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15 Relationships "Every Woman Should Have"??... What do you think, ladies? Is this true? lol...and how many of these have you had? (from some AOL social thing or another)...I'm assuming that some guys you've dated/been involved with can cover more than one category...
And guys, which of these types have you been in the past? lol 
1. The first love Every girl remembers her first love and it sets the scene for all your future relationships. It's a time of romantic fantasies, experimentation and hopes and dreams for your life together. You may have learnt a lot since then but there's nothing quite as special as the first time. Awww! 2. The bad boy Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen is his philosophy and guess what? It works. Well, until the thrill of the chase wears off and you realise that being treated badly is not as sexy as it first seemed. Every girl needs to date a bad boy though, even if it's only so you can finally see the attraction of the nice ones after all. 3. The holiday romance He sends you a sangria from across the bar and for two weeks you share the deepest darkest secrets you can only tell someone you know, in truth, you'll never see again. Blended with balmy nights and crashing waves, you're done for! 4. The long distance relationship Absence makes the heart grow fonder and writing love letters, intimate late night phone calls and the anticipation of seeing each other again is enough to make all the longing worth while. Just make sure that the reality of the relationship lives up to the romantic ideal you have created. 5. The older man He's mature, sophisticated and has lots of money - which he's willing to spend on you! After dating men your own age who don't know what they want or how to get it, the intelligent conversation and charm can be enough to forget about the receding hairline, mid-life crisis and ex-wife! 6. The friend-turned-lover He's seen you when you're hungover, he knows all about your embarrassing habits and former failures and he loves you anyway. The friend-turned-lover is the most comfortable relationship as you know he likes you for who you are. Just don't let it become more like sister and brother than starry-eyed lovers. 7. The booty call This horny devil hits all the right spots and is ready to disrobe at the click of your fingers but leaving emotions at the bedroom door, keeping it strictly sexual, is the key enjoying this raunchy one and yet still escape unscathed. 8. The unavailable one Whether they are married, live a long way away or are just emotionally unavailable, there is that constant challenge and hope that you will be one to transform them. Unfortunately, you probably won't, but you will have a lot of fun trying and enjoying the exhilarating thrill of the chase. 9. The heartbreaker Yes, it feels like your world has ended and no, it's not a pleasant experience, but as the old saying goes - what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Experiencing that intense low only makes the highs higher and helps you to appreciate the love of your life even more when he does come along. 10. The one night stand The simple pleasure of no-strings-attached sex is a liberating experience. It's about enjoying the moment, being sexy, confident and not caring if he calls in the morning - in fact not even giving him your number. Enjoy the night, guilt-free, for what it is - pure, unadulterated fun! 11. The one who loves you more than you love him It's amazing to find 'the one' and know that your love for each other is equal but until then bask in a wee ego boost with the man who tells anyone who'll listen just how amazing you are whilst you make very little effort. It's tough being adored! 12. The Katy Perry It might be controversial but a little girl-on-girl action is not to be sniffed at. Whether you indulge in a small smooch or a full on raunch fest, experiment and see what all the fuss is about! 13. The mirror image You have so much in common, you share the same friends, have the same career and want the same things...it all seems so perfect. And it is until you realise that you're going out with yourself. See how long it is before he starts to irritate you after that! 14. The new man He does the laundry (and separates the whites!) without being asked and conjures up a three course menu to cook for your friends the first time he meets them. Some say hold on to him with a vice-like grip, others say his feminine side threatens to make you look like the hairy macho one of the relationship. 15. The Coke drinker It's a fact of Life that Coke does indeed taste better than Pepsi, and this guy understands everything that oh, hell, I just made this one up, sue me. 15. The one This is what it's all about. All the dating, all the heartache and headaches will finally lead you to the one. The conversation is easy, the attraction is magnetic and you both want the same things in life. Enjoy it, nurture it, and use all your experiences of other relationships to keep hold of this one and make sure it lasts the distance. | |
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Byron said: What do you think, ladies? Is this true? lol...and how many of these have you had? (from some AOL social thing or another)...I'm assuming that some guys you've dated/been involved with can cover more than one category...
