JustErin said:

I guess that would Halifax...which is still pretty damn small. I need to stop dreaming about being rescued from this place and just get the hell out of here.

There it is.

How are the job prospects in Halifax ?

JustErin said:

I havent looked. If I move, Im going back to Ontario in the fall. But in the meantime, I need some lovin!

Can't you just er, uh, "date" someone from Halifax or another large city until then? Someone who has more in common with you.

I guess the question after that would the be how to cast your net as it were, and not accidentally trip over sleaze bags. Hmmm, this is not an easy one to figure out.

Is rich dude out of the picture? I haven't been keeping up with all the threads, and that was the last dude I remembering you mentioning, after maybe military (?) dude

I know there's gotta be a man with some kinda mojo out there somewhere to keep you busy until your next big move. Where, I don't know - but he's got to be there

My question is... And i mean no disrespect Erin, Why MUST you have a man... you keep goin through all these losers who dont seem to be giving you what you want, and you are always miserable...

I say be happy with yourself for a bit, then add a man in the picture, because if you accept anything else right now you will just be settling cuz you dont like to be alone..

If its sex you need, well, there always an escort.. Im not trying to be funny, if thats all you want with no ties thats the only option I can think of...

And i feel I can say the guys you pick are not good canidates for relationships... And i feel I can say that cuz of that whole bad boy thread..

We know you LOATHE the men in goatees... But thats just the outside, it can be changed... Im guessing its the country boy on the inside you dont like... But, I say give one a try... What is it gonna hurt? And you may find out they can be just as freaky as the others!

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tinaz said:

My question is... And i mean no disrespect Erin, Why MUST you have a man... you keep goin through all these losers who dont seem to be giving you what you want, and you are always miserable...

I say be happy with yourself for a bit, then add a man in the picture, because if you accept anything else right now you will just be settling cuz you dont like to be alone..

If its sex you need, well, there always an escort.. Im not trying to be funny, if thats all you want with no ties thats the only option I can think of...

I get weirded out by the concept of escorts, but I can imagine how it might just be a matter of practicality for some women. The thing is, I have always assumed that girls might want a little extra than just a roll in the hay, even if it's just by way of post coital cuddling. Not to sound totally clueless, but escorts don't do that (or so I thought) in the West.

I know in Japan though, I saw that this kind of service is normal for career girls who are either too busy or too isolated to cement relationships. The male escorts are really paid to play knight in shining armor first, then the sex comes later. Oddly enough everyone is able to keep their emotions in check and keep everything separated. I have no idea how, but somehow they manage it Truthfully though, I thought Erin might be more after the casual sort of relationship, not going for the real hardcore relationship scenario- but more a "friend with benefits" type of thing.

JustErin said:

Tinaz, I had not been in a relationship for over 6 years until last year. I don't need to be with a man...but I now want to be with one both in the physical and emotional sense. I was very content with my last arrangement with someone until I moved...then I met someone I fell for (something that had not happened in like a decade) and realized that I don't just a want physical relationship. I want it all. But right now, for now I just want a distraction.

Oh, ok... I see! I totally understand now!! I hope you find him soon.

Ottensen said:

tinaz said:

My question is... And i mean no disrespect Erin, Why MUST you have a man... you keep goin through all these losers who dont seem to be giving you what you want, and you are always miserable...

I say be happy with yourself for a bit, then add a man in the picture, because if you accept anything else right now you will just be settling cuz you dont like to be alone..

If its sex you need, well, there always an escort.. Im not trying to be funny, if thats all you want with no ties thats the only option I can think of...

I get weirded out by the concept of escorts, but I can imagine how it might just be a matter of practicality for some women. The thing is, I have always assumed that girls might want a little extra than just a roll in the hay, even if it's just by way of post coital cuddling. Not to sound totally clueless, but escorts don't do that (or so I thought) in the West.

