morningsong said:

noimageatall said:

I'm of the opinion that the entire world could use more emotion, more sensitivity, and a whole lot more love. Tears/crying are a natural human emotion and should be used more often...not suppressed. I mean, if you're not moved to tears after making love (not fucking the shit out of someone) then what's the point?

Who said suppressed? If you cry, cool, but the automatic labeling of anybody who doesn't react or act as you define is just a bit unsettling. Reminds me, I had one man TRY to make me so into him to cry or something, it was stressful more than anything else. Not good. I know women who say they like to laugh and play during sex they say that's when its the best, see, no crying doesn't mean going at it like a battering ram all the time. I don't get that whole there's only one way to be idea.

So true, especially your first sentence.

uPtoWnNY said:

morningsong said:

noimageatall said: Who said suppressed? If you cry, cool, but the automatic labeling of anybody who doesn't react or act as you define is just a bit unsettling. Reminds me, I had one man TRY to make me so into him to cry or something, it was stressful more than anything else. Not good. I know women who say they like to laugh and play during sex they say that's when its the best, see, no crying doesn't mean going at it like a battering ram all the time. I don't get that whole there's only one way to be idea.

So true, especially your first sentence.

again...there it is

I never have, but I don't think there is anything wrong with it for those who have. Lots of brain chemicals and emotions get stirred up during sex, and I can certainly see this happening. Don't think there is anything wrong with folks who never have, either. Everyone reacts differently.

Ok it's been said I believe everyone should 'be the same' and show the same emotions. I never said that. HOWEVER, it appears to me that almost all the male responses ARE the same. Almost every male makes lewd jokes or tries to be macho or says they can't cry because it shows weakness.

Why is it okay for most males to react to the OP's question with almost the same response but it's not okay to think humans should show more emotion? Whatever, I can't wait for society to change, evolve, and stop belittling and pussyfying men who do cry (and God knows I'm not saying everyone should cry at the drop of a hat or a manipulative McDonald's commercial).

Ya'll should take a lesson from Mr. Macho himself, Jax Teller... "Jax (Charlie Hunnam) showed his super sensitive side when he began crying after sex with Winsome (Inbar Lavi)." (Sons of Anarchy--Season 7. ep. 10 Faith & Desponency)

Nope.

I freakin' cried at the end of "Marley & Me", but after (or during) sex??? Nope.

Then again, I've never shed 'tears of joy'. Extreme levels of happiness tend to leave me speechless, not tearful. For example the birth of my firstborn; my ex bawled her eyes out with happiness, I was speechless in a comatose level of euphoria.

Like Fauxie at an Org Invasion.

Personalities I suppose...

JoeTyler said:

have you ever cried in front of and/or with a woman during, before or after sex?

No.

OldFriends4Sale said:

Hell 2 the NO

noimageatall said:

Ok it's been said I believe everyone should 'be the same' and show the same emotions. I never said that. HOWEVER, it appears to me that almost all the male responses ARE the same. Almost every male makes lewd jokes or tries to be macho or says they can't cry because it shows weakness.

Why is it okay for most males to react to the OP's question with almost the same response but it's not okay to think humans should show more emotion? Whatever, I can't wait for society to change, evolve, and stop belittling and pussyfying men who do cry (and God knows I'm not saying everyone should cry at the drop of a hat or a manipulative McDonald's commercial).

Ya'll should take a lesson from Mr. Macho himself, Jax Teller... "Jax (Charlie Hunnam) showed his super sensitive side when he began crying after sex with Winsome (Inbar Lavi)." (Sons of Anarchy--Season 7. ep. 10 Faith & Desponency)

That image didn't help

Maybe he's crying because he's cheating on his wife or boyfriend?

I think there would have be a situation for a man to cry after sex

Like the world is ending, or they were/are in a natural disaster or something really tragic

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noimageatall said:

Guys, you're talking about a show. Weird.

JustErin said:

OMG did you all not see the afterwards???? geezus h chhhrrriiisst....I don't even watch SoA. I posted that because someone mentioned previously about men crying only in cinema. And since it appears that god forbid NO MAN HERE or anywhere else in real life cries after sex then I was done with the thread and decided to be funny. Apparently it wasn't. geezzzzzzzzz

morningsong said:

JustErin said:

Guys, you're talking about a show. Weird.

Its the org. Random left turns in the convo is all part of it. But I did have to laugh. The person posting articles on the violence in men who don't cry or whatever, and how the world would be a better place, less violent if men would show their vulnerable side. Post a picture of this dreamboat as some kind of fantasy guy. Got too caught up looking at that booty. Which happens to us all.

That should have been a clue FYI I don't like blondes.

noimageatall said:

noimageatall said:

If it's good guys go to sleep after it's over

had a gf in highschool we were inseperable our intimacy had its moments of intense bliss love filled idk there might of been a time when it all came out in an emotional moment im sure .. but like cried? ... not sure how to define cried .. like your fucking your brains out you orgasm n suddenly you start balling like a 5 yr old? explain cried

jon1967 said:

had a gf in highschool we were inseperable our intimacy had its moments of intense bliss love filled idk there might of been a time when it all came out in an emotional moment im sure .. but like cried? ... not sure how to define cried .. like your fucking your brains out you orgasm n suddenly you start balling like a 5 yr old? explain cried

When you're crying after sex you're crying like a bitch, period.

Cry?

.

Well, I guess I could make a motherfucker cry by slapping the shit out of him for spoiling it by talking.

JoeTyler said:

you men gotta cry like Prince in "Do Me, Baby"

That wasn't crying, that was screaming. I've read that Rick was pretty big so those were screams of pain. Honey, I bet that little ass was so sore you couldn't touch it with a powderpuff.

OldFriends4Sale said:

If it's good guys go to sleep after it's over

As Richard Pryor said, "eight hours of sleep and a bowl of Wheaties!"

vainandy said:

JoeTyler said:

you men gotta cry like Prince in "Do Me, Baby"

That wasn't crying, that was screaming. I've read that Rick was pretty big so those were screams of pain. Honey, I bet that little ass was so sore you couldn't touch it with a powderpuff.

Rick James was fckin Prince in the ass in "Do Me, Baby" ?

JoeTyler said:

vainandy said:

That wasn't crying, that was screaming. I've read that Rick was pretty big so those were screams of pain. Honey, I bet that little ass was so sore you couldn't touch it with a powderpuff.

Rick James was fckin Prince in the ass in "Do Me, Baby" ?

He had to have been because what else could they have done? If he had been putting that big thang in Prince's mouth, he would have had a sore throat and couldn't do all those screams.

why would you cry after sex ?

jon1967 said:

why would you cry after sex ?

My friend actually told me she had sex with a guy once and they had to stop because he started to hyperventilate and ended up crying.

jon1967 said:

why would you cry after sex ?

not all tears are negative/painful