The answer to the thread's question is:

Oxytocin

Beautifulstarr123 said:

ScarletScandal said:

What I can't stand is "That nigga ain't shit!!" Yeah, but you had a baby to that ain't shit nigga. It took you a whole 9 months, plus the age of the baby to realize that? Foresight is clearly lacking.

I believe that many women do see the signs of who he is, but choose to ignore them.

Yeah ignoring the obvious can be a detriment for sure.

SeventeenDayze said:

morningsong said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Yeah ignoring the obvious can be a detriment for sure.

Horniness will make you do a lot of stupid things. I wish, in a way, that the hit and quit gene worked in youth, but no, you got to be in love and dedicated one's whole world to this person, and then hard cold freaking life smacks you dead in the face, all that was just some foolish bs wasting your time. And then your old.

I hear you. Don't feel bad. I think we all experience something similar to what you describe. I heard a radio DJ say the other day that when it comes to women, he doesn't go to the bar looking for the best personality and brains. Mind you, this guy wasn't a spring chicken himself. He's not a bad looking guy but he's also not the kind of guy that has a memorable face. I'm not anywhere near his age but if I were, I would really be upset that men that age still want to fake like they are frat boys.

I'm the age where single guys start getting snatched up left and right like wildfire, so I kind of accept the fact that I will probably be alone for several more years of my life, if not the rest of it.

morningsong said:

SeventeenDayze said:

Yeah ignoring the obvious can be a detriment for sure.

Horniness will make you do a lot of stupid things. I wish, in a way, that the hit and quit gene worked in youth, but no, you got to be in love and dedicated one's whole world to this person, and then hard cold freaking life smacks you dead in the face, all that was just some foolish bs wasting your time. And then your old.

ouch! I agree though

SeventeenDayze said:

alphastreet said:

morningsong said:

SeventeenDayze said:

I hear you. Don't feel bad. I think we all experience something similar to what you describe. I heard a radio DJ say the other day that when it comes to women, he doesn't go to the bar looking for the best personality and brains. Mind you, this guy wasn't a spring chicken himself. He's not a bad looking guy but he's also not the kind of guy that has a memorable face. I'm not anywhere near his age but if I were, I would really be upset that men that age still want to fake like they are frat boys.

I'm the age where single guys start getting snatched up left and right like wildfire, so I kind of accept the fact that I will probably be alone for several more years of my life, if not the rest of it.

Move to Alaska. I'm kidding. I wish I knew the answer or had the magic pill, but I don't. All i can say is don't spend too much time worrying about it because you'll miss some pretty awesome moments.

That's funny I've always heard that there's a higher ration of men to women, so maybe you're on to something Yes, I probably shouldn't worry about it. I think I have just shifted gears, accepted reality and will just keep moving along with my life. There are moments when I wonder if I missed something but those moments are getting fewer and farther between, thankfully.