Krystal666 said:

if you don't mind my asking, why do you choose to strip? is there no other means of employment available to you that would be more "respectable" and wouldn't lump you in with that stereotypical stripper image?

do you go to school or anything currently besides dancing? because strippers have a shelf life and, when that day eventually comes for you, what then?

i'm not asking any of the above in a snarky way so i hope i didn't come across as such. i'm just truly curious.

MrsJimmyFallon said:

I know you are not being nasty by asking. When you were as dirt poor as I was when I moved out of my parents money sure makes a difference to you. I never want to go back to living that way. I choose to dance because I make a wonderful amount of money and am trying to get out of poverty. I am trying to secure a future for myself and am very careful with my money. I did go to school for a year with a 4.0 average but choose to take time off. In fact I don't think I want to go back to school for what I was doing. What I really want to do is save money to go to the Aveda institue. I think that is what I really want to do. I want to spend the rest of my life doing something I am passionate about.

And yes sorry for bitching earlier. I just get annoyed sometimes. I guess I should just accept that people are going to assume stupid things about you. Oh well I guess if I make a good living I can just put up with stupid ignorant people's perceptions of me. I just felt the need to vent when I read that!
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Krystal666 said:

i do certainly understand what you mean about growing up being dirt poor, and how that can affect a person and their future decisions/choices/etc in life. my family wasn't as poor as it sounds yours was, but i can still relate to the principle behind the emotion.

you don't need to apologize for anything. you really weren't bitching per se in your earlier post, just expressing your feelings. yeah - there's a societal stereotype placed strippers and those in the sex industry but i guess all you can do is tune it out as best you can.

i know someone else who wants to attend Aveda, so i've heard good things about it. just don't put school off too long (i know of which i speak, believe me! lol) go back as soon as you can.

origmnd said:

GREAT fuckin' song!

He may come across as no drugs, but Prince of late must be on some shit, OI mean look at the decline in his albums, the spacing betwen them. His work lacks the discipline of his earlier material. Theres no way Prince could do a set like Dirty Mind, 1999 or even s.o.t (maybe one of the greatest cretive drug type albums ever).
What it means Prince is spaced out, and theres something hes on. Whateva that is he isnt letting on. Maybe its ectasy, as he dropped at least one when he recorded the Black album in late 1987, and his personalities like Gemini, Camille, Spooky and may have all been part of various experiences with drugs. What I also know, was that by the Purple Rain tour, drugs were on the menu for some people and its possible, Prince may have expefienced by S.O.T. But who hasn't look at Hendrix, Bowie, Sly Stone, and the Rolling stones, they wrote some of their best shit when they were high.

MrsJimmyFallon said:

Thanks sweetie. I guess I wasn't dirt, dirt poor but there were very hard times. Expecialy when I moved out on my own. I definatly couldn't go to my parents for money because they had none. Life just was really bleek back then. I'm glad I made the decision to start dancing.

Yes I didn't mean to judge Prince like that. I don't know him or how he treats women I just really hope he isn't like the dumb sports guys who think just because you are a stripper you are going to jump at the chance to sit on their dicks.That would really disapoint me. I mean we all know I wanna do Prince silly but I like to be treated like a lady and with some amount of respect! But actually I have met many women who said Prince used to come into Solid Gold (now Shieks) way back like in the early ninties with his boys and he was always a total gentleman and treated the girls very nicely. So maybe he is a sweetheart.
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No. Prince drinks Pepsi like any sane person.

tane1976 said:

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Dude has been rolling along putting out all sorts of music for over 25 years. What are you talking about when you talk about spacing and decline. The only space between music had been this year and you may not like his current music but, a million people brought the last CD via retail so someone liked it.

This guy just finished during close two 100 shows in a little less than six months time. What are you talking about he must be on drugs? Can anyone function like this on drugs?