And guys, which of these types have you been in the past? lol
1. The first love Every girl remembers her first love and it sets the scene for all your future relationships. It's a time of romantic fantasies, experimentation and hopes and dreams for your life together. You may have learnt a lot since then but there's nothing quite as special as the first time. Awww! 2. The bad boy Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen is his philosophy and guess what? It works. Well, until the thrill of the chase wears off and you realise that being treated badly is not as sexy as it first seemed. Every girl needs to date a bad boy though, even if it's only so you can finally see the attraction of the nice ones after all. 3. The holiday romance He sends you a sangria from across the bar and for two weeks you share the deepest darkest secrets you can only tell someone you know, in truth, you'll never see again. Blended with balmy nights and crashing waves, you're done for! 4. The long distance relationship Absence makes the heart grow fonder and writing love letters, intimate late night phone calls and the anticipation of seeing each other again is enough to make all the longing worth while. Just make sure that the reality of the relationship lives up to the romantic ideal you have created. 5. The older man He's mature, sophisticated and has lots of money - which he's willing to spend on you! After dating men your own age who don't know what they want or how to get it, the intelligent conversation and charm can be enough to forget about the receding hairline, mid-life crisis and ex-wife! 6. The friend-turned-lover He's seen you when you're hungover, he knows all about your embarrassing habits and former failures and he loves you anyway. The friend-turned-lover is the most comfortable relationship as you know he likes you for who you are. Just don't let it become more like sister and brother than starry-eyed lovers. 7. The booty call This horny devil hits all the right spots and is ready to disrobe at the click of your fingers but leaving emotions at the bedroom door, keeping it strictly sexual, is the key enjoying this raunchy one and yet still escape unscathed. 8. The unavailable one Whether they are married, live a long way away or are just emotionally unavailable, there is that constant challenge and hope that you will be one to transform them. Unfortunately, you probably won't, but you will have a lot of fun trying and enjoying the exhilarating thrill of the chase. 9. The heartbreaker Yes, it feels like your world has ended and no, it's not a pleasant experience, but as the old saying goes - what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Experiencing that intense low only makes the highs higher and helps you to appreciate the love of your life even more when he does come along. 10. The one night stand The simple pleasure of no-strings-attached sex is a liberating experience. It's about enjoying the moment, being sexy, confident and not caring if he calls in the morning - in fact not even giving him your number. Enjoy the night, guilt-free, for what it is - pure, unadulterated fun! 11. The one who loves you more than you love him It's amazing to find 'the one' and know that your love for each other is equal but until then bask in a wee ego boost with the man who tells anyone who'll listen just how amazing you are whilst you make very little effort. It's tough being adored! 12. The Katy Perry It might be controversial but a little girl-on-girl action is not to be sniffed at. Whether you indulge in a small smooch or a full on raunch fest, experiment and see what all the fuss is about! 13. The mirror image You have so much in common, you share the same friends, have the same career and want the same things...it all seems so perfect. And it is until you realise that you're going out with yourself. See how long it is before he starts to irritate you after that! 14. The new man He does the laundry (and separates the whites!) without being asked and conjures up a three course menu to cook for your friends the first time he meets them. Some say hold on to him with a vice-like grip, others say his feminine side threatens to make you look like the hairy macho one of the relationship. 15. The Coke drinker It's a fact of Life that Coke does indeed taste better than Pepsi, and this guy understands everything that oh, hell, I just made this one up, sue me. 15. The one This is what it's all about. All the dating, all the heartache and headaches will finally lead you to the one. The conversation is easy, the attraction is magnetic and you both want the same things in life. Enjoy it, nurture it, and use all your experiences of other relationships to keep hold of this one and make sure it lasts the distance. The Coke Drinker!!!!  | |
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I've experienced most of these and I can see why most of them fit on the list. Maybe not all... |
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| @ the first #15... | |
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I have pretty much experienced all of these..except that last one! Proud Memaw to Seyhan Olivia Christine ,Zoey Cirilo Jaylee & Ellie Abigail Lillian  | |
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Is there a corresponding list for dudes? | |
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I've had most of these except for all after 11. | |
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Most except one of 'em | |
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Byron said: 15. The Coke drinker It's a fact of Life that Coke does indeed taste better than Pepsi, and this guy understands everything that oh, hell, I just made this one up, sue me. that's cute! 
