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Thread started 09/29/11 6:24am

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October is Domestic Violence Awareness month...

I'm doing a fundraiser for our local womens shelter. I don't want to plug my website on the org, but if you're interested in hearing how you can help, please PM me. I have a hefty goal.

Thanks guys.

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Reply #1 posted 09/29/11 7:06am

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Reply #3 posted 09/29/11 8:32am

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MacDaddy said:

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Thanks for the bump???

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Reply #4 posted 09/29/11 9:41am

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I'm asking this cuz I virtually have no idea:

is domestic violence out of control in the US (like in some european countries, where every year 80-100 women are killed)???

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JoeTyler said:

I'm asking this cuz I virtually have no idea:

is domestic violence out of control in the US (like in some european countries, where every year 80-100 women are killed)???

The stats in the US are 3 women are killed a day as a result of domestic violence. sad

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Reply #6 posted 09/29/11 9:54am

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This is a great cause. All the best Dani rose

Hope you don't mind me posting this video here. It was used to raise awareness here in the UK recently.

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Reply #7 posted 09/29/11 9:55am

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TotalANXiousNESS said:

JoeTyler said:

I'm asking this cuz I virtually have no idea:

is domestic violence out of control in the US (like in some european countries, where every year 80-100 women are killed)???

The stats in the US are 3 women are killed a day as a result of domestic violence. sad

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21? every week??

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Reply #8 posted 09/29/11 10:05am

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I swear orgers have some of the biggest hearts!

Thank You to Lisa10 and MacDaddy!! mushy

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Reply #9 posted 09/29/11 10:09am

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JoeTyler said:

TotalANXiousNESS said:

The stats in the US are 3 women are killed a day as a result of domestic violence. sad

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21? every week??

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Thats what it says for the year 2010 yes. I think for the stats they go off of women who are killed by an intimate partner. This is a HUGE burden in our immediate area. The women at the shelter who volunteer/work put their LIVES into helping the women/(some men) and their children here. There was an incident here just last year where a woman got a PFA against her husband and he walked right into the grocery store where she worked, the very next day, and shot her in the face and killed her. Right where I shop. PFA'S are a piece of PAPER, not a bullet proof vest or life insurance policy. Domestic Violence is a hard thing to escape!!

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Whats it all worth only the heart can measure
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Reply #10 posted 09/29/11 10:16am

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TotalANXiousNESS said:

JoeTyler said:

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21? every week??

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Thats what it says for the year 2010 yes. I think for the stats they go off of women who are killed by an intimate partner. This is a HUGE burden in our immediate area. The women at the shelter who volunteer/work put their LIVES into helping the women/(some men) and their children here. There was an incident here just last year where a woman got a PFA against her husband and he walked right into the grocery store where she worked, the very next day, and shot her in the face and killed her. Right where I shop. PFA'S are a piece of PAPER, not a bullet proof vest or life insurance policy. Domestic Violence is a hard thing to escape!!

certainly worse than I thought...

pray

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Lisa10 said:

This is a great cause. All the best Dani rose

Hope you don't mind me posting this video here. It was used to raise awareness here in the UK recently.

That gave me chills. Thank You Lisa. hug

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TotalANXiousNESS said:

JoeTyler said:

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21? every week??

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Thats what it says for the year 2010 yes. I think for the stats they go off of women who are killed by an intimate partner. This is a HUGE burden in our immediate area. The women at the shelter who volunteer/work put their LIVES into helping the women/(some men) and their children here. There was an incident here just last year where a woman got a PFA against her husband and he walked right into the grocery store where she worked, the very next day, and shot her in the face and killed her. Right where I shop. PFA'S are a piece of PAPER, not a bullet proof vest or life insurance policy. Domestic Violence is a hard thing to escape!!

Horrible sad

But I think the figures are the same if you see it globally unfortunally.

Thank you for bringing this to our attention Dani and thank you for doing what you can rose

(sorry for the bad spelling)

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Reply #14 posted 09/29/11 4:48pm

dJJ

Great work!

I have a few books that I want to bring attention to. The books are a good read for insight into how these kind of relationships work, for both ends.

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dJJ said:

Great work!

I have a few books that I want to bring attention to. The books are a good read for insight into how these kind of relationships work, for both ends.

Thanks!

