my issue with cheating is this: if we're together and you are about to fuck someone else...i would imagine you have to think of me at least once before allowing penetration...


so my issue with the women who cheated on me had always been a lack of respect, i mean its not like you signed a fidelity contract, so i cant act like you were entitled to me, not really, so thats whatever...but truth be told i'd rather you just stop,call me and say you wanna see other people, and hang up...cuz honestly, even if you dont fuck him that day, it doesnt mean the oppurtunity will never arrive again...people who wanna fuck each other will yaknow? like "calm ya hot ass down and be an adult for two seconds"...

truthfully before this current relationship, i really didn't have enough of a sense of self worth, to "demand" a woman be faithful to me anyway, my whole thing was lets just be straight up wit it...fuck all the bullshit....in fact STILL TO THIS DAY i only ask that if my carmen wants to sleep with someone else, to introduce me her, so at least it's not like a stranger is fucking my woman...(plus, by that point, the other one should know- im not just some sucka n*gga in the corner "being had" unbeknownced)...and then i can deal with it accordingly, but at least rest assured that she respects me enough to say what it is...

shit...i may even be open to the idea of open relationships (im not even sure yet)...

but with me its all about respect...i know (for a fact) that i couldn't fuck another woman without thinking about the one im with for at least a fraction of a second, and thats long enough to "pay respects" right?


besides...if you shoot straight with the woman your wit, and discover that she's actually strong/intelligent enough to handle "the rules of attraction" you prob wont want any of them other bitches...they just end up looking dumb as fuck in comparison..i mean if i talk to carmen about another woman long enough, i end up realizing that i probably couldnt do all that with the other chick, regardless of what caught my eye at first...

come to think of it, i coulda been fucked mad other girls by now...

DexMSR said:

but aren't you a swinger? I think you're a little more open to the idea than some

Once again...another thread about cheating. I guess when it comes down to it, it's really up to the people involved in the relationship, and how they wish to handle the situation. If they can get past the trust issue, then awesome. If not...well then I can only say there must have been a bigger issue then sex. What we all need to remember is that everyone who cheats does it for he/she's own reasons. Unless you have cheated, or have been cheated on it's really hard to form an opinion.