JoeTyler said:

hot body (not skinny, I don't mind some fat) + a face that I like

an average face for some can be truly appetizing/attractive for others

So Hot Bod is #1 on the list then?

It's more important to me what they do with what they've got. So overall sense of style, clothing, mannerisms and so on is what makes me interested. I'm not usually interested at all in women that are naturally beautiful and think they don't have to pay much attention to what they wear or how they behave. That kind of women actually disturb me quite a bit.

If forced to answer to the original question I'll say "face". I've dated chubby chicks and I'm sort of out of shape myself right now, so there's no point saying "body".

morningsong said:

Pretty much like everybody else. The face.

By "everyone else" I think you mean the other ladies, because I think that women tend to rate face higher while men tend to rate bod.

Let's see how this thread validates or negates that...

CarrieMpls said:

Neither are "important" to me.

The first thing I notice about a guy usually isn't his body or his face but what he's wearing.

Faces probably attract me to someone before their body but who someone is is far more important. If I find a handsome guy attractive and he turns out to be an ass or stupid or something I don't find him attractive anymore. I can still admit he's handsome, but any attraction will be gone.

So what he's wearing - at first blush - trumps face & bod?

...very, very interesting...

Timmy84 said:

PurpleJedi said:

...on how much alcohol...?

Dude I don't even drink liquor.

But sometimes it's the face, sometimes it's the body. Sometimes I catch myself going face first, body second, ass last.

PurpleJedi said:

JoeTyler said:

hot body (not skinny, I don't mind some fat) + a face that I like

an average face for some can be truly appetizing/attractive for others

So Hot Bod is #1 on the list then?

uh... maybe a 60/40 (body/face)

novabrkr said:

It's more important to me what they do with what they've got. So overall sense of style, clothing, mannerisms and so on is what makes me interested. I'm not usually interested at all in women that are naturally beautiful and think they don't have to pay much attention to what they wear or how they behave. That kind of women actually disturb me quite a bit.

If forced to answer to the original question I'll say "face". I've dated chubby chicks and I'm sort of out of shape myself right now, so there's no point saying "body".

So your vote goes toward "look" then...same as CarrieMpls...?

Interesting indeed.

JoeTyler said:

PurpleJedi said:

So Hot Bod is #1 on the list then?

uh... maybe a 60/40 (body/face)

OK, but you would defintely go for a girl with a body that you find really attractive with a face that you find only reasonably attractive...but not vice versa? Right?

Face is definately way more important to me. You can change a person's body, but, short of expensive plastic surgery, the face is pretty much intact. I'm a very affectionate person so I have to be attracted to the face I'm kissing and have to look at everyday.

I've seen guys with bangin' bodies but, from the neck up, they looked like fried monkeys in the face. You can keep that!

Most definitely the body. Hell, the dick is on the body not the face. If a motherfucker has a good body with a sexy dick, you can always put a bag over his head to cover up that ugly ass face.

kitbradley said:

Face is definately way more important to me. You can change a person's body, but, short of expensive plastic surgery, the face is pretty much intact. I'm a very affectionate person so I have to be attracted to the face I'm kissing and have to look at everyday.

I've seen guys with bangin' bodies but, from the neck up, they looked like fried monkeys in the face. You can keep that!

vainandy said:

Most definitely the body. Hell, the dick is on the body not the face. If a motherfucker has a good body with a sexy dick, you can always put a bag over his head to cover up that ugly ass face.

PurpleJedi said:

novabrkr said:

It's more important to me what they do with what they've got. So overall sense of style, clothing, mannerisms and so on is what makes me interested. I'm not usually interested at all in women that are naturally beautiful and think they don't have to pay much attention to what they wear or how they behave. That kind of women actually disturb me quite a bit.

yeah, I feel ya, I exactly know what you mean; a couple of years ago, while at a party, I casually met (friend of the girlfriend of a semi-friend stuff, lol) this kind of "perfect looking/cover of a mazagine" young woman, who was ALSO interesting, hot, vital, charming and full of mannerisms (I even thought she was an struggling actress or something), and I HAD TO leave the party because I was literally falling in love (possibly), the last thing I needed, especially considering that she was engaged...

PurpleJedi said:

JoeTyler said:

uh... maybe a 60/40 (body/face)

OK, but you would defintely go for a girl with a body that you find really attractive with a face that you find only reasonably attractive...but not vice versa? Right?

hmm, in a "if someone pointed a gun to my head" scenario, I'd even choose an extremely hot body with a very average face...

JoeTyler said:

PurpleJedi said:

OK, but you would defintely go for a girl with a body that you find really attractive with a face that you find only reasonably attractive...but not vice versa? Right?

hmm, in a "if someone pointed a gun to my head" scenario, I'd even choose an extremely hot body with a very average face...

...and by "someone" you mean yourself after a long dry spell of course.

PurpleJedi said:

JoeTyler said:

hmm, in a "if someone pointed a gun to my head" scenario, I'd even choose an extremely hot body with a very average face...

