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Personal vendettas How does one handle person vendattas here? Is it something that someone has to report to a moderator? Do they have to document every occurence of someone seemingly having something personal against them? Or, is this something that can't really be helped? | |
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Reporting it to a mod is a good idea with an explanation of the history, if any. We'll see what we can do for you.
Documenting things is a good way of keeping a record of how often it's happening. Other options are blocking them on your buddy list from receiving orgnotes. 
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First and foremost, you'll want to try to work it out with that person on your own.
If that fails, it really depends on the situation. If you are feeling harrassed by someone and that someone is clearly breaking site rules, forward relevant links to threads, orgnotes, etc. to a mod to look into for you. If you believe it's a long-term pattern, you'll need to have the long-term history |
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CarrieMpls said: First and foremost, you'll want to try to work it out with that person on your own.
If that fails, it really depends on the situation. If you are feeling harrassed by someone and that someone is clearly breaking site rules, forward relevant links to threads, orgnotes, etc. to a mod to look into for you. If you believe it's a long-term pattern, you'll need to have the long-term history I agree with Carrie and must also say again "First and foremost, you'll want to try to work it out with that person on your own. " In the process try not to gum up threads with persoanl issues as well If it is just a personal issues that does not cross lines into threats then please ( both parties ) be mature adults and work it out and or just steer clear of each other  | |
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Mach said: "First and foremost, you'll want to try to work it out with that person on your own. " I agree 
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Mach said: CarrieMpls said: First and foremost, you'll want to try to work it out with that person on your own.
If that fails, it really depends on the situation. If you are feeling harrassed by someone and that someone is clearly breaking site rules, forward relevant links to threads, orgnotes, etc. to a mod to look into for you. If you believe it's a long-term pattern, you'll need to have the long-term history I agree with Carrie and must also say again "First and foremost, you'll want to try to work it out with that person on your own. " In the process try not to gum up threads with persoanl issues as well If it is just a personal issues that does not cross lines into threats then please ( both parties ) be mature adults and work it out and or just steer clear of each other Ok, what if it's someone that I don't care for for very real reasons. Moreover, what if CarrieMPLS absolutely hates that person too. Can't I leverage her hatred of that particular person for the betterment of all? She knows exactly who those hate worthy folks are.  | |
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Imago said: Mach said: I agree with Carrie and must also say again "First and foremost, you'll want to try to work it out with that person on your own. " In the process try not to gum up threads with persoanl issues as well If it is just a personal issues that does not cross lines into threats then please ( both parties ) be mature adults and work it out and or just steer clear of each other Ok, what if it's someone that I don't care for for very real reasons. Moreover, what if CarrieMPLS absolutely hates that person too. Can't I leverage her hatred of that particular person for the betterment of all? She knows exactly who those hate worthy folks are. 
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Imago said: Mach said: I agree with Carrie and must also say again "First and foremost, you'll want to try to work it out with that person on your own. " In the process try not to gum up threads with persoanl issues as well If it is just a personal issues that does not cross lines into threats then please ( both parties ) be mature adults and work it out and or just steer clear of each other Ok, what if it's someone that I don't care for for very real reasons. Moreover, what if CarrieMPLS absolutely hates that person too. Can't I leverage her hatred of that particular person for the betterment of all? She knows exactly who those hate worthy folks are.  Has anyone mentioned me yet ? | |
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Mach said: Imago said: Ok, what if it's someone that I don't care for for very real reasons. Moreover, what if CarrieMPLS absolutely hates that person too. Can't I leverage her hatred of that particular person for the betterment of all? She knows exactly who those hate worthy folks are. Has anyone mentioned me yet ? | |
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Mach said: CarrieMpls said: First and foremost, you'll want to try to work it out with that person on your own.
If that fails, it really depends on the situation. If you are feeling harrassed by someone and that someone is clearly breaking site rules, forward relevant links to threads, orgnotes, etc. to a mod to look into for you. If you believe it's a long-term pattern, you'll need to have the long-term history I agree with Carrie and must also say again "First and foremost, you'll want to try to work it out with that person on your own. " In the process try not to gum up threads with persoanl issues as well If it is just a personal issues that does not cross lines into threats then please ( both parties ) be mature adults and work it out and or just steer clear of each other It's a little more difficult than that when someone is being harassed | |
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Janfriend said: Mach said: I agree with Carrie and must also say again "First and foremost, you'll want to try to work it out with that person on your own. " In the process try not to gum up threads with persoanl issues as well If it is just a personal issues that does not cross lines into threats then please ( both parties ) be mature adults and work it out and or just steer clear of each other It's a little more difficult than that when someone is being harassed More difficult then documenting and reporting the harrassment ? If you are being harassed then follow the ideas luv, Carrie and I have suggested document and report to mods | |
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Mach said: Janfriend said: It's a little more difficult than that when someone is being harassed More difficult then documenting and reporting the harrassment ? If you are being harassed then follow the ideas luv, Carrie and I have suggested document and report to mods as Carrie said : If you are feeling harrassed by someone and that someone is clearly breaking site rules, forward relevant links to threads, orgnotes, etc. to a mod to look into for you. If you believe it's a long-term pattern, you'll need to have the long-term history . | |
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Not that I am kissing butt or anything..but, I just wanted to say thank you to all the moderators...you guys run a tight ship!! You are appreciated!! | |
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PaisleyPark5083 said: Not that I am kissing butt or anything..but, I just wanted to say thank you to all the moderators...you guys run a tight ship!! You are appreciated!!
You're welcome 
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