KRYS.. First Off WHY WORRY WHAT SOME DUMB SPORTS GUYS THINK ANYWAY? Society will ALWAYS JUDGE. I DON'T CARE ANYMORE CAUSE if you Do you will be STUNTED. As long as YOU KNOW YOU DON"T DO DRUGS like COKE and YOU DON"T SLEEP ON EVERY GUYS JOCK THEN WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU CARE? You are WORKING HARD to make a LIVING. STRIPPERS DO NOT HAVE SHELF LIVES if they LOOK GOOD. That's STUPID and ALSO SCHOOL is GOOD BUT if it's NOT WHAT U WANT and JUST TO PLEASE SOCIETY. It's like BEING GAY. DO U CHANGE to STRAIGHt JUST BECAUSE NOT THE NORM? FUCK NO! DO GAYs CARE What ya THINK? HELL NO! SO SHOULD I? HELL NO! By the WAY I Couldn't give a FUCK ABOUT PEOPLE's UPTIGHT VIEWS on MY SEXUALITY or JOB DESCRIPTION. I'm a GROWN WOMAN. I only CARE about MEETING STUPID MEN who AREN'T MY TYPE WHO NEVER LEAVE ME ALONE. As far as TALKING DIRTY or about SEX I am OPEN to talk Frankly, I LOVE MEN and WOMEN. If I am Into it that day I will Make Out. If NOT I WON'T. I NEVER SECOND GUESS MYSELF and I ALWAYS tell GUYS or GIRLS What I am LOOKING FOR UPFRONT. I'm VERY FRANK about my INTENTIONS. Trust me I am NOT EMBARASSED. And I WANNA FUCK PRINCE KRYS..I Make NO BONES ABOUT IT. I tell EVERYBODY ..SO WHAT! Big WOW! It Doesn't HINDER MY LIFE or my CHOICES one BIT. UNTIL I Can talk to him like a NORMAL PERSON that isn't EVEN going to be an IDEA. I will ALWAYS BE ENAMOURED by PURPLE MAN..He gets me HARd and WET. He is an EXCITING MAN. I Waouldn't want him on DRUGS cause HE DOESN"T NEED Them. I FEEL DRUGS ARE a WASTE OF TIME. I choose to NOT Hang OUt with ABUSERS. Yes, alot of DANCERS DO DO COKE. I have seen it. I just think the girls should get into EXERCISE and leve the DRUGS ALONE. Coffee works Just as Well. Peace.

Zelaira said:

Did you take Prince's coke?

LOL. It's funny Cause As PRINCe FANS I DON't KNOW HOW ANYBODY Could be a PURITAN about SEX. This man is so OPEN about PLEASURE. How can ya be his FAN if ya a SQUARE? What the FUCK DO YOU SEE TO MAKE YOURSELF a FAN? He has ALWAYS BEEN EXPLICIT. Anyway, who Cares bout that Shit,but like if ya Gotta Worry bout some DRUNK SPORTS GUYS talking Shit at some STRIP BARS or what SOCIETY THINKS! WHo's PAYING YOUR BILLS? FUCK THAT! NObody is doing CRIMINAL ACTS and WE are ALL ADULTS. GAYS AREN"T CHANGING and so DANCERS SHOULDN'T FEEL UPSET about SOME THOUGHTS. NOBODY SHOULD say STUFF about NOBODY. It's BULLSHIT REALLY. Most people just Can't SAY THEY LIKE a BI-SEXUAL EXPERIENCE..TOO TABOO or SHY. Why Can't ya SHOW that SIDe of your PERSONALITY? WHY CAN'T YA BE OPEN BOUT Your DESIRES or Ya LUSTS? I SERIOUSLY DON'T BELIEVe PRINCe is Going to be SNORTING in FRONT of STRANGERS. That's FOOLISH. I DO BELIEVE he ALWAYS WAs a GENTLEMAN. I DO BELIEVE he would let his HAIR DOWN within his INNER CIRCLE. But he's a WORKAHOLIC. Look at his Band? They are NOT ADDICTS and AFRAID of GETTING FIRED. So,NO it's VERY STRICT! VERY! The Dance clubs STRIP PLACES have THEIR kind of MENTALITY. THEY have the SHADY WORKINGS. ONE MUST STAY FIRM and SAY NO! It isn't a BIG DEAL to SAY NO! In FACT if someone wants to FORCE ya with COKE or DRUGS I would say they HAVE AN ADDICTION and WANT YOU to have one. Let them KILL THEMSELVES WITHOUT YOUR PARTICIPATION. Just be HEALTHY.....

Zelaira said:

Again, DID YOU TAKE PRINCE'S COKE!!!!

God only knows what y'all think he's doing in this one:


HOT this pic makes a girl go crazy and nude

Thinking about SEx ..... SWEET.... He's SENSUOUS..... It's like SUGAR DRIPPING from his Fingertips as he Licks it GINGERLY OFF.....

ludika said:

You'll have to come up with better evidence then Prince rubbing his nose to prove that he uses coke. Me personally, He would have to be caught on tape like Kate Moss recently was, to make me believe it's true.

close this already

origmnd said:

Love that (s)AINT video.

