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When others move on without us... Do you ever feel that deep sense of sadness when you find that someone you care for has moved on without you?
We ofcourse want them to be happy.... afterall we love them...but do they have to move on WITHOUT us.... ? | |
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Ex-Moderator | pardonme4livin said: Do you ever feel that deep sense of sadness when you find that someone you care for has moved on without you?
We ofcourse want them to be happy.... afterall we love them...but do they have to move on WITHOUT us.... ? sometimes they do. of course it's sad. but not much you can do about it. that's the hard part. |
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I think I'm decensatized to it.
I joine the military when I was 19 and chose to go overseas. My life since then can be viewed in 2 year increments in which my friend cycle in and out of my life. Some have moved on, and I have moved on from others. Though since I've been in the same job and same house for 5 years, I feel as if I'm kind of wasting, and others are moving on. You know the weird thing? I've refound my friends on myspace, and all of sudden it doesn't feel so lonely. | |
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AsianBomb777 said: I think I'm decensatized to it.
I joine the military when I was 19 and chose to go overseas. My life since then can be viewed in 2 year increments in which my friend cycle in and out of my life. Some have moved on, and I have moved on from others. Though since I've been in the same job and same house for 5 years, I feel as if I'm kind of wasting, and others are moving on. You know the weird thing? I've refound my friends on myspace, and all of sudden it doesn't feel so lonely. No More Haters on the Internet. | |
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I thought you meant when they die.... | |
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i'm used to it. | |
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CarrieMpls said: pardonme4livin said: Do you ever feel that deep sense of sadness when you find that someone you care for has moved on without you?
We ofcourse want them to be happy.... afterall we love them...but do they have to move on WITHOUT us.... ? sometimes they do. of course it's sad. but not much you can do about it. that's the hard part. No More Haters on the Internet. | |
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AsianBomb777 said: You know the weird thing? I've refound my friends on myspace, and all of sudden it doesn't feel so lonely. That's awesome Dan.... for me, once I close theat chapter, I never look back... I do wonder though.....is anyone out there looking for me after all these years?.... Probably not....but I do wonder... | |
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applekisses said: I thought you meant when they die....
Nope..... I meant when they LIVE without you... | |
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AsianBomb777 said: I think I'm decensatized to it.
I joine the military when I was 19 and chose to go overseas. My life since then can be viewed in 2 year increments in which my friend cycle in and out of my life. Some have moved on, and I have moved on from others. Though since I've been in the same job and same house for 5 years, I feel as if I'm kind of wasting, and others are moving on. You know the weird thing? I've refound my friends on myspace, and all of sudden it doesn't feel so lonely. I feel the same way. Im descensitized because I've moved moved on so many times, life is a big journey. And I have met up with old friends on myspace, and Im glad I moved on, cause maybe I would be living similar boring lives that they have, boring to me anyhow, had I not moved on. It also makes those moments in life more special. .. | |
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i love how Mach always calls it "releasing them into love" - it can be a beautiful thing, even if we're not quite ready to let them go. | |
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pardonme4livin said: AsianBomb777 said: You know the weird thing? I've refound my friends on myspace, and all of sudden it doesn't feel so lonely. That's awesome Dan.... for me, once I close theat chapter, I never look back... I do wonder though.....is anyone out there looking for me after all these years?.... Probably not....but I do wonder... I troll the threads looking for you all the time | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: i love how Mach always calls it "releasing them into love" - it can be a beautiful thing, even if we're not quite ready to let them go.
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littlemissG said: AsianBomb777 said: I think I'm decensatized to it.
I joine the military when I was 19 and chose to go overseas. My life since then can be viewed in 2 year increments in which my friend cycle in and out of my life. Some have moved on, and I have moved on from others. Though since I've been in the same job and same house for 5 years, I feel as if I'm kind of wasting, and others are moving on. You know the weird thing? I've refound my friends on myspace, and all of sudden it doesn't feel so lonely. In an affectionate mood today are we? | |
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Ex-Moderator | What's that cheesy thing, about meeting friends for a reason, a season or a lifetime? It may be cheesy, but I find it true. |
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AsianBomb777 said: pardonme4livin said: That's awesome Dan.... for me, once I close theat chapter, I never look back... I do wonder though.....is anyone out there looking for me after all these years?.... Probably not....but I do wonder... I troll the threads looking for you all the time | |
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IrresistibleB1tch said: i love how Mach always calls it "releasing them into love" - it can be a beautiful thing, even if we're not quite ready to let them go.
I'll release some love into them .. | |
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Yes... especially when they've become close personal friends you've actually spent time with
that's REALLY hard to let go of | |
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CarrieMpls said: What's that cheesy thing, about meeting friends for a reason, a season or a lifetime? It may be cheesy, but I find it true.
I think about that too... | |
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Natisse said: Yes... especially when they've become close personal friends you've actually spent time with
that's REALLY hard to let go of I know you feel me on that Nat..... | |
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pardonme4livin said: Natisse said: Yes... especially when they've become close personal friends you've actually spent time with
that's REALLY hard to let go of I know you feel me on that Nat..... without sounding horrible, probably not as much as you're thinking... I'm sorry. I hope you understand why | |
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AsianBomb777 said: littlemissG said: In an affectionate mood today are we? Shut up fool! You NEED a No More Haters on the Internet. | |
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In all seriousness, I love the org becuase you guys provide me with some stability, but without being mundane.
I love hearing about most of your lives, except those of you I hate and want to kill, and you've really enriched my overall experience. I'm glad that I've become better friends with the likes of CarrieMPLS, Muse, Jersey, to name a few. Who would have ever thought we'd end up friends? I mean, with they way you guys dress and all. | |
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littlemissG said: AsianBomb777 said: In an affectionate mood today are we? Shut up fool! You NEED a | |
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AsianBomb777 said: In all seriousness, I love the org becuase you guys provide me with some stability, but without being mundane.
I love hearing about most of your lives, except those of you I hate and want to kill, and you've really enriched my overall experience. I'm glad that I've become better friends with the likes of CarrieMPLS, Muse, Jersey, to name a few. Who would have ever thought we'd end up friends? I mean, with they way you guys dress and all. You ass... | |
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Ex-Moderator | AsianBomb777 said: In all seriousness, I love the org becuase you guys provide me with some stability, but without being mundane.
I love hearing about most of your lives, except those of you I hate and want to kill, and you've really enriched my overall experience. I'm glad that I've become better friends with the likes of CarrieMPLS, Muse, Jersey, to name a few. Who would have ever thought we'd end up friends? I mean, with they way you guys dress and all. awww... I you too, you fool. |
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Tis sad at first!
But then the minute you decide to join them, in different, new ventures it makes moving on so much easier... ^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^*^
Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect, it means you've decided to look beyond the imperfections... unknown | |
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It's sad, but I've gotten used to it. It doesn't happen so much with me though, 'cause I almost never make friends. I just make casual acquaintances, so the impact isn't really there when we grow apart. The world is a comedy for those who think and a tragedy for those who feel.
"You still wanna take me to prison...just because I won't trade humanity for patriotism." | |
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