evenstar3 said:

Exactly.

JustErin said:

littlemissG said:

Yes I do! I think I am yet to find him!

it's such a depressing concept! most people have a number of relationships in their lives; how do you go through thinking you've lost the 'one' over & over, or knowing you wasted your time on someone who wasn't them?

NDRU said:

That sums up the differences in Men and Women...

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NDRU said:

I believe that there is always someone out there just for you as you are in that stage of your life. People grow and change and sometimes they grow together and sometimes they grow apart. That is when the next soul mate comes along (hopefully).

I also believe that a soul mate doesn't have to be a romantic partner. When I first met my best friend we were so much alike that it amazed me. I believe he is one of my soul mates, but not a potential romantic partner.

evenstar3 said:

This is how I see it as well

UCantHavaDaMango said:

Rich?

i think we are much more multifaceted than just one person out there for us.
if i was with someone else we would just complement each other differently.

littlemissG said:

I believe my soulmate is The Easter Bunny.

brownsugar said:

i agree with this opinion.

littlemissG said:

well i don't see myself as someone who could date and get married.... but whenever i do think of the idea- one person always comes to mind... so maybe i do believe in soul mates?

NDRU said:

I think this is so too, since so far I have had 2

, but not really... , not really (lol) that is.

I've given up on love. I think it's because I want that "movie love" which I know is never going to happen. I do better in non-reality.



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reason tells me to say no; deep down i think yes.

ZombieKitten said:

i feel I've had a couple, too. But the relationships weren't perfect. Maybe some people believe that soul mate equals perfect relationship. I don't expect that from anyone, so I think that may contribute to my belief that there's many.

But a couple in a lifetime isn't really that many when you think about it. In the world I believe there's maybe thousands of potential soul mates for each of us. But finding them is still very hard.

NDRU said:

no such thing, I agree. I don't know exactly how to define a soulmate apart from a really strong connection, you know, like a mind meld

littlemissG said:

I'm pretty sure that when we die,
my girlfriend & I will probably both be going to Hell.
So,
yes.
I do.

Illustrator said:

that's hellmates

ZombieKitten said:

Yeah it's like genius, how do you know for sure?

NDRU said:

you don't, you just run with it on a hunch

If there's only "one" for me, that's pretty messed up. Cuz, I thought I would have met her by now.

Unless, of course, the one I wind up with would be considered "the one," ultimately.

Though that would be awfully convenient, now wouldn't it?

ThreadBare said:

the problem is she lives on another continent

ZombieKitten said:

That's true, actually. But, I don't believe
she's married...

ThreadBare said:

not ME silly!

ZombieKitten said:

Who, then?

ThreadBare said:

I don't know! If I knew that I would've told you already!

Agree with the comments made alreday...

This'll make me sound totally unromantic but in a world of 6 billion people, I find it difficult to believe that there is this one person that you are supposed to meet in the same place, the same street, the same town, the same country, at exactly the same time... that's madness.

I think we can have more than one soul mate and they come in different guises, at different times of our lives. It's just wonderful, and extremely lucky, when you meet these people.