Zelaira said:

Thanks Zel. Yes I know I shouldn't care what other people think. I just get really sensitve sometimes. But I have noticed the older I get the less I care about others perceptions of me.

Krystal666 said:

Well honey alot of girls that strip especially in Prince's world probably do want to have sex with him. You said you would yourself. That doesn't mean he has no respect for them. I mean the argument could be made you don't have respect for Prince because you want to have sex with him. Now does that make sense? Nah!!

I just think in the world of stripping alot of times you see the worst of the worst. At least that is what my stripper friend used to tell me. Still I respect your point.

Zelaira said:

totally agree

LISTEN, Org ALWAYS Says Manson is a SATANIST and this and That. Manson is FRIENDS with HOWARD STERN and VERY INTELLIGENT. HE NEVER SAID he was a SATANIST. HE was INVITED by ANTON LEVAY to join but didn't say he did. HE said in his BOOK he liked DRUGS. He ADMITS he USED DRUGS. He has been admited to HOSPITALS and STILL DID DRUGS O>K> DRUG USE MAKES YA SICK. I STILL LOVE MANSON'S MUSIC and ROB ZOMBIE and NIN. ORG likes NIN the best. DOESN'T MEAN WE ADOPT OUR LIVESSTYLES TO THEIRS. WE ARE TOO SMART FOR THAT. EVERYONE KNOWs YA WILL BE AT HOSPITAL SOON if YA CONTINUE TAKING DRUGS. I WISH these PERFORMERS would STOP KILLING THEMSEVES and GET HEALTHY..... As far as PEOPLE talking bout STRIPPERS LIFESTYLES. YOU MAY be EXPOSED,BUT YOU CAN STAND TALL AND BE DIFFERENT. Ya Can be a DANCER in it for a GOAL and NOT for some SEEDINESS. It's NOT WRONG and MANSON'S FIANCE DITA is GORGEOUS. EVEN THE OZ DOESN'T DO DRUGS or DRINK ANYMORE. HE Can't even FUCK he said ANYMORE. YA'ALL WANT THAT JUST FOR FUCKING GETTING HIGH? ESCAPE IT..... GET INTO NATURAL LIVINg. Be HEALTHy. GEt TO a GYM and GO MORE VEGETARIAN. DRINK JUICES, WINE , WATER. Don't Do ANYTHING to EXCESS. MODERATION and BALANCE IS THE KEY... One CAN DETOX with HERBS. READ UP ON IT..JUICE and HERBS.... RED CLOVER, WORMWOOD, READ ABOUT DETOX. YOU CAN CLEANSE OUT TOXINS..BEET JUICE... KEEP YOURSELF CLEAN> You CAN DO IT NATURALLY... You will BUILD UP RESISTANCE and NEED MORe AND MORE AND LIVER OR KIDNEY FAILURE... LOOK AT VANITy AND NIKKI 6. GET OFF DRUGS!!! DO IT NOW!!!! PEACE..I LOVE U.....

Zelaira said:

Please stop with all the capitals. They're not necessary.

Anyway, Manson is an official minister in the Church of Satan, but he doesn't get involved in the organization, he just lives by the philosophy. He still does drugs, mainly coke, but he's strict on the abuse of drugs.

And what does that Mean a MINISTER? I don't understand Marilyn with the drugs. In his book he says He has Health Problems. Why would he Still Do them? I Know he SAYs I DON'T LIKe The Drugs But The Drugs LIKe Me. But he gets sick and Still Does them.. Not making Sex. I met him and he was So NICE. I Love Marilyn. I wish he would take Care of his Health Better. His band is Cool. They were flirty and kissed me at a Book signing.

Zelaira said:

I've met Manson, Dita, and the band. They were all cool.

I think Manson has his drug use under control.

Glad about that. I was worried after reading his autobiography stating he had SEVERE HEALTh Problems. We DON'T want him Overdosing for a STUPID HIGH. His Videos are GREAT....And my CHILD ADORES HIM....

chiltonmusic said:

Yeah The world of dancing sure makes you really dislike men.

That's SAD KRYS.... I LOVE MEN and WOMEN. I just HATE VULGUR and GUYS who Won't go AWAY When Your LOVE AFFAIR is OVER. Ad far as HATINg. I NEVER FELT or FEEL that WAY. Nothing will make me GO 100% Lesbian cause DICK is Too GOOD. Guess ya Gotta Meet Better MEN.... Peace Cara Mia.