15. The one This is what it's all about. All the dating, all the heartache and headaches will finally lead you to the one. The conversation is easy, the attraction is magnetic and you both want the same things in life. Enjoy it, nurture it, and use all your experiences of other relationships to keep hold of this one and make sure it lasts the distance. I just want to find #15  Rhythm floods my heart♥The melody it feeds my soul | |
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I don't know about that list but here is what I HAVE had:
the crush from high school after crushing on him for 2 years, finally got him to myself and clutched onto him desperately for 5 years, sure I would never have another boyfriend ever. the hot housemate he moved in, we lived together as housemates platonically for 6 months, then suddenly one night it became something else entirely and it was a purely physical thing for a few weeks before he moved to another state, we both felt the previous 6 months was a waste of potential  
the loser what was I thinking? He didn't even like me that much 
the master he pursued me, I was flattered, after 3 weeks I was sure I loved him. We are polar opposites in nearly every way and I don't really understand how we co-habit  | |
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Byron said:[quote]What do you think, ladies? Is this true? lol...and how many of these have you had? (from some AOL social thing or another)...I'm assuming that some guys you've dated/been involved with can cover more than one category...
And guys, which of these types have you been in the past? lol
1. The first love yup 
2. The bad boy more than once
3. The holiday romancenot yet 4. The long distance relationship not sure.... 5. The older man shhh.... 
6. The friend-turned-lover yeah, not a good idea 7. The booty call'butt' of course! 8. The unavailable one no 9. The heartbreakeryup 10. The one night stand oh yeah, so wild! 11. The one who loves you more than you love him not sure 12. The Katy Perry YES YES YES 13. The mirror image no 14. The new manno 15. The Coke drinker  yes
15. The one..... Say it's just a dream...
U open up ur eyes and come 2 realize u simply imagined this So u lean over and give her a kiss Here on earth, here on earth, with u it's not so bad Here on earth, here on earth eye don't feel so sad Stay right here |
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I've been these...
1. The first love 3. The holiday romance 5. The older man 6. The friend-turned-lover 8. The unavailable one 10. The one night stand 11. The one who loves you more than you love him 14. The new man 15. The Coke drinker 15. The one Fellas, what have you been?? A working class Hero is something to be ~ Lennon |
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moderatorRenHoek said: I've been these...
1. The first love 3. The holiday romance 5. The older man 6. The friend-turned-lover 8. The unavailable one 10. The one night stand 11. The one who loves you more than you love him 14. The new man 15. The Coke drinker 15. The one Fellas, what have you been?? It's hard to say. The only ones I know for sure are "The Long Distance Relationship" and "The One". Feel free to join in the Prince Album Poll 2018! Let'a celebrate his legacy by counting down the most beloved Prince albums, as decided by you! | |
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1. The first love
Of course. 2. The bad boy Of course. 3. The holiday romance Summer flings rule. 4. The long distance relationship Yes, sucks major fat ass. 5. The older man Ya, no. Hell, no. 6. The friend-turned-lover All the time. 7. The booty call The best sitch ever. 8. The unavailable one Yes, I can get them though...but only for so long. 9. The heartbreaker By the first love. 10. The one night stand Only when I was really young...now they gross me out. 11. The one who loves you more than you love him I hate this situation...but only been in that twice. 12. The Katy Perry Um...no. 13. The mirror image Never happened. 14. The new man Ew, never happened...thankfully! 15. The Coke drinker Coke sucks. 15. The one Not yet...but I think I am pretty happy with my "the one right now"s. | |
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Byron said: What do you think, ladies? Is this true? lol...and how many of these have you had? (from some AOL social thing or another)...I'm assuming that some guys you've dated/been involved with can cover more than one category...
