people who call themselves German or Irish or Asian American, but these people can actually trace their ties to that specific country or continent. As for American Bashing, I am not doing that at all, I am simply stating facts. I have family in many different countries and I am only making that statement because of what I know of their experiences. No body looks at my sister funny when she goes skiing in Europe. All you need to do is cross the border and you'll notice the difference. I went on a date with a white guy in the states, and everybody was looking at us like we were aliens or something; I went to toronto and one thing I noticed was that when mixed couples walk by in toronto, nobody looks at them funny. I saw a black girl with an asian guy, nobody gave a damm, then I saw some white/black pairs and again nobody gave a damm. Yes, other places have their own problems,but from my own experiences and what I've been told by family members in other countries, in a lot of other countries people are not expecting you to talk a certain way or not do certain things because of your skin color. [Edited 4/22/06 14:43pm] [Edited 4/22/06 14:47pm] Your points are well taken, however I suspect that what is really bothering you is simply that you find it offensive to be mistakenly identified as an African American.(such a hateful thing to be mistaken for) If I followed that logic then I would be offended every time somebody approached me speaking spanish just because I have light skin and a curly hairstyle. It happens a lot and it doesn't faze me at all. Furthermore, not being able to trace your lineage to a specific place does not negate the fact that you identify with that lineage. I would suggest that in that particular situation, your lineage might matter that much more, having had it stolen from you. The fact that skin color may be less of an issue in other countries really isn't the point. Whether it's race, class, religion or ethnicity, America isn't the only place where people have problems interacting with one another. Ask the Irish about religious conflicts, Ask a Kurd about life in Iraq and since you're so in love with Canada, why not go speak to some indigenous people to get their perspective on how great it's been for them? Here's the point. If I can respect you as a West Indian, why can't you respect me as an African American? We're all part of the human family but we don't all have to be the same in order to respect one another. That's the point. I promise NEVER to mistake you for one of us. Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise. | |
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Babynoz,
I think that you are misunderstanding my point of view. I do have respect for black Americans, I have respect for different cultures in general. And I don't think it is a hateful thing to be identified as African-American, I just don't like the term for the reasons that I stated in my other posts. and since I don't like the term, I don't like when people call me African-American. But I have respect for Black Americans, matter of fact, one of the people that I admire the most is a black american, and my ex-boyfriend was also a Black American. So just because I don't like the term does not mean that I have a problem with the people. I do really love Toronto, but that's because it's such a diverse city and given that I like learning about different cultures,it makes sense that I love Toronto. But I do know that the indigenous people there have faced a lot of problems; I took a canadian criminal law class and we discussed how unfair the criminal justice system there is to indigenous people. Yes, everywhere have its own problems, I was just pointing out that in a lot of other places people don't expect you to act a certain way because of your skin color. But by saying that I'm not saying that other places don't have race problems. perhaps the reason why I brought that up again is because today I went in a Sam Goody music store and when I went to check out my items, the guy looked at one of my CDs and said "well you sure you want to buy this, you know this is rock"? I said yeah I know it's rock, Why? he didn't really answer. I guess I don't look like somebody you'd expect to buy a rock album. I guess my natural hair say no rock albums allowed. He didn't question the dance cd I picked out, he only questioned the rock album, and I'm faced with that kind of attitude all the time. I am a person who likes to do all kinds of stuff, when I'm buying an R&B album no one questions me? when I'm watching basketball, no one questions me, but the second they see me watching hockey or buying a rock album, they have something to say? and I'm just tired of it. [Edited 4/22/06 17:06pm] [Edited 4/22/06 17:10pm] | |
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FabiOne said: Babynoz,
I think that you are misunderstanding my point of view. I do have respect for black Americans, I have respect for different cultures in general. And I don't think it is a hateful thing to be identified as African-American, I just don't like the term for the reasons that I stated in my other posts. and since I don't like the term, I don't like when people call me African-American. But I have respect for Black Americans, matter of fact, one of the people that I admire the most is a black american, and my ex-boyfriend was also a Black American. So just because I don't like the term does not mean that I have a problem with the people. I do really love Toronto, but that's because it's such a diverse city and given that I like learning about different cultures,it makes sense that I love Toronto. But I do know that the indigenous people there have faced a lot of problems; I took a canadian criminal law class and we discussed how unfair the criminal justice system there is to indigenous people. Yes, everywhere have its own problems, I was just pointing out that in a lot of other places people don't expect you to act a certain way because of your skin color. But by saying that I'm not saying that other places don't have race problems. perhaps the reason why I brought that up again is because today I went in a Sam Goody music store and when I went to check out my items, the guy looked at one of my CDs and said "well you sure you want to buy this, you know this is rock"? I said yeah I know it's rock, Why? he didn't really answer. I guess I don't look like somebody you'd expect to buy a rock album. I guess my natural hair say no rock albums allowed. He didn't question the dance cd I picked out, he only questioned the rock album, and I'm faced with that kind of attitude all the time. I am a person who likes to do all kinds of stuff, when I'm buying an R&B album no one questions me? when I'm watching basketball, no one questions me, but the second they see me watching hockey or buying a rock album, they have something to say? and I'm just tired of it. [Edited 4/22/06 17:06pm] [Edited 4/22/06 17:10pm] you should see people's faces when I'm browsing in the classical music section... Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise. | |
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Yeah, trust me I know the look. Doesn't it bother you? I guess black people are not supposed to listen to Mozart and Tchaikovsky. People can be so narrowminded. | |
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FabiOne said: Yeah, trust me I know the look. Doesn't it bother you? I guess black people are not supposed to listen to Mozart and Tchaikovsky. People can be so narrowminded.
Tchaikovsky is my favorite, followed by Bach, but I'm no expert or anything. I find people's reactions amusing. I would only get pissed if the staff followed me around the store thinking I might steal something. That would be offensive. Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise. | |
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Now see, I bet this is a thread on the org that Prince would actually read. | |
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I'm no expert either, although I was almost an expert back in my college years because during that time I slept and breathed classical music (not just classical but baroque music as well, etc). But now I mostly only still listen to Mozart because I find his music really calming. I love listening to Mozart right before exams because I think it helps me remember more and it calms my nerves. I compare Prince to Mozart in the sense that I think he is a true musical genius. [Edited 4/26/06 11:24am] | |
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