You know what, I don't care what anyone says, there's no such thing of Bi sexual people okay, bi sexual people are people who are afraid to admit they're all the way gay case close
[This message was edited Mon Mar 17 12:20:46 PST 2003 by DigitalLisa]

That makes about as much sense as this:

There's no such thing as people who like both Ford and Chevrolet. I mean, make up your damn minds, people!

Listen... you either answer yes or no, it can't be maybe, if it's a maybe then all it means is you can't seem to make up your mind, so on that note...

It's either your gay or straight, you can't be both, it's like they can't seem to make up your min

I disagree. One of my best friends is bisexual, she loves being with both men and women. I would have agreed with you a few years ago, but hanging around with her has made me understand better.

I think it's more like you are straight, but don't limit yourself sexually.

LaVisHh said:

Good one!

This is not a yes or no question...but it is a very ignorant question, er,... statement.

Whatever...

How can you love both a woman and a man at the same time(confused) ? This just doesn't seem to make any sense at all... and if you do love a man and a woman at the same time, does it make it okay for a person to cheat on someone? You know I don't think I could ever date a bi sexual person, cuz to me it just seems like they don't know what they want ... I don't have the time I would get very impatient
[This message was edited Mon Mar 17 12:24:40 PST 2003 by DigitalLisa]

DigitalLisa said:

ummm... Just cause someone's bisexual doesn't mean they cannot be monogamous. They aren't mutually exclusive.

I could agree and disagree with you here DigitalLisa..


In a perfect world people would all be heterosexual as God made us

But how do we know? Who and how am I to judge?

I am heterosexual and yeah I meet some damned gorgeous perfect men and think 'If only, if...' when I find they are gay..


Going back through history, the Greeks and the Romans had sexual relations with the opposite sex and it was never shunned upon...


It wasnt taboo then, then it was in latter years and these days it isnt, it is accepted..


Confusing yes, but fact of life I am afraid...

REDFEATHERS said:

What a sad, sad statement.

REDFEATHERS said:

Well I don't believe God made us all the same... and I'm beginning to think that maybe some people where born Gay... But Bi sexuality???

DigitalLisa said:

You can love both your sister and your brother at the same time..I know where you are coming from but if that bisexual person loves their partner, doesnt necessarily mean they are gonna cheat on them as much as a heterosexual person will cheat on their partner...

CarrieMpls said:

I am religious, but open minded to the world today, God made Adam and Eve, NOT Adam and Steve...

DigitalLisa said:

Uh, perhaps you can get back to us when your less of a beginner thinker...

This is obviously thinking at it's most beginning stage!



(beginner edit! )
[This message was edited Mon Mar 17 12:33:43 PST 2003 by June7]

REDFEATHERS said:

Well when you love your brother and sister... that's a whole different kind of love, see what I mean... it's more of a aubudance rather then desire or lust...

DigitalLisa said:

REDFEATHERS said:

Anyway, you edited what I said afterwards!!!

June7 said:

Gotta start somewhere

DigitalLisa said:

Well I guess we'll never know...cuz we're not bisexual!

And it's not like my friend dates both at the same time...if she meets a girl she likes she dates her...if she meets a guy she likes she dates him. Being bisexual does not mean you date both sexes at the same time.

DigitalLisa said:

CarrieLee said:

But you see, you know even though that person is with you, he or she is still going to desire something else in the back of their mind, man I would be soo hurt if I ever came home and found my man in a bed with another man... I mean Lord Jevus that's worst then finding him in bed with another another woman. They're both wrong but I'm saying it's just the principal

REDFEATHERS said:

The fact that you said it at all is what bothers me. Why the world would be perfect if we were all hetero?
That's alright. You can continue to think you have an open mind. Since your back-up argument relies on religious dogma, there's no debating the matter anyway.

DigitalLisa said:

But that's soo not the case with my friend. You're misunderstanding me. It's just like if you or I were dating a guy and we weren't happy with them, we'd find another guy, right? Well she just dates people, men or women and if she connects then she has a relationship with them...ya know what I mean??? It's the person she's attracted to, not necessarily the gender of the person...


gender edit, doh!
[This message was edited Mon Mar 17 12:43:41 PST 2003 by CarrieLee]

DigitalLisa said:

YEAH

YOU NOT SAY LOVE THOUGH

YOU SAY SEX

IT DIFFERENT

Yeah I get you... I connect with a people the same sex as I am, I even think some other females are pretty but I don't want to hook up with them or anything, I just be thinking dang I wish I had breast like her or dang I wish I was pretty like that, It's not like I want to go to bed with her or anything

DigitalLisa said:

(June7 is imagining coming home and finding his wife in bed with another woman...)

First, I'd be like...

Then, I'd be like...

Then, I'd be like...

Then, I'd be like... 8)

Then, I'd go like...

Then, I'd go like...

Then I'd be like...

June7 said:

I think most men would

DigitalLisa said:

I hear ya. That's when you say "to each their own"!!! I could never see myself being a full blown lesbian either.

I do have to say that I think some bisexual people are just sex maniacs...they try to get all they can from whomever they can. And when you think about it, it really doesn't sound that bad!

But I could never do that...

OOO...maybe THIS is why Prince can say he's NOT gay and NOT be lying...