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good luck with reaching your goal and raising awareness rose

Always remember you're unique, just like everyone else.
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FuzzyWitch said:

good luck with reaching your goal and raising awareness rose

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Reply #18 posted 10/01/11 1:06pm

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Women should watch whom they marry nowadays, and this type of awareness should be all year round. Otherwise, good cause.

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Thanks for the sticky!!!!!

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Reply #20 posted 10/06/11 8:22am

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I'm glad to hear you're doing this smile I also believe both men and women should be educated about domestic violence and early signs.

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I just read on my ymail the case of Cassie Brittle in England (I take it). She was a 21 year old mother with a beautiful smile who was beaten to death infront of her 2 year old daughter. She called authorities 11 times. It sounds like she often called and then said "no, I have changed my mind' which is common for these victims. In the states the police have to enquire anyway because they now know that this is basically because the abused is being threatened right then and there.

Her abuser was also the father of the baby and he will get 20 years. Some of the officers involved in not pursuing the validity of the calls had some sort of warning or write up. The abuser was known to the police department outside of his relationship with Ms Brittle for his abusive behavior.

This is all too sad.

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Reply #22 posted 10/18/11 3:38pm

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:*( I wish the police did something to help her, and especially if involved more than once, referred her to child welfare or a women's shelter, cause a child living in that abusive environment can sometimes lead to child apprehension if the woman doesn't leave.

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alphastreet said:

:*( I wish the police did something to help her, and especially if involved more than once, referred her to child welfare or a women's shelter, cause a child living in that abusive environment can sometimes lead to child apprehension if the woman doesn't leave.

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I absolutely believe a child should always be removed. They talked about the emotional scars that that little child will most likely face in the future.

There came a time when the risk of remaining tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. Anais Nin.
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Reply #24 posted 10/18/11 5:55pm

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The reason many women end up at shelters even though going to one is voluntary is because if child welfare gets involved after the police places a call, they are told to leave and seek a safe space, or child apprehension will take place. The mothers are dealing with learned helplessness , and feel staying with their partner is for the children, but without realizing that it's very harmful keeping their child in that environment by exposing them to that behaviour. Leaving can be very scary too, especially if the partner is making threats about what will happen if she tells anyone, or uses her weakness, the children to keep her around, so it's important to have all the supports needed during the transition period.

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alphastreet said:

The reason many women end up at shelters even though going to one is voluntary is because if child welfare gets involved after the police places a call, they are told to leave and seek a safe space, or child apprehension will take place. The mothers are dealing with learned helplessness , and feel staying with their partner is for the children, but without realizing that it's very harmful keeping their child in that environment by exposing them to that behaviour. Leaving can be very scary too, especially if the partner is making threats about what will happen if she tells anyone, or uses her weakness, the children to keep her around, so it's important to have all the supports needed during the transition period.

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I layed down with love and I woke up with lies
Whats it all worth only the heart can measure
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Reply #26 posted 10/27/11 10:34pm

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Leaving is also the hard part, cause it could lead to worse problems too if he find her, and in some cases, put her at risk even more if he convinces her to return.

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Reply #27 posted 10/31/11 11:35am

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On September 10, 2004 I posted the following article:

Domestic Abuse....A Survivor's story

http://www.prince.org/msg/100/114206

THIS exclaim CHANGED exclaim MY exclaim LIFE exclaim

In the next 5 years there would be many changes; forgiving my ex, growing into my gifts, the death of my cousin Lisa (from an assault by her boyfriend) and entering a Masters Program in Spiritual Psychology.

Remembrances of Lisa, and all the lessons I learned through the experience:

A Year of Healing

http://www.prince.org/msg/100/220882

A Beautiful world I'm trying to find.

http://prince.org/msg/100/264513

Portal: The Garden that Grew from Hell

http://prince.org/msg/8/283996

Rags to Richard

http://prince.org/msg/8/325740

My heart and my love to all survivors and to all who are experiencing this very painful path. My heart and my love to the victimizers; they are the other side of the same coin. There could be no victimizers without victims. Love to all the children watching these experiences unfold and peace to all concerned for the highest good.

heart

2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740
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Reply #28 posted 11/01/11 10:17am

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it seems like your site is a non profit, probably? i don't see the harm in plugging it.

i'm involved with the great gals at www.unfollowcharlie.com

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