Name everything that goes through your head ....

Someone clearly pissed me off by being manipulative , just starting an irrelevant argument . I'm ready to do some damage ... I guess you can say I'm venting right now to prevent that from happening .

I begin a process of slowly, methodically, completely eradicating that person from my life because I have no time for people who act like that.

Militant said:

I begin a process of slowly, methodically, completely eradicating that person from my life because I have no time for people who act like that.

Especially when it's people who don't bring anything positive to my life. But for me, it's not a slow process, it's pretty instantaneous from when I make the conscious decision that I'm done with their asses. I have ZERO problem eradicating someone from my life and mind, it's truly like they don't exist anymore. Yeah, I know it's a skill.

Stupid bitch!

This phase always comes to my mind when i get angry.

Are you at work? If so, randomly staple something to their forehead. It will TOTALLY make you feel better.

"I'm gonna cut this bitch."

Eye tend 2 get them alone put a balaclava over my face and go 2 town with a hockey stick.... Its the only way realy...

At times, I just shrug and go do some other shit without many words. Indifference can work wonders.

Sometimes you just gotta make some people feel dumb though. Keep them humble.

When some1 intentionally pisses me off........Ive learnt 2 simply Log Off.......

Giselle said:

Name everything that goes through your head ....

I reflect on how sad & miserable their life must be, then keep it moving.

I literally think of 'the worst things I could do to them , but in reality , I know that wouldn't make things any better .

just give them the cold shoulder. it'll piss them off a 100 times more than you actually giving them what they want by entertaining their BS.

I wish I could just cut ppl out of my life like that, but I end up giving them the benefit of the doubt and second (third, fourth and fifth) chances. I know I've got faults so I'm keen not to get too trumped up and critical of others, expecting apologies or presuming ppl should, as I see it, change their ways, but sometimes when someone's just plainly a negative influence on my life I should be a little more ruthless, I think.

People that treat me in ways that are just unacceptable , I wont tolerate it & they expect you to chase after them ....ughm Negative .

I have a Baby Jesus given right to kill them on the spot.

I had to cut people off who I thought were freinds in the past.

You will know when there is always a snide comment made at your expense when ever possible.

If they laugh about your little mishaps happily and always seem suspicious of any choices you make without their input.

This is when I begin to pull away, because I rather be alone than have a miserable person around me dragging me down.

Be careful of depressed friends that try to shit on you because they have a hard time seeing any positivity in their own lives. Mutual respect is key to any healthy relationship.

purplemonster04 said:

"I'm gonna cut this bitch."

I always read what you put and have to remind myself that your a young lady cuz your posts always make you seem older than what u are!

But yeah......separating someone's skin is a good facilitation of catharcism.

SexLovely said:

purplemonster04 said:

"I'm gonna cut this bitch."

I always read what you put and have to remind myself that your a young lady cuz your posts always make you seem older than what u are!

But yeah......separating someone's skin is a good facilitation of catharcism.

Very easy 2 say"im gonna cut this bitch"............unless uve done it felt the punctured skin as the blade goes in....then the groan of pain and the persons face as they go in2 shock....purplemonster would never do such a thing!!!!

I have a "friend" who has owed me a fair bit of money for over a year and since when has stalled and delayed and dodged and lied to me so that he has avoided payment.

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Now I am a fairly reasonable, passive and patient guy but I feel uncomfortable within myself to having violent thoughts about driving this insulting fuck's face into the ground and breaking his arm behind his back until im happy he'll pay or I have got my moneys worth.

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Now I have moved away from him I couldnt even get the money from him even if he were willing to pay it, I would suggest him wiring it into my account, but i can guarantee another bullshit story will ensue about why that isnt an option.

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This wouldnt be a problem for me if it wasnt for the fact Im a poor student and he works fulltime and lives with his grandparents, meaning he probably isnt paying much rent if any.....plus he used to a good friend and it hurts that I want to smash his nose in so bad.

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Thank God for the law i suppose if not the damage I would ve done to him by now out of anger would have cost me much more than the amount that is owed.

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The cunt.

Pray 4 paradise.....

davetherave6767 said:

SexLovely said:

I always read what you put and have to remind myself that your a young lady cuz your posts always make you seem older than what u are!

