Spats said: mdiver said: I bet you would stop on the way out and try and get a refund! Hell who cares if she were with you i bet she would have paid! Well the person who asks out does the paying. I guess that's another reason women won't do the asking. I have no problem paying or initiating if he is worth it... | |
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mdiver said: Spats said: Well the person who asks out does the paying. I guess that's another reason women won't do the asking. No denial then! No denial abut what? I think most people agree that whoever does the asking is the one that usually pays. When i took her to the movies and to dinner and Harbourfront i paid. | |
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Shanti1 said: Spats said: Well the person who asks out does the paying. I guess that's another reason women won't do the asking. I have no problem paying or initiating if he is worth it... You are the minority. | |
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Spats said: Shanti1 said: I have no problem paying or initiating if he is worth it... You are the minority. Thanks!! I think you are too.... | |
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Spats said: mdiver said: No denial then! No denial abut what? I think most people agree that whoever does the asking is the one that usually pays. When i took her to the movies and to dinner and Harbourfront i paid. | |
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Shanti1 said: Spats said: You are the minority. Thanks!! I think you are too.... | |
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mdiver said: Spats said: No denial abut what? I think most people agree that whoever does the asking is the one that usually pays. When i took her to the movies and to dinner and Harbourfront i paid. What? | |
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Shanti1 said: Spats said: You are the minority. Thanks!! I think you are too.... I am. Most guys wuss out and give in and do the romantic sissy stuff. | |
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Spats said: Shanti1 said: Thanks!! I think you are too.... I am. Most guys wuss out and give in and do the romantic sissy stuff. I don't know.. you can initiate things and not be a wuss and get some good sack time- just have to find the balance and maybe someone who shares the same ideas as you regarding this sacktime thing... | |
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Shanti1 said: Spats said: I am. Most guys wuss out and give in and do the romantic sissy stuff. I don't know.. you can initiate things and not be a wuss and get some good sack time- just have to find the balance and maybe someone who shares the same ideas as you regarding this sacktime thing... How to you find the balance and find the cool girl. The babe is very,very close to being a completely cool girl. | |
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Spats said: Shanti1 said: I don't know.. you can initiate things and not be a wuss and get some good sack time- just have to find the balance and maybe someone who shares the same ideas as you regarding this sacktime thing... How to you find the balance and find the cool girl. The babe is very,very close to being a completely cool girl. Its about being a cool COUPLE it works both ways | |
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mdiver said: Spats said: How to you find the balance and find the cool girl. The babe is very,very close to being a completely cool girl. Its about being a cool COUPLE it works both ways I have never been considered uncool by anyone i know. | |
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Spats said: mdiver said: Its about being a cool COUPLE it works both ways I have never been considered uncool by anyone i know. You refer to her as cool based on her attributes as far as you see them, i was using the same of you both. She has desires and needs too. So its about you fulfilling hers and her yours...that way you will be a "cool" couple. I lost you didn't i? | |
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Spats said: Shanti1 said: I don't know.. you can initiate things and not be a wuss and get some good sack time- just have to find the balance and maybe someone who shares the same ideas as you regarding this sacktime thing... How to you find the balance and find the cool girl. The babe is very,very close to being a completely cool girl. You would be surprised.. you might have to give a little then she will give a little If she is that cool then it will work. And if she feels it for you..that helps. | |
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mdiver said: Spats said: I have never been considered uncool by anyone i know. You refer to her as cool based on her attributes as far as you see them, i was using the same of you both. She has desires and needs too. So its about you fulfilling hers and her yours...that way you will be a "cool" couple. I lost you didn't i? I think you lost him at 'Hello". | |
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mdiver said: Spats said: I have never been considered uncool by anyone i know. You refer to her as cool based on her attributes as far as you see them, i was using the same of you both. She has desires and needs too. So its about you fulfilling hers and her yours...that way you will be a "cool" couple. I lost you didn't i? Yes, that's what i consider a cool girl. I guess it depends on what she considers a cool guy. | |
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Shanti1 said: Spats said: How to you find the balance and find the cool girl. The babe is very,very close to being a completely cool girl. You would be surprised.. you might have to give a little then she will give a little If she is that cool then it will work. And if she feels it for you..that helps. I want her to give a little first. | |
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Spats said: Shanti1 said: You would be surprised.. you might have to give a little then she will give a little If she is that cool then it will work. And if she feels it for you..that helps. I want her to give a little first. What if she wants the same? | |
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mdiver said: Spats said: I want her to give a little first. What if she wants the same? Then i am in trouble. I called her a few weeks ago to see if she wanted to go out and she said no because she already had plans. She called back and asked me if i wanted to go out. But to get back at her for saying no to me, i said no to her. Giving her a taste of her own medicine. I am hoping she will try again because i don;t want to call and be told no again. | |
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Spats said: mdiver said: What if she wants the same? Then i am in trouble. I called her a few weeks ago to see if she wanted to go out and she said no because she already had plans. She called back and asked me if i wanted to go out. But to get back at her for saying no to me, i said no to her. Giving her a taste of her own medicine. I am hoping she will try again because i don;t want to call and be told no again. Don't tempt me man | |
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mdiver said: Spats said: Then i am in trouble. I called her a few weeks ago to see if she wanted to go out and she said no because she already had plans. She called back and asked me if i wanted to go out. But to get back at her for saying no to me, i said no to her. Giving her a taste of her own medicine. I am hoping she will try again because i don;t want to call and be told no again. Don't tempt me man What?? I will say yes in a heartbeat if she calls. | |
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well Spats- I guess you get some enjoyment out of the waiting and hoping... | |
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Shanti1 said: well Spats- I guess you get some enjoyment out of the waiting and hoping...
No, i don't. I wish she would call right now. | |
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Spats said: Shanti1 said: well Spats- I guess you get some enjoyment out of the waiting and hoping...
No, i don't. I wish she would call right now. | |
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mdiver said: Spats said: No, i don't. I wish she would call right now. What does that emoticon mean? | |
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Spats said: Shanti1 said: I mean if you were with a really cool babe- you would only get through the trailers before you both decided you could not wait any longer and you would have to leave hand in hand- rush out and go have saketime as soon as possible... Not that I have ever done that..... I don't know about hand in hand but yes that would be really cool if the babe just wanted to skip the movie and head over to her place or mine. Preferably mine. That would make her the coolest. I would be pissed off with that at the movies got get a hot dog nacos and cheese large popcorn and a drink wish they would supply a tray | |
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