This is true indeed, I don't know why people are so obsessed with it, maybe it's the thought or the fantasy, but just because you have sex with someone doesn't necessarily mean you will get to know them anymore if you weren't sleeping with that person. The keyword is communication, the only real way to get to know a person truly and thoroughly is communication. Guys How about talking to each other for a change instead of being so quick to hop into the bed room, and fellas how about listening to us women for a change, you might learn something. In my opinion sex add's nothing to the relationship minus nothing of the relationship, it's just the luxury part of the relationship, I mean after you get to know a person, you want to share your body and mind with someone, but still I think if you wait for each other the anticipation and curiosity side of sex will make it more excited if two people do decide to wait...
I mean, the way I look at it is if you wait till ur married you have something to look forward to in the bedroom, but if you don't decided wait it's like you already know what the deal is and let's just get this over with before I have to return my wedding dress ...
Okay so the moral to this story is (Clears throat) Sex is overrated, people make more of it then what it really is... so stop that people you make it disappointing for those who find out the truth that sex really sucks

It only hurts for a little while Lisa but you'll get use to it.

Paisley said:

OH LAWRD YOU BROUGHT BACK HORRID MEMORIES, Damn Prince music for making me curious
[This message was edited Mon May 5 18:42:12 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa]

Sex is natural, sex is good, not everybody does it, but everybody should

George Michael said it best

DigitalLisa said:

If it hurts to much just dig your nails into his back, it will help relieve the pain. :LOL:

alexnevermind319 said:

Yeah but it should have been Prince saying that, he actually wrote the song.

DigitalLisa said:

Supernova said:

don't hurt self

I take it you are an expert. :LOL:

Paisley said:

well then you haven't had good sex yet... and it is completely separatable from a relationship... but I must admit, I am now bored with sex on its own, but then again, I'm an old geezer!

Paisley said:

OOOHHH!

SuperC said:

Paisley said:

thanks for the tip, I'll use it next time

Sounds like maybe you have'nt been having too many goood experiences, I think sex is basically what you make it. It's something that you have to be comfortable with and if it's not floating your boat maybe you should try and step it up a notch.

DigitalLisa said:

Try it, it works.

DigitalLisa said:

If it is so overrated, why should there be a next time? You are above such simple pleasures.

SuperC said:

She really faking the FUCK but she wont admit it, she's actually getting the ass waxed every night. :LOL:

Paisley said:

faking the fuck

as 4 me, i can't say shit...

really good sex is only possible with a deep, deep connection with the other person on a non-physical (spiritual) level.

if you don't believe you both have a soul and that it is more beautiful than your physical body, yet bound by it, then you will never have really good sex.

when you get to that deep spiritual level, you will find yourself in the garden of eden with your partner.

so, don't fret lisa, hopefully one day you'll reach that (altered) state of consciousness, too. people just need to open their minds to get there...and dream a little perhaps.

i say "altered" state because it is not a generic, tv image or magazine image of "sex"...it is LOVE and like everything, it comes from your centre. it must GROW like a garden (heheh i know that sounds like a hallmark card)...it must be awakened.

it must...zzz

don't mind me...please carry on...

I haven't had sex with a person yet, but I too thibk it's way overrated

lisa didnt you say you havent had sex yet or something?

ummm try it first if you havent

Christopher said:

She has, she's just faking the FUCK!

Paisley said:

i see...

Christopher said:

She wants all of us to think she's an yeah an with horns.

Paisley said:

Makes u all wonder huh
[This message was edited Mon May 5 20:51:28 PDT 2003 by DigitalLisa]

DigitalLisa said:

NO! Easy to figure out :LOL:

SuperC said:

what does a penis actually look like

:Evillol:

DigitalLisa said:

Well some look like sticks of Lunguisa and some look like Vienna Sausuages. :LOL:

Where is Doctor Ruth when we need her?