And guys, which of these types have you been in the past? lol
1. The first love Every girl remembers her first love and it sets the scene for all your future relationships. It's a time of romantic fantasies, experimentation and hopes and dreams for your life together. You may have learnt a lot since then but there's nothing quite as special as the first time. Awww! 2. The bad boy Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen is his philosophy and guess what? It works. Well, until the thrill of the chase wears off and you realise that being treated badly is not as sexy as it first seemed. Every girl needs to date a bad boy though, even if it's only so you can finally see the attraction of the nice ones after all. 3. The holiday romance He sends you a sangria from across the bar and for two weeks you share the deepest darkest secrets you can only tell someone you know, in truth, you'll never see again. Blended with balmy nights and crashing waves, you're done for! 4. The long distance relationship Absence makes the heart grow fonder and writing love letters, intimate late night phone calls and the anticipation of seeing each other again is enough to make all the longing worth while. Just make sure that the reality of the relationship lives up to the romantic ideal you have created. 5. The older man He's mature, sophisticated and has lots of money - which he's willing to spend on you! After dating men your own age who don't know what they want or how to get it, the intelligent conversation and charm can be enough to forget about the receding hairline, mid-life crisis and ex-wife! 6. The friend-turned-lover He's seen you when you're hungover, he knows all about your embarrassing habits and former failures and he loves you anyway. The friend-turned-lover is the most comfortable relationship as you know he likes you for who you are. Just don't let it become more like sister and brother than starry-eyed lovers. 7. The booty call This horny devil hits all the right spots and is ready to disrobe at the click of your fingers but leaving emotions at the bedroom door, keeping it strictly sexual, is the key enjoying this raunchy one and yet still escape unscathed. 8. The unavailable one Whether they are married, live a long way away or are just emotionally unavailable, there is that constant challenge and hope that you will be one to transform them. Unfortunately, you probably won't, but you will have a lot of fun trying and enjoying the exhilarating thrill of the chase. 9. The heartbreaker Yes, it feels like your world has ended and no, it's not a pleasant experience, but as the old saying goes - what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Experiencing that intense low only makes the highs higher and helps you to appreciate the love of your life even more when he does come along. 10. The one night stand The simple pleasure of no-strings-attached sex is a liberating experience. It's about enjoying the moment, being sexy, confident and not caring if he calls in the morning - in fact not even giving him your number. Enjoy the night, guilt-free, for what it is - pure, unadulterated fun! 11. The one who loves you more than you love him It's amazing to find 'the one' and know that your love for each other is equal but until then bask in a wee ego boost with the man who tells anyone who'll listen just how amazing you are whilst you make very little effort. It's tough being adored! 12. The Katy Perry It might be controversial but a little girl-on-girl action is not to be sniffed at. Whether you indulge in a small smooch or a full on raunch fest, experiment and see what all the fuss is about! 13. The mirror image You have so much in common, you share the same friends, have the same career and want the same things...it all seems so perfect. And it is until you realise that you're going out with yourself. See how long it is before he starts to irritate you after that! 14. The new man He does the laundry (and separates the whites!) without being asked and conjures up a three course menu to cook for your friends the first time he meets them. Some say hold on to him with a vice-like grip, others say his feminine side threatens to make you look like the hairy macho one of the relationship. 15. The Coke drinker It's a fact of Life that Coke does indeed taste better than Pepsi, and this guy understands everything that oh, hell, I just made this one up, sue me. 15. The one This is what it's all about. All the dating, all the heartache and headaches will finally lead you to the one. The conversation is easy, the attraction is magnetic and you both want the same things in life. Enjoy it, nurture it, and use all your experiences of other relationships to keep hold of this one and make sure it lasts the distance. 
except #5. The oldest I have gone is 5 years. I like'em younger. | |
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#5 rawks!!!  | |
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Byron said:[quote]What do you think, ladies? Is this true? lol...and how many of these have you had? (from some AOL social thing or another)...I'm assuming that some guys you've dated/been involved with can cover more than one category...
And guys, which of these types have you been in the past? lol
1. The first love Of course 2. The bad boy More than I care to remember 3. The holiday romance Not yet 
4. The long distance relationship Short one 5. The older man Definitely, but they're not always so "mature" 6. The friend-turned-lover Yes, bad idea 7. The booty call NO, but definitely headed for one or three 8. The unavailable one yes 
9. The heartbreaker yes, dammit 10. The one night stand Once 11. The one who loves you more than you love him Yes 12. The Katy Perry No 13. The mirror image No 14. The new man No 15. The Coke drinker Didn't have a relationship with Byron
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WTF, how many of you hos actually have 15+ relationships?  | |
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PunkMistress said: WTF, how many of you hos actually have 15+ relationships?
2 of my relationships qualified for 3 different categories. So that's 6 of the above in only 2 guys. |
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CarrieMpls said: PunkMistress said: WTF, how many of you hos actually have 15+ relationships?
