Azure

And, if I were her, I would take your advice...

It's an "open relationship" and loads of people successfully define their relationships this way. I don't think this would drastically change anyone's perception.

Azure you are who you are... Our life experiences make us who we become..

I can't imagine anyone judging you for this, unless they are very straightlaced, or acted like they were holier than thou.

Your friend needs to find her way. You cannot tell her that she isn't ready, it appears that something in her is wanting.. I wish her truth in her pursuit..

to Azure because I love you, and to your friend just because.

sag10 said:

well said

Reminds me (vaguely) of Lammastide's relationship with his (ex?)wife... he posted it on Aerogram's 5 surprising things thread.

I hope your overall reaction to this is better than what Matt and I got. This is ultimately an odd place to spill one's guts.

I highly suggest that anybody who is interested in this stuff read The Ethical Slut. I'd say it focuses more on polyamory, which is different from swinging, but methinks it's valuable reading for anybody.

Monogamy is an interesting thing, and I hope that our culture can eventually recognize that it's not for everybody.

langebleu said:

Co-sign

Cool, cool, cool! I will take the advice and keep doing what I think is right, which, at this time is not doing any such thing, other than being with the one I am with. I don't see anything wrong with it... it just isn't for me anymore and hasn't been for me for about, oh... six or seven years or so, I guess.

No, the org isn't the bless place to spill ones guts, however, I have no problem talking about this part of my life. There are many other things in my life that I consider to be more private, which I would not reveal to many people. And, if this helps out my friend, which, I don't know if this is the response she was looking for, well... then it's all the better. A few here have contacted me wanting to know a little more about it... one of them has the same sort of relationship with his girlfriend and the other two wanted to know more about it. Either way... no skin off my back.

I do find it funny that many people (not meaning people here) are more willing to accept one that cheats, rather than a couple who come to an agreement to be with others. Both are often frowned upon, but cheating doesn't seem as taboo to most. I dunno...

It's hilarious but true. People don't flinch nearly as hard to the concept of cheating as they do to the concept of "swinging" or open relationships, or as RD would say Pollywoggle

I tend to be monogomous, however I have had "open" relationships. For me, the more open I am tends to be based on how much I love that man. If I'm totally in love with someone, I don't want anybody else. But if I'm dating to pass the time, it's OK with me.

I say don't apologize for being honest about your life. If people can't handle it, that's their problem. I'm honest to a fault and if people cannot deal with the fact that I've made over 100 gang bang tapes, oh well

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

open relationships? so your a semi swinger right?

PEJ said:

I've had my moments

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

<-- proud "Polyanna"

I do think it's more likely to have difficulty "sharing" somebody who is more important to you, but then, those are the people whom we most want to be happy. . .I hope I'll always be able to be happy for my partners when they are being loved by others, and if I'm not, I hope to do a good job of pretending.

AND I THOUGHT I'D NEVER


get to experiance the rush of a jerry springer show



YOU ROCK...!!

Wow, that's cojones.

starkitty said:

Not really! Personality differences..

starkitty said:

In dora's case they're called buttcheeks

Hey dora

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

SCORE 10


[This message was edited Mon May 3 16:09:31 2004 by Muse2NOPharaoh]

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

hey lover.....

right now i wish i was getting the dick you are


or my arse belonged to some irish man

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

HEY..!!! sugar tits.....


how is the most beautiful blond in the world....

DORA said:

How did you know my fake boyfriend is Irish!?

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

How does one have a fake boyfriend I ask? I fear I am missing out on something!

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

You know....they love to fuck you but that's about it? I'm actually oversimplifying the issue but fake boyfriend fits for now

Muse2NOPharaoh said:

:O

fer fucks sake muse....


its called BATTERIES.....


and mine morph into Steven Hawkings

DORA said:

Nah...mine has an actual cock

DORA said:

Well honored to have the title even if only through you!

sag10 said:

I mean to post it.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Okay??

What up sweet sticky thang?

DORA said:

ROFLMAO!

OK....I think we're threadjacking here. Sorry Az

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

I fully blame you!