does he need help?

is he a freak??

is he on the dl??

what would you think???

I would think he (and I) was looking for a date.

I would be thinking he was preparing to cheat! Was it a straight dating site?

starkitty said:

Good point!
My first thought was, "Why would I be looking on the site in the first place?"

But seriously- I'd be upset, because I'd feel that he was looking to meet someone else.

maybe he had that account set up before you guys got together and he forgot to delete them ?


that's what mine told me .

I would be pretty unhappy if his recent sign in was lately. Or anytime after we established ourselves as "together". And that were the case, I'd be gone that day. Though I can't really believe someone who says they forgot they were on a dating site. The way things go these days, I try to keep tabs on where I leave my mark.

...umm that he's dating. And apparently you aren't the one he wants to commit to. If was an old account, he would have unsubscribed as soon as the two of you became official.

ohhhhh lord

who knows how tell what a guys intent is.
i know a cheating man, its not that fun as it's made out to be.
well obviously, im not sure i haven't had a real relationship so to say.
either he is on something well like my ex was. that all its going to be if your ready to be that chick on the opposite end be ready you'll end up loosing lol
[Edited 9/18/09 12:41pm]

they wanna keep nice women on reserve while perusing thru freaks r us.....why cant the wife be a freak???


can the guy just be honest with the gal??? ...dam!

I would think he lost his damn mind

ur sig

I would think, "Damn, his funeral is gonna be rough on his mom."

PunkMistress said:

but what are you doing on it?

hopefully not the one who takes care of her....and yeah punk, i made you???

I would think that what he wants is on that website and its time for me to move on. What else is there?

yep i told him to go back to her.

my moto for now is make it or break it. either there is something or not.
but don't play the role and pretend there is when there really isn't lol and think im stupid. i think we ladies need to step our game.
im saying that i have took my man back millions of times its not going to change.

are we letting these men get away with too much?

Controversy-


ya heard
[Edited 9/19/09 2:06am]

shortnsweet said:

What would being straight have to do with a date site? Seriously no matter what sexual orientation they are a date site is STILL a date site IMHO. His/Her last log in date/recent activity is more what you should worry about

oops double post
[Edited 9/19/09 1:29am]

myfavorite said:

I would run for my dear life, he's obviously playing games with you.

POOK said:

STD checkup?

i will run that fukker to the high hills...

It sounds like at least one of the people in the relationship was unhappy enough to be on a dating site... both, if his sign-in was recent.

you mean current guy not potential guy?

i'd let him do his thing, ya i would think he's freak and probley does that to everyone else. once he's done with you he will move on to the next person he can toy with. ya dig?

ya but most of their girlfriends do not know they are on these websites i don't know thats what trips me out. but online is not my thing. so i wouldn't trust a guy like that cuz once he's done with you he'll move on to the next girl for whatever reason. and honesty is definitly not apart of a healthy relationship. i would say save yourself before this guy does more damage to your life. get out now so it will save you later. his other girlfriends are probley falling for the same crap. They will be sorry in the long run ever getting mixed up with a dude like that in my opinion. Who knows? Maybe when things fall apart with them he has you to run back to because hay you are that valnuable after all. this guy can get away with anything basically and expect you to be on the field while he does his thing.

i would be over this guy in no time. don't let his games get to you cuz thats all it ever is. it takes two people to tango. so if you want to tango then go on.Girls can play the same games so don't get it twisted. im sorry for some of these ladies don't end up like me being around with a guy that just makes up stories all the time. ends up in and out of jail and probley has tons of girlfriends eveywhere. and you don't know what the hell is going on.

so who's pimping who?

may i ask
[Edited 9/21/09 7:03am]

I would stop dating anyone who was so stupid they thought they could be DL on the internet.

But I know I have accounts out there I ain't seen in years, so it could be old.

And I have a male friend who is addicted like that to talking to many chicks through dating sites....

Keylogger and getting password can be very enlightening *what? who said that* *innocent face*

BklynBabe said:

thats what im saying
i think the internet is stupid sometimes. other times its cool.
but i aint got time for that. i dont know. ya i have had people snoop and seen what i wrote about them. i might of been bitched out because of that. ya please explain the being on dl part
[Edited 9/21/09 3:58am]

spot on BB and Booty, unfortunately, you guys seem to be on the other end of what i'm dealing with....i am secure enough not to start a fight about that, but yet i am frustrated.

you already know, dude is full of shyt. one day a freak, the next we're friends (at this point..*gag*) the day after that, he's gay!

We've been friends forever, we are like bro and sis and logic says I dont gotta be with him, put up with that shyt, and yeah i should leave him alone.

However, when i was down, he made sure he wrapped up my entire future up in him and all that other shyt is just unecessary torture!!! Aint nobody feeling me on that tho.....if they did, i would be well on my way to Kiss My Ass Bitches, I'm out!...

I would join the site as an alias
get him interested and set up a meeting / date.

His reaction when he realises it's you would be worth it!

myfavorite said:

That it's time to break up.