I know in Japan though, I saw that this kind of service is normal for career girls who are either too busy or too isolated to cement relationships. The male escorts are really paid to play knight in shining armor first, then the sex comes later. Oddly enough everyone is able to keep their emotions in check and keep everything separated. I have no idea how, but somehow they manage it Truthfully though, I thought Erin might be more after the casual sort of relationship, not going for the real hardcore relationship scenario- but more a "friend with benefits" type of thing.

I myself just cant see how the FWB thing works... "usually" someone always falls for the other.. I say "usually"... Ive just never done that with a friend so idk how it works really...

But i think if one could keep their emotions in check in a FWB relationship, they wouldnt have a prob with falling for their escort?

I dont really know what the escorts do over here.. Really, I dont!

But seriously, I always thought you could pay them to accompany you to a function, then screw their brains out back at the motel.. Or is that just in the movies??

JustErin said:

I do not need to use escorts for sex.

What id he looks like David Beckham...

tinaz said:

JustErin said:

tinaz said:

What id he looks like David Beckham...

Around here???? Not gonna happen.

tinaz said:

Ottensen said:

I get weirded out by the concept of escorts, but I can imagine how it might just be a matter of practicality for some women. The thing is, I have always assumed that girls might want a little extra than just a roll in the hay, even if it's just by way of post coital cuddling. Not to sound totally clueless, but escorts don't do that (or so I thought) in the West.

I know in Japan though, I saw that this kind of service is normal for career girls who are either too busy or too isolated to cement relationships. The male escorts are really paid to play knight in shining armor first, then the sex comes later. Oddly enough everyone is able to keep their emotions in check and keep everything separated. I have no idea how, but somehow they manage it Truthfully though, I thought Erin might be more after the casual sort of relationship, not going for the real hardcore relationship scenario- but more a "friend with benefits" type of thing.

I myself just cant see how the FWB thing works... "usually" someone always falls for the other.. I say "usually"... Ive just never done that with a friend so idk how it works really...

But i think if one could keep their emotions in check in a FWB relationship, they wouldnt have a prob with falling for their escort?

I dont really know what the escorts do over here.. Really, I dont!

But seriously, I always thought you could pay them to accompany you to a function, then screw their brains out back at the motel.. Or is that just in the movies??

I don't know how the FWB thing works either, but I do believe that most women start catching feelings at some point or another.

..as for the escort thing, don't ask me, Girlie- because it sounds like I've been watching the same movies as you have

Ottensen said:

tinaz said:

I myself just cant see how the FWB thing works... "usually" someone always falls for the other.. I say "usually"... Ive just never done that with a friend so idk how it works really...

But i think if one could keep their emotions in check in a FWB relationship, they wouldnt have a prob with falling for their escort?

I dont really know what the escorts do over here.. Really, I dont!

But seriously, I always thought you could pay them to accompany you to a function, then screw their brains out back at the motel.. Or is that just in the movies??

I don't know how the FWB thing works either, but I do believe that most women start catching feelings at some point or another.

..as for the escort thing, don't ask me, Girlie- because it sounds like I've been watching the same movies as you have

[Edited 2/23/12 13:19pm]

tinaz said:

JustErin said:

I do not need to use escorts for sex.

What id he looks like David Beckham...

If only I thought they all usually look kinda sleazy! When I was in my teens working a summer job at the mall, I remember one of the young guys at the men's suits store letting it slip over lunch that he was love-for-hire. He was so proud of himself as he decided to detail his exploits, meanwhile as I was chomping on my Chick-fil-A, while he was trying so hard to come off as a Smooth Operator alls I could see across from me was somebody who looked like a broke-ass Morris Day

Ottensen said:

tinaz said:

What id he looks like David Beckham...

If only I thought they all usually look kinda sleazy! When I was in my teens working a summer job at the mall, I remember one of the young guys at the men's suits store letting it slip over lunch that he was love-for-hire. He was so proud of himself as he decided to detail his exploits, meanwhile as I was chomping on my Chick-fil-A, while he was trying so hard to come off as a Smooth Operator alls I could see across from me was somebody who looked like a broke-ass Morris Day

HAHA!!!!