But yeah......separating someone's skin is a good facilitation of catharcism.

Very easy 2 say"im gonna cut this bitch"............unless uve done it felt the punctured skin as the blade goes in....then the groan of pain and the persons face as they go in2 shock....purplemonster would never do such a thing!!!!

Fuck! I hope not!! That would mess anyone up.

... thats when I start saying in my head, "maybe I have to staple you to the ceiling while you scream for your life, for you to finally get it." Then I try to calm down, but depending on who it is.... I might start plotting.. then I'll stop myself!

Has anyone ever met someone who you still can't figure out if they are intentionally pissing you off or not and it is the same person over and over again? Like maybe there is a passive aggressive thing going on here?

Deadflow3r said:

Has anyone ever met someone who you still can't figure out if they are intentionally pissing you off or not and it is the same person over and over again? Like maybe there is a passive aggressive thing going on here?

Yeah , I understand . Sometimes , it's hard to take what they said seriously or not .

davetherave6767 said:

SexLovely said:

I always read what you put and have to remind myself that your a young lady cuz your posts always make you seem older than what u are!

But yeah......separating someone's skin is a good facilitation of catharcism.

Very easy 2 say"im gonna cut this bitch"............unless uve done it felt the punctured skin as the blade goes in....then the groan of pain and the persons face as they go in2 shock....purplemonster would never do such a thing!!!!

Haha SexLovely is that a good or bad thing?

Dave, no I wouldn't.

SCNDLS said:

Militant said:

I begin a process of slowly, methodically, completely eradicating that person from my life because I have no time for people who act like that.

Especially when it's people who don't bring anything positive to my life. But for me, it's not a slow process, it's pretty instantaneous from when I make the conscious decision that I'm done with their asses. I have ZERO problem eradicating someone from my life and mind, it's truly like they don't exist anymore. Yeah, I know it's a skill.

Pretty much of what goes through my brain as well. I find that my life is much better anyway after I've determined that the person no longer deserves to be in my life, or deserves my time, or energy and I've decided to cut them out of my life. Who has time to deal with insincere people who have an agenda and thrive on drama? I don't. They can kick rocks.

paintedlady said:

I had to cut people off who I thought were freinds in the past.

You will know when there is always a snide comment made at your expense when ever possible.

If they laugh about your little mishaps happily and always seem suspicious of any choices you make without their input.

This is when I begin to pull away, because I rather be alone than have a miserable person around me dragging me down.

Be careful of depressed friends that try to shit on you because they have a hard time seeing any positivity in their own lives. Mutual respect is key to any healthy relationship.

I think that maybe some kind orger that comes to Spain could do him/her harm anonymously. Orgnote me if interested. I'd gladly reward. I'd do it myself if that wouldn't get me to prison...

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paintedlady said:

I had to cut people off who I thought were freinds in the past.

You will know when there is always a snide comment made at your expense when ever possible.

If they laugh about your little mishaps happily and always seem suspicious of any choices you make without their input.

This is when I begin to pull away, because I rather be alone than have a miserable person around me dragging me down.

Be careful of depressed friends that try to shit on you because they have a hard time seeing any positivity in their own lives. Mutual respect is key to any healthy relationship.

you said it the best,

I had a person who was my best friend, but she would intentionally do things to hurt me,

she was spiteful and would go hang withmy enemies, tell my friends things that would start crap amongst us, tell me things that she knew would hurt me because I already told her... so I backed off of her and although she may still have stolen my friends, I made some new ones worth keeping lol. I learned that I can't deal with people who are jealous or depressed, just because you want to enjoy your life. I get depressed but I isolate myself from my friends so I won't be a burden or anything. Bottom line, walking away saves the pain and anger, the constant anger that they know they caused, I'm free now, have been for about a year!

last time that mess happened, my friend Chris tried to talk shit about my masculinity...even though he sleeps with me from time to time on the downlow. I turned right around to him in front of everybody and said "I try my damn-dest to keep everybodys secrets hidden and now somebody has good nerve to talk shit about me..." and just looked at him....he didnt SAY SHIT but look sideways and smile..everybody in the room just started on another subject hahaha.