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she dropped this bomb on me the other night...' i dont really like swallowing '...to which i replied...' then why do you do it ? '....' because you like it ' ....to which i repied.. ' if you dont like it then dont do it '......

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i have never asked her to do it....she once asked me what my sexual turn ons were and i said..the thought of a woman swallowing does it for me.....but i never asked her to do it and i dont want her to do things she doesnt enjoy....i get my biggest turn on from watching and hearing her enjoying sex...i have always been like that....so i always thought she did it because it turned her on and she enjoyed it....seems i was wrong.....

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so is this the normal in relationship ?....doing things you aint keen on to keep your partner happy ?....i enjoy everything i do sexually and i certainly wouldnt do something i didnt like during sex...

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amd yes....i have had a drink...

Lay off the drinking/coffee and drink lots more fruit juices.... she should like it more, if not, then dump her. She shouldn't taste much anyways

signed,

a member of the swallowers committee

paintedlady said:

Lay off the drinking/coffee and drink lots more fruit juices.... she should like it more, if not, then dump on her. She shouldn't taste much anyways

signed,

a member of the swallowers committee

Nothinbutjoy said:

It doesn't really matter what is normal for others to do in their sexual relationships. You & your's appear to have a very open dialog regarding sex and that is the most important thing. You listen to her. She listens to you. You actually talk about your likes and dislikes. That is great! But to answer your question, yes I sometimes do things for my hubby because he likes it not because I do. I like to see him enjoying it, so for me it is worth it and we never push each other into things one of us really doesn't like.

You bring up some good points...

what other people do/don't isn't what's at issue.... its what makes you both comfortable.

and yes, it is good that you both have open dialog. "Normal" is what you make it.

She must really like you if she tried to do stuff she wasn't fond of doing , ajust for you...well, maybe now you both can just find other things to do that you both enjoy.

paintedlady said:

Lay off the drinking/coffee and drink lots more fruit juices.... she should like it more, if not, then dump her. She shouldn't taste much anyways

signed,

a member of the swallowers committee

next time u r done with your fleshlight i want u to turn it upside down over your mouth....

then tell me if u like it!!!!

physco185 said:

next time u r done with your fleshlight i want u to turn it upside down over your mouth....

then tell me if u like it!!!!

Or... he can stop sucking her pussy because "he never really liked to do it anyways"...

I am not gay, but I think sucking a dick is way easier than sucking on pussy... taste wise.

paintedlady said:

physco185 said:

next time u r done with your fleshlight i want u to turn it upside down over your mouth....

then tell me if u like it!!!!

Or... he can stop sucking her pussy because "he never really liked to do it anyways"...

I am not gay, but I think sucking a dick is way easier than sucking on pussy... taste wise.

i like the taste of my pussy.... i find it hard to swallow from penises tho

i refuse to believe that ppl dont taste their own

physco185 said:

paintedlady said:

Or... he can stop sucking her pussy because "he never really liked to do it anyways"...

I am not gay, but I think sucking a dick is way easier than sucking on pussy... taste wise.

i like the taste of my pussy.... i find it hard to swallow from penises tho

I guess I have a mild taste too, but I don't like to taste it after he does his thing. Maybe its the glazed donut look on his face.... all slimed up.

Fruit juice does help, nothing is worse than a bitter dick. I wouldn't suck that either.

Not saying you got a bitter taste blackbob....

That's very sweet that you want her to be happy even if that means you don't get...um...swallowed?.

BTW I think swallowing (that white stuff) is d-i-s-g-u-s-t-i-n-g!

I'd never do it At least not all at once.

physco185 said:

i refuse to believe that ppl dont taste their own

My wife made me taste myself once.

So I dont mind that she doesnt swallow.

She'll go to town down there...but if I dont warn her when that moment arrives I get a firm smack in the sack.

blackbob said:

....i get my biggest turn on from watching and hearing her enjoying sex...i have always been like that....

You are not alone!

