I'm not sure about everyone being bi-sexual, but I do think human sexuality is very complex. I think of sexuality of along a continuum some people being straight others gay, then variations of bisexuality in between--all varying degrees of normal orientation and experimentation. It's the labeling and lying that is problematic. It's really sad and even dangerous that people have to lie to themselves and then to their partners, resorting to a life on the down-low. But then again, there are some people who are excited by that as well like there are people who are excited by risky behavior in general.
It's very complex without a doubt. | |
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6sixx6 said: meow85 said: Bullshit. There's a great big middle ground many of us occupy comfortably. You need to get out more. You must be kidding. Any man with another man is gay. Except if he's also with women. A person is not gay one day because they're fucking with the same sex and straight the next because their new bed buddy is the opposite. It's just not that simple. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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kidelrich said: Dewrede said: Nonsense I have never felt sexually attracted to another man before [Edited 9/20/06 15:58pm] I'd have to agree with your sentiment. It's illogical that everyone would be bi-sexual. I think there are more bisexual people than will or can admit. A LOT more. But everybody? I could be wrong, but I don't think so. "A Watcher scoffs at gravity!" | |
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Dewrede said: CarrieMpls said: Yeah, he can. As others have stated, an act doesn't make you gay or straight. It's not what you do, but who you are. A person doesn't suddenly gain a sexual identity once they have sex. It's there all along, whether we act on it or not. Or even against what we normally would. We're not straight until proven gay, or vice versa. A person could remain celibate their entire lives and still identify as gay, straight or bisexual. It's all about sexual attraction, partnership and love, not what you do with your penis or vagina. No , a straight guy would never wanna have sex with a man what about the "straight" men who get sent to prison for many years? It's well known that many prisoners are having sex with each other.Are they really gay? | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: kidelrich said: I loved that story, btw. They are 2 separate stories A strap-on wouldn't have bridged the gap, so to speak? | |
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kidelrich said: Dewrede said: Nonsense I have never felt sexually attracted to another man before [Edited 9/20/06 15:58pm] I'd have to agree with your sentiment. It's illogical that everyone would be bi-sexual. indeed | |
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What about the guy on WEEDS.
He will be takin a big black bone from a hot ass jew bitch...doesnt make him a gay... | |
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SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: kidelrich said: I loved that story, btw. They are 2 separate stories | |
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What about men that like strap-ons? Are they gay? | |
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Stymie said: What about men that like strap-ons? Are they gay?
Not necessaily. Straight men are finally realizing that the anus is also an erogenous zone. M MyeternalgrattitudetoPhil&Val.Herman said "We want sweaty truckers at the truck stop! We want cigar puffing men that look like they wanna beat the living daylights out of us" Val"sporking is spooning with benefits" | |
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kidelrich said: SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said: They are 2 separate stories A strap-on wouldn't have bridged the gap, so to speak? No, I need something that squirts 2010: Healing the Wounds of the Past.... http://prince.org/msg/8/325740 | |
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Stymie said: What about men that like strap-ons? Are they gay?
Depends on who's wearing the strap-on. |
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SoulAlive said: Dewrede said: No , a straight guy would never wanna have sex with a man what about the "straight" men who get sent to prison for many years? It's well known that many prisoners are having sex with each other.Are they really gay? It's according to how they were introduced to it. If a man has never had sex with another man and is raped, he is straight because it was done to him against his will. The ones that raped him aren't straight though because they are having sex with a man willingly. Also, if the man that was raped finds that he likes it and starts having sex with men from then on, he was bisexual all along and just didn't know it. It gets confusing. I don't buy that theory at all about "they are doing it because they don't have access to a woman". Most of the ones doing the raping in prison were having gay sex before they were in prison. The gay clubs are full of "trade" that used to be in prison but they are also full of trade that has never been to prison. From what I've seen, most trade are the criminal type that will probably end up in prison anyway. Someone in prison had to start the whole raping thing and it sure wasn't a limp wristed sissy. Also, as a gay man, if I were thrown in a prison with nothing but women, there's no way I would rape a woman because she doesn't have what I want sexually. I would just be doing a lot of masturbating until my prison sentence was up. A straight man in an all male prison would be doing the same thing. . . [Edited 9/21/06 14:37pm] Andy is a four letter word. | |
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What abut the guys who are straight and then they smoke so much crack they all of a sudden want to suck dick? Unless it becomes some sort of a truth serum like acohol. | |
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origmnd said: What abut the guys who are straight and then they smoke so much crack they all of a sudden want to suck dick? Unless it becomes some sort of a truth serum like acohol.
Um. Story? The Normal Whores Club | |
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