What's more important to you? A handsome/pretty face or a hot bod?

I'm dealing with specifics here...you CAN'T say "both".

And you get a if you say "personality" b/c that's just plain bull.

So tell us...would you pick the guy/girl who's a looker but lacking in the shape department or the guy/girl with a slamming body but borderline fugly?

go ahead and fishsmack me. if personality is out then i pass ....

Depends if it's a blow job or not

XxAxX said:

go ahead and fishsmack me. if personality is out then i pass ....

Steadwood said:

Depends if it's a blow job or not

XxAxX said:

go ahead and fishsmack me. if personality is out then i pass ....

Seriously...

...by the time you've determined whether or not someone has a good personality, you've already either been attracted to that person (or not).

Your visual stimulus comes before emotional/mental connection.

So...where do you look FIRST...above or below the neckline?

Face is way more important to me out of these two choices. Its what you look at most when you're with someone, so why would I want to look at a face I don't find attractive just for the great body attached to it. No thanks Even though my man is muscular and lean, I've dated chubbier guys in the past and it was because I was attracted to their face and their personality.

LionsAndTigers said:

Face is way more important to me out of these two choices. Its what you look at most when you're with someone, so why would I want to look at a face I don't find attractive just for the great body attached to it. No thanks Even though my man is muscular and lean, I've dated chubbier guys in the past and it was because I was attracted to their face and their personality.

It depends. If I'm looking at random women on the street, then I look at body first. If I'm on a date with someone then face is more important. An attractive face will last a lot longer than a hot body in a long term relationship.

sextonseven said:

It depends. If I'm looking at random women on the street, then I look at body first. If I'm on a date with someone then face is more important. An attractive face will last a lot longer than a hot body in a long term relationship.

absolutely

PurpleJedi said:

XxAxX said:

go ahead and fishsmack me. if personality is out then i pass ....

Seriously...

...by the time you've determined whether or not someone has a good personality, you've already either been attracted to that person (or not).

Your visual stimulus comes before emotional/mental connection.

So...where do you look FIRST...above or below the neckline?

i really don't know. i think it's more of a 'vibe' thing

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I gotta kiss you, and to do so you must posses a face I wanna kiss.

So I NEED decent teeth, nice lips and eyes I can stare at because when you make love to someone its nice to get lost in a pair of eyes you like looking at.

Now all this is negated if you have a teeny dick. I will not want you if I get all hot and bothered by your good sweet kisses just to not be satisfied in the sack. I will get pissed off and dump you.

And if you are an asshole, I will never want to kiss you no matter how fine you are or if you are hung like a donkey.

paintedlady said:

I gotta kiss you, and to do so you must posses a face I wanna kiss.

So I NEED decent teeth, nice lips and eyes I can stare at because when you make love to someone its nice to get lost in a pair of eyes you like looking at.

Now all this is negated if you have a teeny dick. I will not want you if I get all hot and bothered by your good sweet kisses just to not be satisfied in the sack. I will get pissed off and dump you.

And if you are an asshole, I will never want to kiss you no matter how fine you are or if you are hung like a donkey.

See now...reading the first 4 words made me blush.

Then you went ahead and gave me a complex.

Then you made me laugh out loud.

That's why I love me some Paintedlady.

I gotta kiss you, and to do so you must posses a face I wanna kiss.

So I NEED decent teeth, nice lips and eyes I can stare at because when you make love to someone its nice to get lost in a pair of eyes you like looking at.

Now all this is negated if you have a teeny dick. I will not want you if I get all hot and bothered by your good sweet kisses just to not be satisfied in the sack. I will get pissed off and dump you.

And if you are an asshole, I will never want to kiss you no matter how fine you are or if you are hung like a donkey.

imago said:

I gotta kiss you, and to do so you must posses a face I wanna kiss.

So I NEED decent teeth, nice lips and eyes I can stare at because when you make love to someone its nice to get lost in a pair of eyes you like looking at.

Now all this is negated if you have a teeny dick. I will not want you if I get all hot and bothered by your good sweet kisses just to not be satisfied in the sack. I will get pissed off and dump you.

And if you are an asshole, I will never want to kiss you no matter how fine you are or if you are hung like a donkey.

x 1,000

You're an IDIOT.

PurpleJedi said:

imago said:

I gotta kiss you, and to do so you must posses a face I wanna kiss.

So I NEED decent teeth, nice lips and eyes I can stare at because when you make love to someone its nice to get lost in a pair of eyes you like looking at.

Now all this is negated if you have a teeny dick. I will not want you if I get all hot and bothered by your good sweet kisses just to not be satisfied in the sack. I will get pissed off and dump you.

And if you are an asshole, I will never want to kiss you no matter how fine you are or if you are hung like a donkey.

x 1,000

You're an IDIOT.

I've got a feeling that my first four words made you blush.

imago said:

PurpleJedi said:

x 1,000

You're an IDIOT.

I've got a feeling that my first four words made you blush.

If by "blush" you mean the onset of nausea and hairs on the back of my neck standing on end, then I guess so.

paintedlady said:

Don't encourage him!

Face..........

PurpleJedi said:

imago said:

I've got a feeling that my first four words made you blush.

If by "blush" you mean the onset of nausea and hairs on the back of my neck standing on end, then I guess so.

^

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Depends.

Face. Always face, doesn't matter if it is something casual or serious, he needs to have a really cute face with all the features *I* find attractive. Body just isn't as important.

That said, I can't do extremes either way...and I guess I can't do really short either. I need him to be 5'10 or taller, preferably 6' and up.

But I will always pick a really cute face over everything else.

hot body (not skinny, I don't mind some fat) + a face that I like

an average face for some can be truly appetizing/attractive for others

Pretty much like everybody else. The face.

Neither are "important" to me.

The first thing I notice about a guy usually isn't his body or his face but what he's wearing.

Faces probably attract me to someone before their body but who someone is is far more important. If I find a handsome guy attractive and he turns out to be an ass or stupid or something I don't find him attractive anymore. I can still admit he's handsome, but any attraction will be gone.

Graycap23 said:

Face..........

Has that always been the case for you?

Timmy84 said:

Depends.

...on how much alcohol...?

PurpleJedi said:

Timmy84 said:

Depends.

...on how much alcohol...?

Dude I don't even drink liquor.

But sometimes it's the face, sometimes it's the body. Sometimes I catch myself going face first, body second, ass last.

JustErin said:

Face. Always face, doesn't matter if it is something casual or serious, he needs to have a really cute face with all the features *I* find attractive. Body just isn't as important.

That said, I can't do extremes either way...and I guess I can't do really short either. I need him to be 5'10 or taller, preferably 6' and up.

But I will always pick a really cute face over everything else.

I suppose that height could be considered as separate category, because you could meet someone who posseses your "physical ideal" (big boobs, broad shoulders, strong chin, full lips etc.) that could all be negated by height (too tall, too short).