If hearing a woman is what really does it for you, then why did you tell her that swallowing does. Not that it's a bad turn on or anything. You know what? Hindsight is 20/20. Shit happens.

It's a lot easier for a dude (in heterosexual relationship), IMO, to not have to do stuff that doesn't turn them on and things still flow (or apparently flow) smoothly. Being they're not usually on the recieving end of stuff.

You may not have ever asked her to do it, and may not want her to do something that she doesn't enjoy (which is totally commendable ), but the seed has been planted that THIS DOES IT FOR YOU, so I can see where it might be difficult for her to now not do it even if she doesn't like it. I would want to do for my partner what he enjoys and having actual knowledge of what that is would make it that much more important that I please him. The task at hand now seems to be making her understand that it's not a dealbreaker for you and that so many other things about her do it for you just as well.

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It'll go where it goes.

Sounds like she's volunteering to double up on the anal.

FauxReal said:

Sounds like she's volunteering to double up on the anal.

Double up? DP?? :gasp!:

johnart said:

FauxReal said:

Sounds like she's volunteering to double up on the anal.

Double up? DP?? :gasp!:

Particularly amusing to me, because that's my nickname at work. (Based on my initials)

Is it true that if men eat lots of garlic the taste gets beter?

If men have eaten too much salt in their diet, you can tell by the taste of the cum.

FauxReal said:

johnart said:

Double up? DP?? :gasp!:

Particularly amusing to me, because that's my nickname at work. (Based on my initials)

luv4u said:

If men have eaten too much salt in their diet, you can tell by the taste of the cum.

I love salt (the movie sucked though). Once upon a time I was told my shit tasted like chicken soup. Not very flattering, but that person was fond of chicken soup so it all worked out.

FauxReal said:

luv4u said:

If men have eaten too much salt in their diet, you can tell by the taste of the cum.

I love salt (the movie sucked though). Once upon a time I was told my shit tasted like chicken soup. Not very flattering, but that person was fond of chicken soup so it all worked out.

I should think (hope) that being concerned with making it taste better should come with the recipient already wanting to eat it. Not as in, Hey, Honey, if I eat some shit to make it taste like Girl Scout Cookies you gon' want this every day!!!

johnart said:

I should think (hope) that being concerned with making it taste better should come with the recipient already wanting to eat it. Not as in, Hey, Honey, if I eat some shit to make it taste like Girl Scout Cookies you gon' want this every day!!!

With or without...it's comin' regardless.

FauxReal said:

johnart said:

I should think (hope) that being concerned with making it taste better should come with the recipient already wanting to eat it. Not as in, Hey, Honey, if I eat some shit to make it taste like Girl Scout Cookies you gon' want this every day!!!

With or without...it's comin' regardless.

Simple really, face and hair or mouth? Your choice.

johnart said:

If hearing a woman is what really does it for you, then why did you tell her that swallowing does. Not that it's a bad turn on or anything. You know what? Hindsight is 20/20. Shit happens.

It's a lot easier for a dude (in heterosexual relationship), IMO, to not have to do stuff that doesn't turn them on and things still flow (or apparently flow) smoothly. Being they're not usually on the recieving end of stuff.

You may not have ever asked her to do it, and may not want her to do something that she doesn't enjoy (which is totally commendable ), but the seed has been planted that THIS DOES IT FOR YOU, so I can see where it might be difficult for her to now not do it even if she doesn't like it. I would want to do for my partner what he enjoys and having actual knowledge of what that is would make it that much more important that I please him. The task at hand now seems to be making her understand that it's not a dealbreaker for you and that so many other things about her do it for you just as well.

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i really dont mind if she doesnt want to do it....really...i just had the impression that it turned her on to do it....

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and i do drink too much coffee....need to cut down...

physco185 said:

next time u r done with your fleshlight i want u to turn it upside down over your mouth....

then tell me if u like it!!!!

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that thing is in the bin now...it was good for a few weeks but ..nah...i prefer the real thing....

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