I believe in soulmates, but I also believe that you may never find that soulmate. There are regional sub-soulmates, but the ONE may be on the other side of the hemisphere and you may never get there or them here

Janfriend said:

so what do you think about: if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with?

You mean we have to go through this again?



The answer is no.

http://www.prince.org/msg/100/224953

NDRU said:

I agree with Bukowski. Wouldn't sleep with him though.

Revolution said:

Not.

Stax said:

that is so sweet

well, of course...my mind says no
but my heart says hell yes

Of course I do and I think I found my soulmate...

purpleizpassion said:

i think that's wonderful. Lucky you!

I must add , though, that I don't think exactly in those terms... I don't have a questionnaire or something or a list of these imaginary boxes, it was just the way my mate described her concept of the 'one' which made more sense to me. As others have already said, if there is only one 'one', what the hell do you do if something happens to that other person? You give up? People would never fall in love or marry ever again. I just think you can relate to different people, in different ways, and can have that same level of intimacy. But... it is VERY hard to find.

Now, go give that guy of your's a kiss!

ZombieKitten said:

I don;t believe in settling. I rather be single

heartbeatocean said:

but you would fit together, I surmise

NDRU said:

ERASE THE THOUGHT!

heartbeatocean said:

He's quite hideous

Janfriend said:

Hell YES. I would rather be single until my dying day rather than 'settle' with someone just for the sake of it.

UNsettled, more like.

I'm also in the single over settling crowd

Illustrator said:

you goof

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Me three. It's the reason I was single for years.

FunkMistress said:

See, I know I will eclipse any partner I ever have in my life but I'm really trying not to let that make me discount every single man on the planet Maybe I should become a lesbian?
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I totally believe in soulmate. Quite often I think that my true love is somewhere out there. I'd like to meet him sooner rather than later but I've been discovering the joy of being patient in this area. It also helps that I've had more sex than I've had in years. He's out there, I pray that our paths meet soon. In fact I know our paths will meet.
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Nah, don't bother. You'll just end up meeting some big strong handsome Italian man who'll switch your ass back anyway.

FunkMistress said:

I actually refuse to date

FunkMistress said:

What?? You're not a lesbo anymore? What has this world come to...

FunkMistress said:

Can he be the nationality of my choosing?

Janfriend said:

I keep thinking everybody knows!

Supa, tell her!

Where's the link to that thread where we came out as as a straight couple?

FunkMistress said:

She's battin team dick but she'll always be a queer-hybrid!

Janfriend said:

This is crazy talk! Get what you can get out of the experience and don't waste your life away! You have to learn how to protect yourself and still have fun!

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

Huh, well I guess it's possible to be a legal resident of a country without being a citizen... I guess she's busting a "Tina" move,,

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

OMFG



I just meant tell her who.

mean/meant
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Janfriend said:

Tina who?

FunkMistress said:

You would have to watch The L Word to get it, but I guess you're not watching THAT now, huh?