KingBAD said:

heartbeatocean said:

I hope it will be when either I or he show unkindness toward each other.

that would be ncie, huh?

I didn't phrase that well. It doesn't even make sense.

heartbeatocean said:

KingBAD said:

that would be ncie, huh?

I didn't phrase that well. It doesn't even make sense.

no. it was qwite obvious whut you meant

and it absolutely right, when we can be civil

we should be done. things would

go so well if it really was like that. BUT

sometime we hold out in the hopes that the other

will somehow come to their senses and

see the error of their ways and life will be as

good as we thought it would be from the beginnin

HOWEVER,

we have to learn that holdin on to crap is our EGOs

wantin to let us know that WE CANNOT BE WRONG!!!

i find my ego need not hold me in a thing that just

isn't a thing to be in...

KingBAD said:

I think I'm too old for games. My goal is to treat each situation with kindness, without exerting control. And to be treated as such as well. Don't know if I'll ever find a situation that sticks, keeping this intention in mind. But I'd rather have nothing than something that devolves into manipulation and unkindness.

heartbeatocean said:

KingBAD said:

no. it was qwite obvious whut you meant

and it absolutely right, when we can be civil

we should be done. things would

go so well if it really was like that. BUT

sometime we hold out in the hopes that the other

will somehow come to their senses and

see the error of their ways and life will be as

good as we thought it would be from the beginnin

HOWEVER,

we have to learn that holdin on to crap is our EGOs

wantin to let us know that WE CANNOT BE WRONG!!!

i find my ego need not hold me in a thing that just

isn't a thing to be in...

I think I'm too old for games. My goal is to treat each situation with kindness, without exerting control. And to be treated as such as well. Don't know if I'll ever find a situation that sticks, keeping this intention in mind. But I'd rather have nothing than something that devolves into manipulation and unkindness.

after almost two years, i'm about willin to do some meaningless sex, but then that interferes

with findin a propper relationship...

JustErin said:

My relationships never ever end....EVER.

yeah, the communication may end, but the feelings never end.

NDRU said:

JustErin said:

My relationships never ever end....EVER.

yeah, the communication may end, but the feelings never end.

dude,

that's not whut she was sayin...

be afraid, BE VERY AFRAID!!!

KingBAD said:

in my effort to be a better human bein

my last relationship ended when i told her "SHUT THE FUCK UP!!!"

now that may seem nothin to some people,

but in a relationship that is HEALTHY, this is

not acceptable behavior and esspeacially

where i am concerned...

for me it just digresses from there.

shut the fuck up

shut the fuck up bitch

bitch shut the fuck up

bitch whut are you doin

yo ho whut the fuck

and by this time: i'm smokin weed

hangin at clubs, sellin dope,

and just bein even more of an

asshole than i am right now.

i said this to say that NOW in my life

i don't let things get to such extremes

if it's not healthy in the first 90 days

it's not gonna get healthy and i think

that's where people get into a trap

thinkin "it'll get better, we just need to

get to know one another" BULLSHIT

if it's not right, it may never get right.

NDRU said:

JustErin said:

My relationships never ever end....EVER.

yeah, the communication may end, but the feelings never end.

Exactly, but in my case I am still on really good terms with my exes. We stay in touch, we just are no longer together as a couple.

JustErin said:

NDRU said:

yeah, the communication may end, but the feelings never end.

Exactly, but in my case I am still on really good terms with my exes. We stay in touch, we just are no longer together as a couple.

With all of them, or just some/most?

Next question; have you ever been wronged by any of them to the point of causing the breakup?

PurpleJedi said:

JustErin said:

Exactly, but in my case I am still on really good terms with my exes. We stay in touch, we just are no longer together as a couple.

With all of them, or just some/most?

Next question; have you ever been wronged by any of them to the point of causing the breakup?

All but one, my son's father...and that's just because he is running from paying his child support.

You can say I was "wronged" by all of them.

A couple of relationships ended really painfully but after some time totally apart, we reconnected and can be considered good friends now.

If I really care about someone, I will always care for them. Shit happens, I can get over it with time.

JustErin said:

PurpleJedi said:

With all of them, or just some/most?

Next question; have you ever been wronged by any of them to the point of causing the breakup?

All but one, my son's father...and that's just because he is running from paying his child support.

You can say I was "wronged" by all of them.

A couple of relationships ended really painfully but after some time totally apart, we reconnected and can be considered good friends now.

If I really care about someone, I will always care for them. Shit happens, I can get over it with time.