2 of my relationships qualified for 3 different categories. So that's 6 of the above in only 2 guys. Ah, I see. Chris alone would qualify for 3 of those for me. | |
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PunkMistress said: WTF, how many of you hos actually have 15+ relationships?
i know, i was sitting here thinking the same thing.
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PunkMistress said: CarrieMpls said: 2 of my relationships qualified for 3 different categories. So that's 6 of the above in only 2 guys. Ah, I see. Chris alone would qualify for 3 of those for me. Ya, stupid! | |
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PunkMistress said: WTF, how many of you hos actually have 15+ relationships?
I was thinking this too...and feeling majorly inadequate If you will, so will I | |
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1. The first love
Yep 2. The bad boy More than 1 3. The holiday romance Kinda sorta...we still talk but he lives on the other coast. 4. The long distance relationship Ugh, yes. 5. The older man Nope. 6. The friend-turned-lover Oh god yes, big mistake! 7. The booty call Ooooh yes
8. The unavailable one Yep 9. The heartbreaker Ugh unfortunately yes. 10. The one night stand Never had a one night stand, they always came back for more! 11. The one who loves you more than you love him Yes, he was my first love...but then I fell out of love with him. We are best friends to this day though. 12. The Katy Perry Yes. 13. The mirror image Nope. 14. The new man Nope. 15. The Coke drinker HAAAAA!!!!! 15. The one I'll get back to you on this... | |
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15? Ohh damn..... | |
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1. The first love
Yes had this 2. The bad boy Yes had this 3. The holiday romance Yes had this in high school 4. The long distance relationship Yes had this 5. The older man Yes had this 6. The friend-turned-lover Yes had this 7. The booty call Nope never, not a booty call kinda gal. 8. The unavailable one Yep had this 9. The heartbreaker uh huh had this one too 10. The one night stand Nope not a one night stand kinda gal. 11. The one who loves you more than you love him Kind of confused by this one. 12. The Katy Perry In fantasies only!!! 13. The mirror image Yep had this. I got on my nerves often. 14. The new man Yep, love this. 15. The one I have him now  It's the most wonderful thing ever. I will forever love and miss you...my sweet Prince. | |
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CarrieLee said: 15. The Coke drinker HAAAAA!!!!! Once you go Coke you never go back lol  | |
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1. The first love
yes, he died of cancer in 02 2. The bad boy oh yeah been there done that a few times over. 3. The holiday romance yeah 4. The long distance relationship 5 years of 6 months in town and 6 months out of town... wow! 5. The older man i always date older 6. The friend-turned-lover no 7. The booty call two or three a week 8. The unavailable one the more unavailable a guy is the hotter he is to me 9. The heartbreaker i told everyone he was either the one or the one to break my heart guesss which one it ended up being. 10. The one night stand the other days of the week that aren't occupied with the booty call 11. The one who loves you more than you love him yeah... 12. The Katy Perry never kissed a girl don't plan on it. 13. The mirror image nope 14. The new man nope 15. The Coke drinker sure why not 15. The one can't say i've been there yet. You CANNOT use the name of God, or religion, to justify acts of violence, to hurt, to hate, to discriminate- Madonna
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1. The first love
6th and 8th grade..wasn't serious...just received valentine chocolate heart and and m&m dispenser...a huge one. 11. The one who loves you more than you love him don't love him, but he used to tell me he loved me a lot...we weren't even dating...it was creepy. 13. The mirror image I want someone just like me- this would be my soulmate 14. The new man He does the laundry (and separates the whites!) without being asked and conjures up a three course menu to cook for your friends the first time he meets them. Some say hold on to him with a vice-like grip, others say his feminine side threatens to make you look like the hairy macho one of the relationship. (not bad...you should hold onto someone like this...I want someone more macho than I though) 15. The one This is what it's all about. All the dating, all the heartache and headaches will finally lead you to the one. The conversation is easy, the attraction is magnetic and you both want the same things in life. Enjoy it, nurture it, and use all your experiences of other relationships to keep hold of this one and make sure it lasts the distance.[/quote] can't wait!!! unlucky7 reincarnated | |
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Yes to all, over and over. Some of them taste so sweet... | |
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