What 5 things (or more) are your relationship dealbreaker's.

What 5 things would your partner have to do for you to dump them?

It can be 1 to make you walk away or all of the 5 collectively but c'mon everyone has 5

Mine are:

1. Cheat

2. Extreme laziness

3. Low Libido

4. Can't get on with my family and tries to alienate me from them

5. Bad hygeine

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deceive me by wearing sexy shoes and then taking them off and I see vulture feet

Ocean said:

bisexual

mean spirited

clumsy

stupid

snores

Hudson said:

bisexual

I don't want a man who finds woman doable.

break the contract

let herself go

let lies surface

continue to lie

get overly needy

bye bye

1. Drug Addict

2. Alcoholic

3. Hustler (lies, cheats, user, conniving, deceiving)

4. Over-inflated ego

5. Bigot

tries to "alien" me from them?

lol

1. low self esteem

2. people who can't spell

cruel

disloyal

liar

abusive

uncharitable

3rdeyedude said:

1. Addiction of any kind (alcohol/drugs)

2. Abusive in any way

3. Sociopathic

4. Not well read

5. Prejudice

BobGeorge909 said:

Ocean said:

I could really come up with a lot more than 5 Adding Abusive Man boobs and hairy back Although there is always wax I guess lol [Edited 5/17/14 6:49am]

i think you'd need a lot of wax to pull a pair of man boobs off a fella

MoBettaBliss said:

1)Dishonest

2)No sense of Humor

3)Financially unsound (Lives on credit cards/2nd mortgage etc.)

4)Abuser or just plain mean

5)Not loyal

1) Ungentlemanlike behavior (doesn't open doors, pull out chairs, using cell phone while on dates)
2) Rudeness

3) Jellyfish as a backbone

4) Mama's boy

5) Beer belly/Man titties

I don't have a list.

Right now I'm having trouble just "clicking" with someone.

The physical is more of an issue that I would have ever thought...not that I'm looking for a swimsuit model or anything (I mean I'm not delusional) but there has to be this certain "look" that really turns me on...THEN the rest comes to play.
I actually went on a couple of dates with someone who was sexy AND had qualities that appealed to me (driven, independent, funny, caring) but then a little bit of cray-cray started peeking through that scared me away from her.



#1 - SANE

Mandingo said:

\1. Cheat

2. Extreme laziness

3. Low Libido

4. Can't get on with my family and tries to alien me from them

5. Bad hygeine

I'd agree with number 4, it's awful when your partner causes a rift in your family. Even if your family are pains in the ass, they are still your family.

sleepy all the time

poor traveller

not interested in conversation

tv on in the bedroom

business hours ALL THE TIME

constant texting

sounds just like my marriage

PurpleJedi said:

I don't have a list.

Right now I'm having trouble just "clicking" with someone.

The physical is more of an issue that I would have ever thought...not that I'm looking for a swimsuit model or anything (I mean I'm not delusional) but there has to be this certain "look" that really turns me on...THEN the rest comes to play.
I actually went on a couple of dates with someone who was sexy AND had qualities that appealed to me (driven, independent, funny, caring) but then a little bit of cray-cray started peeking through that scared me away from her.



#1 - SANE

I agree with most of what you said, especially the bloded part is a 100% the same for me. If I had a list none of my boyfriends would have ever passed (my last boyfriend was really tall for example ), but I love them and at the end of the day that's the only thing that really matters to me. I hardly ever fall in love so if I do and then they would have to pass the requirements of my list I woull still be a virgin today.

ZombieKitten said:

Mandingo said:

\1. Cheat

2. Extreme laziness

3. Low Libido

4. Can't get on with my family and tries to alien me from them

5. Bad hygeine

I'd agree with number 4, it's awful when your partner causes a rift in your family. Even if your family are pains in the ass, they are still your family.

sleepy all the time

poor traveller

not interested in conversation

tv on in the bedroom

business hours ALL THE TIME

constant texting

sounds just like my marriage

3rdeyedude said:

ZombieKitten said:

Ocean said:

BobGeorge909 said:

No head...c'mon now ladies...it's the 21st century. Not constant or daily...at least a couple times a month...hopefully more. Just Birthday head and new years head ain't gonna work.


Stanky pussy..soap...its easy. Handle it.


Throwing stuff/fits...act your age. I'm 35...ure at least 20-ish. Grow the fuck up and learn to control your emotions...at least a little...throwing shit around? I don't tolerate it from kids....adults??? Lol.


crack use...there's a stigma that's very effective with me and crack. Weed...some recreational pill use that isn't overboard...ecstacy...that stuff don't bother me...have fun....but crack has this image associated with it that stands out vs. oher addiction images.

Excessively hairy...stubble on lips and chin...not havin' it. Not talking pussy...hairy but trimmed and bald is fine. I'm talking just face stuff...get itbwaxed...NO SHAVING IT. It just ain't right tonkiss a girl and its scratchy. Get outta my face with that. Might as well kiss a dude.
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What kinda girls have you been dating?

My list is longer than five. Absolute deal breakers are as follows:

1. Alcoholic/drug addict

2. Bisexual

3. Socio/Psychopaths

4. Liars/thieves

5. Physically/emotionally abusive

6. Poor hygiene

7. Financially unstable, still lives at home with mother or with a bunch of room/housemates. At this stage of the game, especially at my age, I want a man who has just as much as I do or more.

8. No sense of humor.

9. Cruelty to animals or won't tolerate pets.

10. Cops. They have issues... I know. I've dated three and that was enough. I know it's not fair to lump them all together, but with my luck thus far, no thanks.

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[Edited 5/19/14 12:13pm]

1. Lack of being able to have a deep conversation

2. Bitchy

3. lack of indivisualality

4. does not support my dreams and aspirations

5. Whore