...and by "someone" you mean yourself after a long dry spell of course.

yep, because more often than not, I find myself staring at female tits, legs, ass, etc, and THEn the face, which leads to two options "damn and she's pretty too!" or "ehhhh, ok, but those legssssss, that asssssss"

JoeTyler said:

PurpleJedi said:

...and by "someone" you mean yourself after a long dry spell of course.

yep, because more often than not, I find myself staring at female tits, legs, ass, etc, and THEn the face, which leads to two options "damn and she's pretty too!" or "ehhhh, ok, but those legssssss, that asssssss"

You too?

JustErin said:

Face. Always face, doesn't matter if it is something casual or serious, he needs to have a really cute face with all the features *I* find attractive. Body just isn't as important.

That said, I can't do extremes either way...and I guess I can't do really short either. I need him to be 5'10 or taller, preferably 6' and up.

But I will always pick a really cute face over everything else.

This sums up my take.

Timmy84 said:

JoeTyler said:

yep, because more often than not, I find myself staring at female tits, legs, ass, etc, and THEn the face, which leads to two options "damn and she's pretty too!" or "ehhhh, ok, but those legssssss, that asssssss"

You too?

!

also, I wanted to say this, to everybody: the older we get, the messier the face gets, but a body can be still COMPLETELY hot even when you're +60 years old, with the proper diet/exercise

my opinion, of course, since I don't like blatantly obvious "plastic surgery faces"

face

PurpleJedi said:

CarrieMpls said:

Neither are "important" to me.

The first thing I notice about a guy usually isn't his body or his face but what he's wearing.

Faces probably attract me to someone before their body but who someone is is far more important. If I find a handsome guy attractive and he turns out to be an ass or stupid or something I don't find him attractive anymore. I can still admit he's handsome, but any attraction will be gone.

So what he's wearing - at first blush - trumps face & bod?

...very, very interesting...

Totally. The overall "look" (as you put it) and sense of style is what will get my attention.

btw - It all goes the other way too. I could NOT find someone attractive by looks alone and later become TOTALLY attracted to them after getting to know them based on personality, smarts, all that. Looks are only a small part of attraction for me.

I need a Combo!!!! Nobody wants a Fugly...besides I workout to hard to settle for less.

jaimestarr79 said:

I need a Combo!!!! Nobody wants a Fugly...besides I workout to hard to settle for less.

Put it this way...you look at the ass or the eyes FIRST?

JoeTyler said:

also, I wanted to say this, to everybody: the older we get, the messier the face gets, but a body can be still COMPLETELY hot even when you're +60 years old, with the proper diet/exercise

my opinion, of course, since I don't like blatantly obvious "plastic surgery faces"

I disagree. A hot 60+ year-old body will never look as good as a hot 30+ year-old body. Sure a body can look great at 60+ years with proper diet and excersise, but how many people maintain that at age 60 really? More often than not, people let their bodies go a bit after a few years of marriage and kids when they feel comfortable in relationships.

I have dated the superman body with a donkey face AND the Rafael Verga face with a John Belushi body.

I guess it just depends on what I want. If I'm going to ride it but not buy it, i'll go for the body everytime

(taking personality etc into consideration).

If I'm playing for keeps or looking for something serious, I tend to put more on the face. Eyes and

teeth need to be on the A team.

LadyCasanova said:

I have dated the superman body with a donkey face AND the Rafael Verga face with a John Belushi body.

I guess it just depends on what I want. If I'm going to ride it but not buy it, i'll go for the body everytime

(taking personality etc into consideration).

If I'm playing for keeps or looking for something serious, I tend to put more on the face. Eyes and

teeth need to be on the A team.

So basically when you want purely physical gratification (which is typically a guy thing to do) then bod rates...but when you want something substantial (which is typically a female thing) then face rates.

PurpleJedi said:

LadyCasanova said:

I have dated the superman body with a donkey face AND the Rafael Verga face with a John Belushi body.

I guess it just depends on what I want. If I'm going to ride it but not buy it, i'll go for the body everytime

(taking personality etc into consideration).

If I'm playing for keeps or looking for something serious, I tend to put more on the face. Eyes and

teeth need to be on the A team.

So basically when you want purely physical gratification (which is typically a guy thing to do) then bod rates...but when you want something substantial (which is typically a female thing) then face rates.

I just know that if I need to get rid of your face I can just turn off the lights or hold a pillow over

it and still enjoy the feeling of your body. Not so much for a jacked body.

The face thing is that if your going to annoy me long term I need to be able to day dream about

your face being smothered between my legs without drying up like the Atacama Desert.

I love every woman for her own personal strengths, and hate them all equally for their weaknesses.

Mostly I let them know about the weaknesses. I think that is more helpful.

NDRU said:

I love every woman for her own personal strengths, and hate them all equally for their weaknesses.

Mostly I let them know about the weaknesses. I think that is more helpful.

You're a mess!

LadyCasanova said:

PurpleJedi said:

So basically when you want purely physical gratification (which is typically a guy thing to do) then bod rates...but when you want something substantial (which is typically a female thing) then face rates.

I just know that if I need to get rid of your face I can just turn off the lights or hold a pillow over

it and still enjoy the feeling of your body. Not so much for a jacked body.

The face thing is that if your going to annoy me long term I need to be able to day dream about

your face being smothered between my legs without drying up like the Atacama Desert.

Oh I see...I can read between the lines you know.

Ugly dude with a nice bod gets the mask.

Good-looking dude with OK bod gets to eat you out.

So since I've neither, do I get the whole body suit?