or do you prefer to be the pursuer. I have heard that if the woman make the first move than she takes on the role that is considered male,and therefore the man she might be interested in will not be interested in her.

I find it really confusing actually,cause if I as a woman do not let it be known that I am interested,why would he feel the need to make a move?

yes, but i'm not threatened by strong women... just the opposite actually

I always have to make the 1st move because no one has ever approached me.

Heck yes. I love being pursued.

Yes, long as she's hot.

I like how she pulls me closer with her legs...

Oh, HELL, yes lol

LOVE it.

ooooh yes I LOVE it

I get an instant hard-on whenever a woman makes the first move

Can more guys here please explain how wonderful it is for a girl to hit on them? I never had that feeling.I always pursue or buy my way.The closest for me was in psyche ward and that connection was made through phone call.

I never had anyone pursue me in person,except men,which has been quite a few.

Im Vermin.

iaminparties said:

Can more guys here please explain how wonderful it is for a girl to hit on them? I never had that feeling.I always pursue or buy my way.The closest for me was in psyche ward and that connection was made through phone call.

I never had anyone pursue me in person,except men,which has been quite a few.

Im Vermin.

the way i see it, you have two choices

you can either a) wallow in self pity... this will allow you to do things like constantly making strong negative statements about yourself to gain pity and/or attention

or you could b) recognise the traits that make you "vermin" and do something about them.... this will involve a journey to try to live life in a positive way, by whatever means necessary (which may include finding the right medication)

i have a brother with schitzophrenia... that this insipid disease has attacked probably the most kind, gentle soul i've ever met breaks my heart

but just to let you know where he's at, he recently received his masters degree, and his 2nd book is about to be published... while he is still a kind, gentle soul, he's also a fighter, determined to do the best with the cards the's been dealt

the fact that you suffer from mental illness sucks... and i have nothing but compassion for you... if there's anything i can do to support you, let me know (truly)... but this game you play here isn't doing you any good

but hey, if the that's the way you want to go about it, have at it... i'll never comment on it again

sorry for the thread jack EmeraldSkies

MoBetterBliss said:

iaminparties said:

Can more guys here please explain how wonderful it is for a girl to hit on them? I never had that feeling.I always pursue or buy my way.The closest for me was in psyche ward and that connection was made through phone call.

I never had anyone pursue me in person,except men,which has been quite a few.

Im Vermin.

the way i see it, you have two choices

you can either a) wallow in self pity... this will allow you to do things like constantly making strong negative statements about yourself to gain pity and/or attention

or you could b) recognise the traits that make you "vermin" and do something about them.... this will involve a journey to try to live life in a positive way, by whatever means necessary (which may include finding the right medication)

i have a brother with schitzophrenia... that this insipid disease has attacked probably the most kind, gentle soul i've ever met breaks my heart

but just to let you know where he's at, he recently received his masters degree, and his 2nd book is about to be published... while he is still a kind, gentle soul, he's also a fighter, determined to do the best with the cards the's been dealt

the fact that you suffer from mental illness sucks... and i have nothing but compassion for you... if there's anything i can do to support you, let me know (truly)... but this game you play here isn't doing you any good

but hey, if the that's the way you want to go about it, have at it... i'll never comment on it again

sorry for the thread jack EmeraldSkies

no problem,my sister also had schitzophrenia,and she dealt with it better than I think I would have. She also was a kind,and gentle soul,and dealt with the best way she knew how,occasionally she would have her bad days,but not often. After she past away last year,people would come up to me,and tell me she was better off now,but I know if given the choice,she would rather be here with her mental illness than not here at all.

schizo-affected not schizophrenic

Lack of sleep is gonna cost me my job

Facebook chating with a nutso now.We are meeting at McDees Tuesday.Im off that day to see my DR.

contrary to popular belief, i am very approachable and can admire a woman

who can elevate to the level of attempting to get what she likes.

some women have the curse of bein too beautiful, seemin to be un-approachable,

putin them in the predicument of bein quite lonely. only a few know that the answer

to that is to be aggressive and make that approach. closed mouth don't

give head don't get fed...

Yep, sure do like it...especially in this age of 'equality'...women can go ahead and pay for dates, meals and gifts regularly too.

MoBetterBliss said:

iaminparties said:

Can more guys here please explain how wonderful it is for a girl to hit on them? I never had that feeling.I always pursue or buy my way.The closest for me was in psyche ward and that connection was made through phone call.

I never had anyone pursue me in person,except men,which has been quite a few.

Im Vermin.

the way i see it, you have two choices

you can either a) wallow in self pity... this will allow you to do things like constantly making strong negative statements about yourself to gain pity and/or attention

or you could b) recognise the traits that make you "vermin" and do something about them.... this will involve a journey to try to live life in a positive way, by whatever means necessary (which may include finding the right medication)

i have a brother with schitzophrenia... that this insipid disease has attacked probably the most kind, gentle soul i've ever met breaks my heart

but just to let you know where he's at, he recently received his masters degree, and his 2nd book is about to be published... while he is still a kind, gentle soul, he's also a fighter, determined to do the best with the cards the's been dealt

the fact that you suffer from mental illness sucks... and i have nothing but compassion for you... if there's anything i can do to support you, let me know (truly)... but this game you play here isn't doing you any good

but hey, if the that's the way you want to go about it, have at it... i'll never comment on it again

sorry for the thread jack EmeraldSkies

Great post!

I must say I am very happy that I am a woman and pretty much never have to make the first move .

Yes, it's great.

I mean...it WOULD be great...if it ever happened outside of my imaginations...

PurpleJedi said:

Yes, it's great.

I mean...it WOULD be great...if it ever happened outside of my imaginations...

Serious said:

PurpleJedi said:

Yes, it's great.

I mean...it WOULD be great...if it ever happened outside of my imaginations...

Not really. At least when I don't know them personally yet.

Eh, I don't mind it, really. My experience of it is just that it's never lead to anything substantial. The women have usually thought that I must be something that I'm really not (a guitar player in a rock band, or something as naive).

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No, I want them to let me know they are interested, but if I want you there is no need to pursue me.

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I think in general there should be some kind of shared attraction, before a move is made.

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I don't think a woman making the 1st move though as some others have put it, is a 'strong' women. Sounds like some muscle bound dominitrix. She could be a desperate women too.

Serious said:

I must say I am very happy that I am a woman and pretty much never have to make the first move .

lol, love it, you must be good looking, or at least after a few

OldFriends4Sale said:

Serious said:

I must say I am very happy that I am a woman and pretty much never have to make the first move .

lol, love it, you must be good looking, or at least after a few

thanks

Sorry English ain't my first language and I don't get the bolded part

Serious said:

OldFriends4Sale said:

lol, love it, you must be good looking, or at least after a few

thanks

Sorry English ain't my first language and I don't get the bolded part

Yeah the bolded part wasn't really a compliment.

DysregulatedToxicity said:

Serious said:

thanks

Sorry English ain't my first language and I don't get the bolded part

Yeah the bolded part wasn't really a compliment.

I kinda had the impression it might be like that . So what does it mean?

Serious said:

DysregulatedToxicity said:

Yeah the bolded part wasn't really a compliment.

I kinda had the impression it might be like that . So what does it mean?

Would it be "after a few" drinks???

Uhope said:

Serious said:

I kinda had the impression it might be like that . So what does it mean?

Would it be "after a few" drinks???

Thanks Uhope for answering!
That was my first guess "after a few beers", but as the last word was missing (why???) I wasn't sure. I thought it might be a phrase I haven't heard of.
If that's what he was trying to say well then I guess he found that funny, oh well......