Wow... thats kind of dissapointing actually and I have no idea why!! In MY fantasy, they all look like George Michael and Simon LeBon!!!!

tinaz said:

Ottensen said:

If only I thought they all usually look kinda sleazy! When I was in my teens working a summer job at the mall, I remember one of the young guys at the men's suits store letting it slip over lunch that he was love-for-hire. He was so proud of himself as he decided to detail his exploits, meanwhile as I was chomping on my Chick-fil-A, while he was trying so hard to come off as a Smooth Operator alls I could see across from me was somebody who looked like a broke-ass Morris Day

HAHA!!!!

Wow... thats kind of dissapointing actually and I have no idea why!! In MY fantasy, they all look like George Michael and Simon LeBon!!!!

remember the Richard Gere movie American Gigolo? I guess they can look like whatever tickles a girl's fancy, but the fantasy version has to be like the character in that film with the smoothness and whatnot

Ottensen said:

tinaz said:

HAHA!!!!

Wow... thats kind of dissapointing actually and I have no idea why!! In MY fantasy, they all look like George Michael and Simon LeBon!!!!

remember the Richard Gere movie American Gigolo? I guess they can look like whatever tickles a girl's fancy, but the fantasy version has to be like the character in that film with the smoothness and whatnot

yesss!

yeah, MUST be smooooth! Morris Day is good looking, but broke ass isnt part of my fantasy!!

[Edited 2/23/12 14:03pm]

Ottensen said:

tinaz said:

I myself just cant see how the FWB thing works... "usually" someone always falls for the other.. I say "usually"... Ive just never done that with a friend so idk how it works really...

But i think if one could keep their emotions in check in a FWB relationship, they wouldnt have a prob with falling for their escort?

I dont really know what the escorts do over here.. Really, I dont!

But seriously, I always thought you could pay them to accompany you to a function, then screw their brains out back at the motel.. Or is that just in the movies??

I don't know how the FWB thing works either, but I do believe that most women start catching feelings at some point or another.

..as for the escort thing, don't ask me, Girlie- because it sounds like I've been watching the same movies as you have

Escorts do exist and, actually, it is quite common that they get paid to simply spend time with women. Some escorts just escort them to art shows or simply have dinner with them. It ranges to escorts to sell their body and soul to women for a whole week-end.

It doesn't happen daily (and the world isn't full of escorts ), but if you know the "business" and know where to look, you will find that it really is not too uncommon. It's a bloody tough business, though.

I can guarantee that no male escorts are in this region...and if there were...they would have a goatee.

JustErin said:

I can guarantee that no male escorts are in this region...and if there were...they would have a goatee.

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JustErin said:

I can guarantee that no male escorts are in this region...and if there were...they would have a goatee.

There are high-class, international escorts. But I don't think you're rich enough to afford them... You will basically pay for their flight and provide (or pay for) acommodation and additionally have to pay about 500€/day, depending on what the deal looks like and what exactly it includes.

By the way I'm free next weekend.

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I AM NOT PAYING FOR SEX.

JustErin said:

I AM NOT PAYING FOR SEX.

You can thank me later..

http://www.canadianknight...rt-canada/

JustErin said:

I AM NOT PAYING FOR SEX.

Of course you aren't!!

This thread just ended up depressing me.

I thought rebound relationships were something you'd get into unintentionally by overcompensating for what was lacking in the previous relationship, and that you wouldn't realize that they were rebound relationships until they'd ended. But I suppose you could do it intentionally. Seems a bit like a dead-end prospect though.

retina said:

I thought rebound relationships were something you'd get into unintentionally by overcompensating for what was lacking in the previous relationship, and that you wouldn't realize that they were rebound relationships until they'd ended. But I suppose you could do it intentionally. Seems a bit like a dead-end prospect though.

Maybe, I wasn't sure.

But I thought the point is that it's dead-end, and that it's just an aid in helping you get over your ex so you can then move on to someone that you can give your all to.